my gf of 1 year told me she would move to be with me and gave me a list of things to do before she moved here. i immediately started work on this list because i was totally excited and in love. well the day after she told her mom that she was moving in with me and her mom sent her on a guilt trip so now she says that she isnt ready to be with me and she wants to me to wait on her to get her own place find a good car and start college and finish it before she will move up here to be with me. i am totally in favor of her getting an education and i told her that i would help her do anything that her heat desired. what is a guy to do about this and should i just call it quits or do i wait????
we ilve 3 hrs apart and we only get to see each other like once a month. i really need someone in my life that i can come home to and have them come home to me, someone to love and care for, someone who would do the same for me.
PLEASE HELP!!!!
2007-02-09 03:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by yungblud00 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i've told her that i love her and that i want to marry her. she still doesnt want to be with me. but wants me to wait??????
2007-02-09 04:01:34 · update #1
She is scared. She has a child to think about too, its not just the rest of her life she is effecting with such a sudden decision. her son will be effected, and everyone involved will be effected. If I were a man, I would wait on the woman I loved. Of the year you have known her, you have spent all of 4 or 5 days with her son, she can't just move her son that barely knows you into your house and expect everything to go over well. She knows no one up there, really. She seems to love you very much, If you can't handle the wait, then I don't guess she's for you. She wants you to be happy. She probably cares about your happiness more than hers.
2007-02-09 08:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that what you are wanting is called marriage. If you really love her and if she really loves you. Get married.
2007-02-09 11:55:09 · answer #2 · answered by 4HIM- Christians love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you love her and how you feel.Tell her if you wanna be with her for the rest of your life.
The bets thing you could do is TELL HER!
2007-02-09 11:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋