she said i love u before she left and sounded real.pleas help my pain disapear.im missing school over this?

Question

my girlfreind borrowed a hundred dollars off me and said she would be back for a concert experiance the next evening and have the money.we hadn't seen eachother for two weeks but spoke regularly.we seemed to be in love,i tried making moves on her before she left and much to my surprise she denied me.with the money in hand ,she darted out the door saying she had to hurry to work.BUT as she was leaving the driveway i noticed there was another person in the car with her,(she left someone in the car)she didnt tell me .i tried phoneing her cell and it was turned off.I immediatly new she had lied to me,and,this person waiting was the reason she turned me down so fast .(her phone was still off and its never off).I left a message on her home machine which is a half hours drive away.I told her machine my concern was that i was stressed about who was in the car and that i needed to hear from her to feel better.the next morning she cancelled the concert ,said her dad was in an accident?ithurtsman

Answer 1

Well cookie seems like you lost this round, it seems to be that it's obvious that she did use you. Before you go and give another woman money, remember that no respecting woman is going to allow you to give her money anyway, she'll go to everyone in her family before she goes outside of it. Especially not 100 dollars that's a lot of money what were you thinking? The fact that she had no explanation for who this guy was shows that she totally disregards your feelings and just doesn't care, so you'r ebetter without her. Go to school and move on, because waiting for her to come around could mean the end of your school career and you never let anyone effect how and what you do. You made a mistake, your feelings got thrown in the dirt but now it's time to get back up. Only time will tell, that's vital. Remember that in future relationships. Good luck hon!

Answer 2

she used u and took your money under false pretenses, had another guy all along. she took advantage of your good generous heart. she now is avoiding u, just cowardly behavior out of her. yes it does hurt and hurts extra bad if we have been fooled and tricked. its part of life, and in everyone life we will meet up with many different people some nice some not. it's a learning process for us, preparing us for life in the real world, she did u an injustice used u, hurt u, and after it is all said and done u will survive it, but with a little bit more wisdom than u had, a little less trustful than u were, not your fault, she scammed u yes we do live and learn by the circumstances we have come into our lives. but also know she is probably going to do the same thing to the next guy in her life, because this is who she is, this is part of her character.

Answer 3

Well life stinks huh, how old are you? Are you good looking, I'll go out with you because there is more fish in the sea and I'm a mermaid!!


In Love my day is not going the greatest either so
when I read your post, well I kinda just went out
there.(as stated above)

Can you be there for her while her Dad is in bad
shape, if she doesn't need you now then I would say,
ho hmm, she doesn't need you.

I just want you to know that you are going to find a
great partner some day because your not afraid to
speak from within. Write me anytime.

Answer 4

Ah. If only I could find the answer to this question, I would be elated. I know exactly how much love can hurt- feels like hell. I've been struggling with how to forget this person myself, and all the advice I've gotten was to go to the gym. Gee, thanks. Oh, and to hook up with someone else. I have always been fit, so the first option doesn't help much. And as for the second one, not gonna happen. If you ever find a way to get over it, tell me.

Answer 5

you know move on forget her money comes money goes there is more fish in the sea

Answer 6

its bound to hurt.
just try to forget about her.
she doesn't sound like a nice person.