Should we really be defining it? When i met my boyfriend, i'd never in my life had someone i got on so well with, not a friend or anything. he was just my best friend instantly. he's been on my mind constantly, i mean NON STOP since then. i care about him alot. i miss him when i'm not around him. i just wanna touch and kiss him. i find that everything i do is in some way motivated by a thought of him. i couldn't ask for a better boyfriend either, he treats me wonderfully. i don't look at anyone else. when i'm with him though i'm just...comfortable you know? i feel that yearning and loving feeling when i'm without him. he says he loves me, but because i don't "just know", i'm scared for the relationship.
2007-02-09 05:46:01 · 7 answers · asked by Chasey Lane 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love is more than an emotion. People feel emotional about someone and they think its love.
2007-02-09 05:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by struck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most common mistake or downfall or whatever is doubt! If your in love your right you just know! You cant explain it you cant define it! Love has no rules, no boundaries, no limits, no time frame, no age frame.... Sadly enough people get mad all the time when a 14 girl says she is in love yes in some way she is! There are so many ways to love someone! You wouldnt love your boyfriend the same way you loved your mom! You also wouldnt love your bestfriend the way you loved your lil brother! You see? Sounds to me like you have alot of attraction! Which theres nothing wrong with that! Dont rush love let it bloom and blosom! When you are truely beyond a shadow of a doubt in love you wont defend it and you wont question it! You will see the world in his eyes and his eyes everywhere in the world!
2007-02-09 13:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people get confused on what is love. Love is not feelings, it's duty. I can say, I love hot dogs, sports, my job and my mom. Obviously these are different kinds of love. For one thing. There is the new tingle spark of a new relationship, that's not love. The best example I can think of is that God loves us even when we don't love him. Love is a duty, an action. Love is in the mind, not the emotions.
2007-02-09 13:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They realize years later when the butterflies don't flutter in their tummies anymore and life gets hard.
When it's not all dates and gifts. When it turns into bills, arguments, and real life problems.
When you have real life problems, when you are screaming at him at the top of your lungs because you are mad, but yet in the back of your mind you just want to hug him, you are in love. When you get mad at him and the first thought in your head isn't to leave him or dump him.
When you can wake up in the morning and not care if he sees you without make up. When you can look at him and not get grossed out at the idea of chaning his diaper when he's 95. When you can both go out and go to separate movies and be fine with it. When you don't get pouty because he wants to go hang out with his friends.
2007-02-09 13:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask 20 different people to define love you could get 20 different answers. Your definition of love is yours and no one can tell you different.
2007-02-09 14:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason that most relationships change is because one has moved on and relized hey you are not what iam looking for so we are over or maybe the female ends up with a baby and he is scared and leaves so you keep giving hime what he wants
2007-02-09 13:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by jingle bells 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all is not as it seems we sometimes will ourselves into believing things take your time and go slow have a great weekend
2007-02-09 14:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋