Other - Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

I carry the same characteristics as my Zodiac sign. Just want to know of what guys think of detail-oriented, loyal, productive, perfectionist gals.

2007-02-09 04:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by Femme 2

My husband's 30th birthday is on Valentine's Day and I was thinking about finding out where he would be throughout the day and have him collect 30 roses from his stops along the way. He owns his business but I'm not sure how he would feel about getting flowers. We've been married for 10 years and I am pretty ashamed that I don't know how he feels about it. I have bought him flowers before but it was when he returned home from visiting his dying grandmother out of state. Any advise or ideas would be really helpful!!!
Thanks so much.

2007-02-09 04:40:47 · 24 answers · asked by tabbikat 2

The movie Back to the Future, Biff went back in time to give himself that Gray's Sports Alamanc. If you could go back in time to where you were younger, what one thing would you tell yourself that might make a difference in how life has turned out for you?

2007-02-09 04:30:35 · 12 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

Which would you prefer I pour on you?

2007-02-09 04:12:06 · 14 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2

2007-02-09 04:04:54 · 10 answers · asked by SANDIE 2

2007-02-09 04:03:39 · 6 answers · asked by SANDIE 2

I am worrying constantly if I have fallen out of love with my boyfriend and it is making me so sad....Would I be worrying like this if I didnt love him or would I just let him go? Cause I will NOT break up with him!

2007-02-09 04:02:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-09 03:46:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's giving indications that he wants to get reckless and end his life etc. I'm sure it wont come to that but I can't say it wont for sure and it's really bothering me. I genuinely feel really sorry him and want to help, however, I don't want to get back with him and didn't realise how vunerable he was.

2007-02-09 03:44:50 · 13 answers · asked by sammy 2

i'm 15 years old. i have a sister who's 18 (nearly) and has a 20/80 chance of living, something along those lines anyway....so everyone's still hoping.

i don't know why but it's not hitting me...we were always so close and she's awesome. i'm not upset in any way.....so then i try to think of what it would be like without her, it doesn't upset me...i feel like i'd just live on.

i rather not talk about it but i know i do have friends to talk to about it and teachers and stuff....this is really when i thought "what is wrong with me," cause a teacher asked me to come talk to her and she was cool about it and she was like "so how r u about the situation" and i didn't know what to say, i don't feel anything!!

what's wrong with me?...

, Jenny

2007-02-09 03:44:33 · 17 answers · asked by Jenny R 1

my gf of 1 year told me she would move to be with me and gave me a list of things to do before she moved here. i immediately started work on this list because i was totally excited and in love. well the day after she told her mom that she was moving in with me and her mom sent her on a guilt trip so now she says that she isnt ready to be with me and she wants to me to wait on her to get her own place find a good car and start college and finish it before she will move up here to be with me. i am totally in favor of her getting an education and i told her that i would help her do anything that her heat desired. what is a guy to do about this and should i just call it quits or do i wait????

we ilve 3 hrs apart and we only get to see each other like once a month. i really need someone in my life that i can come home to and have them come home to me, someone to love and care for, someone who would do the same for me.

PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-02-09 03:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by yungblud00 2

You have 24 hours left on earth. What do you do? I'm looking for answers for a final paper for a college course on human behavior.

2007-02-09 03:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by Dawn S 2

2007-02-09 03:30:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been feeling really down recently - I'm missing my Mum loads (who died 10 years ago - I'm suddenly missing her more and more), my relationship with my husband is in a bad way and has been for a while now, work is real busy which is good, but means I'm always tired, and I just feel I have no fun anymore. I'm 26 next week and sometimes feel I'm about to turn 66! I wonder how my life has got to this and was hoping some of you out there may have some ideas to pick me up a bit?

2007-02-09 03:18:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is kind of ill... i hope he will be fine.. SOS!

2007-02-09 03:16:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-09 03:11:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

im still in love with my ex but he's moved on to one of the most sleezist girls at my school.there are other guys who want to be with me but i cant get over my ex.i cant be jelous of the nasty girls hes with because i know that they could never have what we had.i just dont see why hes with her.she gave him MONO & she messes around with his best friend & all the boys she lives around & he still hasn't left her.i know after all of this it would be dumb to still want him but i cant help it.

2007-02-09 03:08:41 · 6 answers · asked by frankiejbaby25 1

And just the tought of seducing a man gets me hot. I don't think I'm normal. Is this a good thing or bad thing? I want to have sex everyday , and my boyfriend says if I want it and he doesn't ( which isn't so often) I'm sleeping with someone else. I thought men love to be with women like myself?

2007-02-09 03:06:44 · 12 answers · asked by Dark & Lovely 1

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-09 02:37:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This Question is for ADULTS in Long term Relationships (1 year or more) ONLY

How many times a week do you and your partner have "relations" on average?

What do you think is too little?
Why?

When is it ok for things to slow down?

Honest answers only please...


Reason I asked:

We went from the begining - every time we saw each other

to

Now maybe once a week. (even tho it has gotten considerably better over time)

I just started going to school at night 3x a week till 9 ish
work 9-5 mo -fri
and work sat 4 till 10

He wants to but never initiates it because he fears me rejecting him since im always so tired

I am the one who initiates it when ever we do.

I'm afraid no that we arent seeing eachother as much as b4 AND our sex life is slow that things will fall apart.

He has fully expressed being scared that I am not attracted to him any more... and I have told him I definetly am.

What can we do?
And do you think something is wrong?

2007-02-09 02:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by xxkittenluvxx143 3

I'm just curious to know if ex's usually go back to you? I'm in a situation like this, and I've finally given up and decided to move on, my ex gf got use to me clinging on and always being there, but I'm sick and tired of being someone's doormat! My ex has moved on as well, but I agreed to still be a friend (I know, dumb), but I don't call or even text my ex anymore. My ex has made it clear that she's with someone else (even though my ex cheated on her current gf with me), and said she's trying to have a faithful relationship now. (yea right), my ex has ALWAYS had a problem staying faithful. The "faithfulness" will prob last for about a month or two, but I know my ex better than anyone. I'm just curious from other's experience, if you've gone through these "games" with an ex, it's like one minute they want you, then the next it's goodbye..what gives? Do they usually come back later, once they know you've moved on and want nothing with them???

2007-02-09 02:29:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was inspired by a question someone asked about suicide in the family.

My brother's wife (30 years old) is dangerous. She is a paranoid schizophrenic who does illegal drugs, drinks about 20 alcoholic drinks a day (I AM NOT KIDDING), and dissappears with her girlfriends for days at a time going to weekend-long parties and having sex with anyone she wants. My brother and her have 2 children, age 8 and 6.

They live in Ontario and there, unless there is physical violence the children will not be taken away from the mother. If my brother divorces her, she will get custody of the kids because the court system's attitude in Canada is that kids always need to be with their mother - even a crazy, coke-snorting alcholic mother. So he stays to protect and care for the kids.

I consider this behavior dangerous, but the law does not. I wish I could do something about this. Has anyone else dealt with anything like it?

2007-02-09 02:27:51 · 4 answers · asked by fucose_man 5

My partner looks on the bad side of everytime because he says if something good happens then he's had a result. This attitude is now making my life a misery, can anyone out there help?

2007-02-09 02:24:38 · 15 answers · asked by Carol T 1

How many times a week do you and your partner have "relations" on average?

What do you think is too little?
Why?

When is it ok for things to slow down?

Honest answers only please...

2007-02-09 02:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by xxkittenluvxx143 3

My boyfriend is from India, I am British. I have been with him a yr now but his family in india do not know about me. he always says he will tell them but never does. I feel like he's hiding me. He's living 200 miles away from me at the moment and its very hard as i only see him once a month (due to our jobs). Its lasted this long so there must be something special, but i'm fed up of being hidden. he knows how i feel but says it is hard for him because of the culture and society, he says his parents wont agree. I do love him but im not sure how much longer i should go like this. What should i do?

2007-02-09 01:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by YOLA 2

She already has eight mp3 n ipods, she loves spongebob, she loves music, she plays basketball, she loves Jordan, and I want it to be afforable. It has to be special because her birthday is on Valentine's Day, but she doesn't want any bears, ballons, chocolate etc.

2007-02-09 01:53:50 · 3 answers · asked by lean wit it 1

me and him got into an argument and we decided not to talk anymore...its been about a week now and ive heard from one of my and his close friend that his been asking about me and i also been asking about him and we've both told her that we miss eachother, but that were not going to attempt to make the first move into trying to get back together or calling.he told my friend that the reason he hasnt called its because he knows were going to get back together and that s why he hasnt called.the reason he thinks he knows is because since my friend tells both of us how the other one is feeling then he already knows ive been missing him like crazy and he's sure that were going to get back toghether..well what should i do...ima go have fun tonight is friday and im going out trying to meet people but in reality i just want him...its sad cuz valentines is around the corner and i really want him and i to be together...

2007-02-09 01:41:59 · 14 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1

My bf and I have ben together for 2 years and 4 months and I have never been happier. BUT in the begining I was by far more interested in "relations" then I am now. The wierd thing is that it has gotten by far better as time has gone on. I am still very attracted to him and he is starting to think I am not because I dont jump all over him like I used to when we first started having "relations."

I keep blaming it on external things beyond my control and I am worried that this is really not normal.

I now have 2 jobs, 1 9-5 Mon through Fri and the other is waiting tables Sat night AND recently just started going to school again at night Tue Wed and Thur til around 9pm. Plus my job has gotten 3x as stressful then it was.

He says he doesn't "act aggressivly" and try because I constantly complain that I am tired, have a headache, and don't feel well. He doesn't want to seem selfish I guess. I told him it would happen more if he was aggressive about it since I'm not because im tired

2007-02-09 01:33:52 · 3 answers · asked by xxkittenluvxx143 3

2007-02-09 01:29:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im so Confused and i need any help that you can offer me. Im worrying about this problem over and over and cant come to any rational answer.
Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 5 months now and up unitl 2 months ago everything was OUT OF THIS WORLD....Honestly It was fantastic. I could see my future with him stretching into the distance.

One day out of the blue a thought entered my head - what if I dont love him - What if it is all my imagination and I am convincing myself of this.

Since then, which was 2 months ago I cant get the thoughtd out of my head, they worry me from the time I get up to thje time I go to bed. They worry me when I am at work and even somtimes (rarely) When I Am with my boyfriend. When I hug him and kiss him, in the back of my mind a voice is asking me if what im doing is fair on him because what if deep down inside I Dont love him?

I have explained this to my bf and he is being very supportive. I still enjoy spending time with him and enjoy goign on weekend getaways with him but prefer to just me him and I and no one else we know.

How can I beat this cycle of worry and try to work it out if I really do love him? I keep telling myself that I wouldnt be so hurt and worries at the thought of losing him if I didnt love him, but that doesnt seem to have an effect on my mental state.

Any suggestions? My GP put me on an anti-anxiety pill and that is helping a bit

2007-02-09 01:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous