Other - Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

my best friend had me and another girl sleep over. and we stayed up late and we accidently woke her dad up. he came in and yelled what the **** r u guys doin up at 1:00 in the morning?!?!?! he yanked her arm out of the room and brought her to the garage.. he slapped her.she came back into the room crying her eyes out.. after we gave her all the comfort we could she said she had to change. she got underwear out. strange? then i held her in my arms and tried to get her to calm down and stop breathing so hard.. she told me her ONLY slapped her.. but i think he may of sexually done somethinthing but idk all yet.. she also said when her dad walked out of the garage her MOM came in and just said go upstairs. She knew everything that happend.. but she didn't protect her.. EVERYONE in their family are scared..

Idk what to do because should i tell someone? this is the first time hes done something like this.. I NEED TO HELP her. i dont know who to tell the guidence councler? i have been =[

2007-01-22 11:57:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 11:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by lara 1

2007-01-22 11:49:52 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got in a serious relationship at 15, been with him 4 1/2 years, never really had partying in my life or anything of that sort, grew up way too young, I have no kids.

2007-01-22 11:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was sleeping over at her house with another girl and we stayed up late.. and it was 1:15 in the morning and he dad comes and it says Its god damn 1 in the morninig wut the hell r u doing up???!?! And he yanks her outside the room. He takes her to the garage and slaps her.. thats all that happend he slapped her once.. and i think thats all he did.. but when she came back she was crying and holding her face adn said he slapped her. After we comforter her she said she wanteed to change.. and she changed her underwear too. it was 1 why would she do that. all she told me was that he slapped her.. i hope nothing else happend.
but The friend and i dont know what to do. she said this was the first time.. and says he wont do it again.. but i told her that she doesns't kno that. and i want her out of the house.. i need to get her out of there cuz of her dad.. her dad is soo mean and frightning.. and her mom is Terrified of him.. everyone is.. should i tell my parents? should i tell the

2007-01-22 11:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

most romantic gets the points for best answer

2007-01-22 11:39:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend is having one and says its hard to explain

2007-01-22 11:31:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriends birthday is next week.

Im stuck on what to do for her.

I dont mind spending money but i want some ideas on cheap, romantic nights which will be special for us.

2007-01-22 11:21:51 · 10 answers · asked by William 2

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years has told me last night that he cannot continue this way anymore. He seems quite upset with our long-distance situation and he wants us to change it. We see each other once a month. He has been pretty upset about his job as he hasn't got promoted as he'd hoped for and since then he has been telling me he needs me to be closer to him and not far. He sent me an email today and he explained to me all the options we have and he said he'd be happy if I could be closer to him. He asked me what I think about it. I said I agree and I said I was glad he has raised the topic and I gave him my options and we both agreed to a common goal. However, one thing I dont like is that he gave us a deadline of 6 months as he said that otherwise nothing will change if we dont put some pressure on us. He said if nothing will change within the next 6 months, he wont be able to continue this way anymore. He was very logical and practical about it tonight. What do you think?

2007-01-22 11:20:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 11:07:47 · 5 answers · asked by T 2

is it wrong for me to want ppl to tell me what my problem is like just yell at me and tell me exactly what they hate about me?

2007-01-22 11:01:21 · 2 answers · asked by bethany_8_5 2

would work out in time he was in a relationship (married) but I was lead to believe that it was the children let me have it

2007-01-22 10:55:13 · 3 answers · asked by jennisue 1

how do you know a guy doesn't just want you for sex? I really like this one guy but I'm unsure if its just b/c he wants sex or if he really wants to get to know me....his sister and my friend say he really likes me. I dont know, what do you all think? what are some signs that he only wants sex?

2007-01-22 10:46:02 · 3 answers · asked by love_joy_peace 2

okay so im really anti-social,but have great friends who are there for me always but the last few days,i have broke down crying for no reason whatsoever and getting mad for no reason and i know its not period related cause that was 2 weeks ago and its driving me insane why is this happening?!?!?im 13 so nothing disgusting

2007-01-22 10:45:16 · 6 answers · asked by twilight 2

I recently lost my fiance. He was murdered a month ago. When I flew back home to my family I took a few of his belongings like his clothes and shoes stuff like that. I know he is dead and I can't wear men clothes. But keeping his things with me keeps me close to him. I still love him like he is still alive. But his sister called demanding for his stuff. I don't want to give it up. I mean I can't. I'm not ready to give it up. She thinks that I am going to have a new boyfriend n let the new boyfriend wear it. I respect my finace too much to do that. I mean I know I can have a new boyfriend now that he is gone. But I dont want to have a boyfriend I don't care about a new man. I still love my deceased fiance. Now she is mad and I'm hurt. I don't kno why was I crying for when this isn't a big deal. Should I give up his things when I am really not ready to let go of his things or just ignore her call? Becuz she is demanding for his things even tho I told her I dont want to let go of it.

2007-01-22 10:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. In the beginning we were so good but had our break ups that lasted 2 days or so. We had so many wonderful times together but then we started to fight once August came. I was leaving for college in August but things were still good. He quit his job in October and then things really started to go down the drain. I overreacted at little things and he was very crabby just from sitting around all day doing nothing. The big problem of him drinking on Friday nights with his 2 best friends whom he hangs out with all the time and 3 girls that are basically guys too came into the picture. We had breaks where we've stayed together that started duringxmas to now but last thurs was the day he broke up with me over a stupid fight. I know he still loves me cuz he couldnt tell me he didn't. I gave him his necklace back and he said nothing is ever final. He said he's just fed up wit the fights and can't stand me. I luv him but will he come back 2 me?

2007-01-22 10:41:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 10:37:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you do, why?

2007-01-22 10:31:48 · 12 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5

With a boss that you have never met?

Your a manager of a liquor store and hes the "BIG GUY" from a different city. You've done everything to get your store cleaned & organized. What else can you do???

2007-01-22 10:30:59 · 5 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3

2007-01-22 10:12:06 · 6 answers · asked by rockin_country_girl2005 1

2007-01-22 10:01:17 · 17 answers · asked by nathaneal b 1

I am bisexual and when I came out to my mother, she told me that my sexuality wasn't "valid" . she said that it wasn't sincere, and that i'm either a lesbian or straight. but that she thought i was going through a "phase". beacuse i've liked and dated alot of guys before.
and also alot of my friends are really conservative and i've heard more than one of tem say that "bisexuals are sluts" how can i convince them that my preference is valid (and not slutty)?

2007-01-22 09:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by mischa m 2

as far as asking out, giving gifts and stuff, and anything else.

2007-01-22 09:51:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We went to hs together.
She contacted me 4 yrs after we graduated. This girl acts like she's my friend 1 minute & turns against me the next. The few times we talked, she was going on about how smart she is, how popular, how big her boobs are etc. Even in hs she acted conceited towards me sometimes.
At a mutual friend's college graduation in '05, she ignored me & talked to her friends. When I was pregnant she offered to buy me stuff and said she was only doing it for the baby.
She texted me a few months ago "I'm married" after we hadn't spoken for months! Of course when she was pregnant out of wedlock or when her dad left her mom she didn't tell me!
Why would she keep contacting me, when it's obvious she doesn't like me?
I don't think she's jealous of me b/c she has a house, husband, better paying job, and more friends. In hs, she was well liked whereas I wasn't. I'm not even better looking than her or anything.
I think she's trying to make me feel bad about myself? But why?

2007-01-22 09:50:07 · 12 answers · asked by kstackney 1

my bff lets call her- gaby
my crush lets call him- frank

okay, my friend gaby just told me that she likes my crush frank (gaby told me that she thought frank was flirting with me, so thats confusing) and then, today, she just up and tells me that our other friend, rebecca, told gaby that frank likes gaby... then, to top it off she says to me, "don't worry, you'll find the right guy, franks just not for you" - i really like frank, and gaby and other people have told me he likes me too, but im so confused, and then gaby asked franks friend ryan if frank liked me, and he said "i know frank, and he wouldn't like her" so basically, im confused... if you can help, that would be a-w-e-s-o-m-e

2007-01-22 09:38:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost my information ccan anyone help me....

2007-01-22 09:37:53 · 3 answers · asked by belinda a 1

If so how? My PArents just recently Got a divorce that has been dragged out for about five long years. My dad was an Alcholic and about a year ago Got in a Accident and broke his neck now he is Parlized from the chest down. doctors say he will not walk again. I'm 15 by the way and I feel upsett all the time I don't like the things I used to and I have night Mares, and dreams that my dad can walk and he is Telling the world about god again

2007-01-22 09:37:28 · 9 answers · asked by Arc_Angel 3

She Is 17, Flip/White, Doesnt Really Listen To Me Good... I Dont Know. Is There A Test Where I Pull On Her To See If She Is Or Not?

2007-01-22 09:36:31 · 18 answers · asked by Ur Daddy 2

My boyfriend has always watched porn I noticed when he started downloading it on our computer and I asked him not to because of our kids so then he starts downloading it onto his psp so he can watch it whenever what does this mean I think hes faithfull maybe is this his way of fantasizing about other women so he can stay faithfull or is he just a perv or what please shed some light on this subject for me its starting to bother me that he watches it so much what to do

2007-01-22 09:31:55 · 32 answers · asked by lisaisfunn1 3

that i'm 20years old and havent bought a house yet?

2007-01-22 09:23:38 · 52 answers · asked by CJL18 1