my sister is know dating a guy that i liked and had sex with, he did tell me before we started that he didn't want a girlfriend and i agreed. but my younger sister can have anyone she wanted and choose him, they hid it at first but said that they really cared for each other and sorry but they were going to be together. should i forgive her?
2007-02-09 05:55:22 · 5 answers · asked by ☼ utopia ☼ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop for a second and try to be happy for them. If you sister is truly happy and he is happy then be happy for them.
Do not look at it as something they are "DOING" to you...
that should make it easier for you... I hope... you can either let anger and resentment own you or you can let it go and move on...
2007-02-09 06:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dont mean to sound like a b***h or anything but really why would u sleep with someone ur not datin thats wrong ur sister is a lil ho....u need to forgive her its not ur fault he found some1 else but u agreed to not wantin a relationship too and if he says he didnt want a g/f then slept wit u and then a lil while after hes with her well that just means he liked her all along and used u to get to her and get a lil extra... sry this ones on u....
2007-02-09 14:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As tough as this may be to hear...yes of course you should forgive her. She is your sister...sisters should NEVER let a guy come between them. Besides, let her have him. I'm sure you're too good to be with a guy who is gonna lie to you and sneak around. Your prince will come...
2007-02-09 13:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Joker1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her for what? For dating your one night stand? He didn't want you, you knew that, what's the problem? Quit being jealous and move on with your life.
2007-02-09 14:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound like there's anything to forgive! you weren't even going out, let alone married, so what's the problem?
2007-02-09 13:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋