and did some other things now im not ususally that kinda person now i feel kinda diffrent towards him like somethings changed not in a bad way just a little uneasy in a way i cant really describe it why am i feeling like this i dont know what to say to him im just kinda off bye my self i dont want him thinking he did anything wrong its just new for me so please serious answers only!! thanks
2007-02-13 08:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by cinerella19772 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont think it matters on the poses i was wondering if this feeling is normal i feel awakward around him im glad icould plz him but it like i look at him in a new way
2007-02-13 08:33:12 · update #1
it was just a new experience and how do i get over this feeling of awakwardness
2007-02-13 08:36:21 · update #2
Its ok to feel likle that the first time but , As time moves on to tell you the truth if you liked it and enjoyed it dont fight it and maybe thats what you needed to do is some soul searching and maybe you have the freak in you , i have only had fun and enjoyed and took the life a lot of more real that there are thing in the world that r at sin and thats what makes it so Hot !!!! Get open and do the fun things and if everyone likes it and you lknow your partner and new at it it's ok to feel that new weird feeling , you will get use to it and you will like whta has to come out of it.
2007-02-13 08:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by tfrazee71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I have been married for 15 years and still feel "dirty" and uneasy at times during sex. I think it was how we were raised. Like how are parents told us about sex. I wouldn't feel bad though. You did nothing wrong. Nothing has changed, maybe your relationship just got a little "deeper". He is your husband, I am sure that if you talked to him, he would understand. Be sure to tell him that the things you did are not an every time thing. Make those things happen for special times only. I think it is normal to feel like that, so stop beating yourself up. You have to have fun every once in a while. Please be at ease with yourself. Good luck. :)
2007-02-13 08:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take charge and the initiative to alter issues. do no longer flow in there settling that it is going to likely be the comparable. ask your self him via dressing up in undies or some leather-based outfit. Tie him up and tease the residing bejeezus out of him. no longer less than consult from him and enable him be conscious of the form you sense. in case you somewhat sit down and communicate approximately it perhaps you could come across one yet another's fantasies and build upon them at the same time. Do in spite of you elect to in basic terms see you later as you the two are mushy with it.
2016-12-17 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by mundell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what you have basically said here, and talk about what you 2 can do that both of you would feel at ease with, but nothing wrong in feeling the way you do especially if 2 have never shared intimacy like that before....
2007-02-13 08:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Renee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Involve him in it. Get him to take the lead and tell you what he wants. The more you two share desires and fantasies, the more you will bond intimately.
2007-02-13 08:21:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did entire posses? Like the sheriff, too?
If you mean poses, then i'm afraid I'd have to see them before I can tell you whether or not it should bother you.
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2007-02-13 08:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well first of all you need to tell him how you feel.maybe that will help.you dont want to make him think he did something wrong then both of you will be alone in this.
2007-02-13 08:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by boobookitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you should've done. There is no reason to feel uncomfortable about it.
sf
2007-02-13 17:13:55 · answer #8 · answered by Silver Fox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What did you guys do? Be specific. I don't think it could have been that bad? I mean you guys are married!!! What did you guys do?
2007-02-13 08:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of posses?
2007-02-13 08:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋