My husband is always wanting to keep me in the bed, He workdks from home and i work outside the home . Sometime he makes me head trip . Thinking he has someone here . An if i dont give him none he starts making me think he is getting else were .He will throw a fit if i dont give him any what should i do , He is making me tired and I have everyday life to do .
2007-02-13 08:17:14 · 12 answers · asked by tfrazee71 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HAVE A SPOUSE WHO ALWAYS WANTS TO "BANG" IT GETS ON MY DAMN NERVES BECAUSE IF IT WAS UP TO HIM WE WOULD HAVE SEX EVERYDAY. ME MYSELF I'M GOOD ONCE R TWICE OUT THE WEEK. IF I DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM THEN HE SAYS STUPID THINGS LIKE " U MUST B GIVING IT 2 SOME1 ELSE" WE ARGUE A LOT BECAUSE HE WANTS IT LIKE I'M A SLAB OF MEAT. IT'S BEEN MANY TIMES I'VE WANTED HIM 2 MOVE OUT BECAUSE OF THIS. I'M JUST 2 THE POINT WHERE I'M LIKE WHATEVER YOU THINK. WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER 21/2 YEARS, AND I'VE NEVER CHEATED!!!!!!! HE TOLD ME I HAVE A PROBLEM BECAUSE I DON'T WANT IT AS MUCH AS HE DOES. BUT I THINK HE'S THE ONE WITH THE PROBLEM.
2007-02-13 08:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Thick S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really recommend that you put your food down regarding this. He may have some sort of disorder in which he only feels complete or fine if he has sex. This is very concerning. I'd recommend help. Why don't you see a professional for more advice and tips. You'll need the support one can give you on a regular basis.
You can also try more subtle things like not seeming interested or letting him know you are sore etc. See if he even cares about your feelings when you do. If not.... well, he may not be right for you.
TGW
2007-02-13 08:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by thegrinningwolf 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you need a break. Tell him that once a day, at night after you have gotten everything done that YOU want to get done is when/if you will do it. But it is not fair to expect you to be "on" all the time. He's a man, he's at home, he's bored. Of course he's horny. Like he doesn't look at porn online. Yeah, he just wants you. Talk to him and explain it.
If that doesn't work, give him a bottle of lotion and some tissues and tell him that there is more than one way to get things done.
2007-02-13 08:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that your sex drive is not as high as his. If he throws it in your face that he'll get it elsewhere, then you will grow to resent him. He needs to respect your desires as well. Us woman aren't just about the guy pounding us all the time. (we are not a human toilet) This is a tough one, I know when I dated a guy like that, I broke it off because it just seemed selfish for him to demand it when I wasn't in the mood.
Wanting it that much is not normal. You have to ask yourself, "can I live with this? and can he live with the fact that I don't want it as much as he does?" If the answer is no to either or both, this relationship will eventually end.
2007-02-13 08:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody else, you husband has some serious issues and you want to get away from him before things start getting worse. Because is obviously he only cares about sex and nothing else. What type of relationship can you have with a guy who is a crazy sex machine.
2007-02-13 08:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Johnnyboy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take him to a few sites on the Internet about Dopamine addictions. Pleasure addicts is a more simplistic term. Until he quits being a pleasure addict he will use and abuse your for his sexual exploitation.
Now where is the bottle of kyjelly for the times you don't want to git r dun as it were?
2007-02-13 08:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. I'm like that in bed myself. BUT I'm not so stupid as he is to do mind games and all that other stupid stuff. He's just trying to get you in bed more. But maybe he DOES have someone on the side. It's soooo stupid for him to do what he is doing.
2007-02-13 08:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by MrKnowItAll 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whow divorce him immediately that is uncalled for he is just using you as a sex slave dear no wonder you are so very tired me my selfi would love to have a nice ladie with me and have sex to but once or twice a day is enough
2007-02-13 08:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by harold g 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok, he Might need some help, it sounds like an addiction... a sexual addiction can cause you to feel like you HAVE to have it... get him to a doctor
2007-02-13 08:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop bathing.
2007-02-13 08:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋