Other - Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

my aunt died in 1995, i am told i was in her will , can i retrieve her will on the internet ?

2007-02-09 06:33:49 · 1 answers · asked by joni n 1

I have changed so much after having my 2nd Son,I don't know what to do, also I have had so much stuff to deal with it's scarey ,am I depressed or just another parent with 2 kids,having to deal with the day to day stuff,sometimes I feel like, I have been dropped into someone elses life.
My Husband is as much use as a chocolate tea-pot when it comes to everything cept he can work,in other words he helps with nothing else,homework,school play's and all the other parental stuff.

I also work about 50 hrs a week,I have a prof career and the kids are at child care the most of the time,where is everything going wrong ?
All he want's to do when he finishes work is go for a Beer,as for me I have to organise everything for the next day,you know lunches,cloths,homework and all the other stuff
I spose my question is does he give a S*** or should I just dump him?
I am so shattered all the time I don't know whether I am coming or going
Only felt like this since our 2nd son was born.
help pls

2007-02-09 06:27:17 · 16 answers · asked by live life 4

I dont know how to make the transition... I know I want to and need to... How do I stop thinking about all the times he hurt me and all the hurtful things he said to me? I was with him when I was pregnant with my son.... Till now... hes 1 1/2 years old.... He says I will ruin Devons life if I dont let him see him! How do I gain confidence again after hes torn me down so much? He knows he can step all over me right now because Im vulnerable to the pain... How do I put all the pain and Anger and hate and turn it into something else... I need to start all over again with my son....Car, Home, Job, DayCAre, EVERYTHING! Where do I look to find the courage? Encouraging words would be helpful here too!

2007-02-09 06:21:33 · 14 answers · asked by greygirl06 2

My husband tells me sex is like urinating for a man. Just a body function. With no emotions attached. He says he loves me, but for a man sex is just sex. Is this true. No emotional connection?

2007-02-09 06:20:48 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I give my girlfriend a lot of attention while I'm awake. I'm considerate and thoughtful...and I really love spending time with her.
We don't fight much and when we do we both are able to really rationalize and resolve our differences effectively. However - When we go to bed, we may cuddle for a little while , but when it's time for me to actually 'sleep', I need to roll over in my own little space and not be touched or have her laying on me. ..otherwise I can't fall asleep.

When I am asleep she say that I push her away when she tries to cuddle up to me. I'm sometimes even woken up.
She is upset in the mornings and says she doesn't like sleeping with my because I'm 'cold'. I can't change the fact that I need some space to sleep.
She says she tries to ignore it but she still gets upset that "sleeping-me" doesn't give her attention.

I feel this is ridiculous. What do you think I can do to resolve this issue?

2007-02-09 06:10:30 · 8 answers · asked by Forreal 2

2007-02-09 06:06:47 · 12 answers · asked by bigmumu2003 1

My b/f and I have been dating for 15 months, moved in together after 10 months. He wants to move out and have his own space again. He thinks we moved in together too early. He has been separated for two years, and is in the process of finalizing his divorce. He is also facing a lot of stress at work (possibly losing his job), is worried about his elderly father with bad health, has regrets about not being there for his grown kids more when they were growing up, and is worried that he is a failure because he hasn't accomplished a major life goal in a creative field.

I asked him if he is ending the relationship, he said he isn't, he loves me and we will still be a couple, but he needs time to recover his identity (we made the mistake of spending virtually all of our time together after we moved in) and focus on his job and the creative project.

And the more the stress piles up, the more he shuts me out. I want to believe him, that we will be okay, but I am insecure due to my past.

2007-02-09 05:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by KLB 1

I find out my boyfriend date with other gril, and he want to break up with me. I think the most reason is because the gril.
I am feel very sad. This relationship just end up. When someone don't have any feel with you he become cool person which I never see before. I have to accept that because he don't want stay with me and I can not keep he anymore. He had one night stand with someone before and then he lied to me. Allways said that there is no grils, but that is not truth. He asked that gril be his grilfriend before we broken up. That is so hurt me. I hate him.

2007-02-09 05:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by 22CoCO 1

my sister is know dating a guy that i liked and had sex with, he did tell me before we started that he didn't want a girlfriend and i agreed. but my younger sister can have anyone she wanted and choose him, they hid it at first but said that they really cared for each other and sorry but they were going to be together. should i forgive her?

2007-02-09 05:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by ☼ utopia ☼ 1

My granddad died many years ago,I have never had a dream about him before,but the other night I saw him in my dream.He was sitting on a swing eating a bannana
and he said all they give him in heaven is bannanas to eat
he's so sick of it.What does this mean if anything.

2007-02-09 05:48:14 · 8 answers · asked by selma b 4

Me and my fiancee (getting married April 08) want to move to the bigger town about 30 mins away from where we are now. His 2 friends are also moving there. When we first talked about it they were going to get their own place and we would get ours. Me and him have been living together by ourselves for about 4 months now and it will be about a yr total when we actually move. Now my fiancee wants to have his two friends (maybe just one of them) move in with us and we all get a house at the new town because it will be cheaper. Idk if i want to do that because i'm used to it just being us two, we're getting married soon, and i don't really mind being the only girl living with 3 guys but it does factor in. What would you guys do and why?

2007-02-09 05:46:36 · 4 answers · asked by all4him 3

Should we really be defining it? When i met my boyfriend, i'd never in my life had someone i got on so well with, not a friend or anything. he was just my best friend instantly. he's been on my mind constantly, i mean NON STOP since then. i care about him alot. i miss him when i'm not around him. i just wanna touch and kiss him. i find that everything i do is in some way motivated by a thought of him. i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend either, he treats me wonderfully. i don't look at anyone else. when i'm with him though i'm just...comfortable you know? i feel that yearning and loving feeling when i'm without him. he says he loves me, but because i don't "just know", i'm scared for the relationship.

2007-02-09 05:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2

2007-02-09 05:44:30 · 3 answers · asked by Leslie B 1

2007-02-09 05:42:51 · 2 answers · asked by Kelly R 1

My hubby is such a great fella...He helps around the house, he loves the kids so much and he is the most wonderful man that you culd meet. for me anyway.....What is about your hubby that makes you know that you love him as much as you do...Please ladies try to keep this one clean, i am fragile you know, dicky heart and all.......Only kidding,, just keep yout private life to your selves,PLEASE>>>>>>

2007-02-09 05:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by GRANDMA 3

Does anyone know of any tantra instructors in DC?
I need help!!!! LOL!

2007-02-09 05:41:38 · 2 answers · asked by Bob B 1

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughts out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to the time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him? I still enjoy having sex with him and enjoy making him dinners, spending nights at home alone but the smallest things are driving me crazy!This is my first non dramatic relationship where I actually trust the guy could this be why maybe cause it is so unfamiliar?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit....Thanks!

2007-02-09 05:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time she has told them how much she loves them, but yet she still tells me how much she loves me, and she hasn't done it for a year now, confused and mixed emotions what should I do?

2007-02-09 05:26:06 · 18 answers · asked by Big B 1

I think that my b.f. might have taken my baby's s.s. card because I had it somewhere, and he seen it. A couple days later, it went missing, and when I told him about it he just shrugged it off and said, " You need to start being more responsible for your things, especially something like that." But he was the only one who knew where it was besides me. I don't know what to think. It would really hurt me bad to find out that I'm right.



What can he use it for if my son is a baby of 6 months, will it do him any good?

2007-02-09 05:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by Mermaid 2

my girlfreind borrowed a hundred dollars off me and said she would be back for a concert experiance the next evening and have the money.we hadn't seen eachother for two weeks but spoke regularly.we seemed to be in love,i tried making moves on her before she left and much to my surprise she denied me.with the money in hand ,she darted out the door saying she had to hurry to work.BUT as she was leaving the driveway i noticed there was another person in the car with her,(she left someone in the car)she didnt tell me .i tried phoneing her cell and it was turned off.I immediatly new she had lied to me,and,this person waiting was the reason she turned me down so fast .(her phone was still off and its never off).I left a message on her home machine which is a half hours drive away.I told her machine my concern was that i was stressed about who was in the car and that i needed to hear from her to feel better.the next morning she cancelled the concert ,said her dad was in an accident?ithurtsman

2007-02-09 05:24:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He strted home a couple of hours ago and it only takes about
15 minutes.
I got the soup and slippers ready - it don,t stop me worrying
though. I've been told the roads are bad tonight.

2007-02-09 05:23:18 · 18 answers · asked by Minxy 5

I just wanted to know if you can share about how drugs have affected family or friends

2007-02-09 05:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by gone from here too 4

2007-02-09 05:19:20 · 16 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2

2007-02-09 05:19:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was young I dated a boy for about 5 yrs, I got pregnant and he split. He wanted nothing to do with me or the baby. Then when I was 3 months pregnant I meant my ex husband. We fell in love, got married and he adopted my child. My childs biological father has turned out to be addicted to drugs and no good. But now as my son is older and starting to date, I worry because he goes to school with alot of his biological cousins and he dont know that his "dad" isn't his real father. My ex-husband is a great man and a wonderful father. Even though we divorced, he is still 100 % active in our sons life and never wants him to find out. But I feel like I am lying to my child and what if he starts dating someone who is actually related to him, or worse yet, what if one of them tell him the truth...What should I do? Help!

2007-02-09 05:15:35 · 15 answers · asked by Vicki B 2

I was in Netherlands once w/ a Sex-Vorker. Upon seeing my limp penis, she laughed. I still made love to her, but she cut me deep, real deep.

2007-02-09 05:14:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been together now for abit and trying for a baby for 4 month now and had no luck but his ex girlfriend is pregnant wiyh his kid and i jew they baby anytime now and i dont no how to take it he says to me now again i dont think the baby is mine but every time she fones to talk about the baby all i seem to do is go of an cry i love him with all my heart and he loves me but do yous have any tips to help me keep myself together for when she has the baby please help!!

2007-02-09 05:07:23 · 12 answers · asked by scrummy mummy 2

Should this be alarming?

You know how in a cartoon you might see a guy with an angel and devil on his shoulder, each one trying to get him to listen to them. Well, I am sorta like that. I have one , I named her Tiffany. She is my horny alter ego, then I have Emmaleigh she is the laid back one who waits to do anything intimate.

Which one should i 'listen' to the most?

2007-02-09 05:04:35 · 1 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4

Can two people who once dated remain friends after breaking up due to there being no spark? Could that friendship turn into love over time?

2007-02-09 05:00:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your spouse and your child were drowning and you could save only one of them, who would it be and why?

2007-02-09 04:50:06 · 5 answers · asked by redneck_shoppers 2