me and him got into an argument and we decided not to talk anymore...its been about a week now and ive heard from one of my and his close friend that his been asking about me and i also been asking about him and we've both told her that we miss eachother, but that were not going to attempt to make the first move into trying to get back together or calling.he told my friend that the reason he hasnt called its because he knows were going to get back together and that s why he hasnt called.the reason he thinks he knows is because since my friend tells both of us how the other one is feeling then he already knows ive been missing him like crazy and he's sure that were going to get back toghether..well what should i do...ima go have fun tonight is friday and im going out trying to meet people but in reality i just want him...its sad cuz valentines is around the corner and i really want him and i to be together...
2007-02-09 01:41:59 · 14 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't worry,us girls on the cool like the feeling of wanting someone you know you have but yet seem so far. If you knew it was over then it would be an awful feeling. But,you know and he knows that you really want each other and the playing game of freedom will give you time to really think things over and get your heads straight and take care of things that you have been putting off to the side,because all your spare time was spent with eachother.Hang out with some friends and have a little fun while being careful not to put yourself in a postion to lose him.Don't do anything or go any where people know you or him cause believe me it'll get you back in the long run.People talk and words become gossip and you don't need that to make the situation worse.But, try to wait till Valentines Day and if he really loves you that day you and him will definitely spend the day together.
2007-02-09 02:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two broke up for a reason. I would leave it at that. The second time around tends end even worse because the two people haven't learned from the first time around. I think the best thing to do is to remain apart and not talk. It will take less time to get over him that way. I also wouldn't go back just because Valentine's is coming up.
2007-02-09 01:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you really like him and all then you should make the first move and let him know how u feel, don't just sit there and wait for him.If you really care about him then you have to take responsibility and go for it you really like him huh? Then girl call him and tell him to meet you somewhere DON'T talk about it over the phone.Talk to him Face to face n tell him how u feel and just express how you want to be with him and listen to what he has to say to,Try not to argue just talk to him calmly
2007-02-09 01:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by TrUeGirl4lYfE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him, arrange a date with him and talk things over. Do not put your friend in the middle. It might be to both of your advantage right now but having an intermediate is not always a good thing:)
2007-02-09 01:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
comprehend something....i imagine you're on the mend. even as my husband died, I spent a lengthy time period lacking him. i'd come abode from artwork, throw myself on the mattress, and cry my eyes out. One evening I ventured on-line and regarded up help communities. My Gosh. there have been widows who took up booze and turning tricks via "grief" there have been others who were nevertheless bitterly grieving 5 years later! 5 years. I knew my husband does not choose me turning out to be a drunkard, or crying each evening for 5 years and counting. So, i began doing the failings I used to do and experience....and now, 4 years later I surely have a clean existence and that i'm chuffed. i wager what i'm attempting to assert is %. your self up, and commence doing belongings you delight in. Time will then be able to do her magic :)
2016-11-26 19:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and tell him exactly what you want girl if it was me i would have already done it. i am in the same situation except i aint sure if the guy gives two cents about me and i love him more than anything in the world just follow your heart and it will lead you down the right path
2007-02-09 01:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by brittany s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. He is confident so that make it difficult. Why punish yourself if you want to be with him let know but also let him know your boundaries. You do not want to give him the idea that this will happen all the time so easy.
2007-02-09 01:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you two try and grow up a little and stop playing these silly games? Give him a call.
2007-02-09 01:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lifr is tooooooo short for this kind of relationship. Go find someone real.
2007-02-09 01:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. This thing is pretty childish same goes for him too.
2007-02-09 03:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by I B lady O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋