me and my boyfriend have been together now for abit and trying for a baby for 4 month now and had no luck but his ex girlfriend is pregnant wiyh his kid and i jew they baby anytime now and i dont no how to take it he says to me now again i dont think the baby is mine but every time she fones to talk about the baby all i seem to do is go of an cry i love him with all my heart and he loves me but do yous have any tips to help me keep myself together for when she has the baby please help!!
2007-02-09 05:07:23 · 12 answers · asked by scrummy mummy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i ment she jew they baby soon end of month
2007-02-09 05:12:44 · update #1
can i ask u something ? his ex is pregnant from him and u want a baby too and u are trying for 4 months now ............how long do u know him ? dont u think its a bit too soon ? he will become twice a father and he is ok with that ?
2007-02-09 05:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just have to keep telling yourself that they broke up for a reason. if his ex was pregnant and he left her there must have been a pretty huge reason. dont be so sensitive. hes trying for a baby with you- doesnt that tell u something. when the baby does come, show your bf what a great gf you can be and treat the baby as your own. his ex will always be in your life now and you have to accept it but you also have to understand that he chose you against all odds and you are the girl he wants to be with. xx
2007-02-09 13:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying. and stop worrying. just have sex without a condom, but do not worry. the tension can effect the contraception rate.
also, if your not getting pregnant, there is a reason. And you may not see it yet, but life may represent to you a truth about your man, which may have you be happy that you did not have a baby with him.
All I m saying is, life usually knows what s best for us, when we fight it, we get in trouble.
2007-02-09 13:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Aaron M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one...but you can never be too sure that baby his ex is carrying can be anybodies ...don't stress too much till you see a paternity test
2007-02-09 13:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you read what you wrote you would RUN RUN away and be happy you aren't pregnant. She and the baby will always be in his life all holidays vacations.
2007-02-09 13:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see what happens when the baby is born, then you will have to ask him to go for a test to check if the baby is his.
2007-02-10 14:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by spo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a baby with him untill he gets a patternity test done
2007-02-09 13:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't want to get pregnant with a man who "does'nt know if a baby is his or not".
Grow up and ditch the loser.
2007-02-09 13:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Earwigo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) EX is pregnant..check
2) Short term relationships? ...check
3) He is obviously not worried about bringing another human being into this world?..check
4)Regardless of paternity test, he jumps in different beds often....check
Drop him and be happy YOU are not pregnant.
2007-02-09 13:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by RR77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a fine kettle of fish that you have gotten yourself into.
2007-02-09 13:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋