If so how? My PArents just recently Got a divorce that has been dragged out for about five long years. My dad was an Alcholic and about a year ago Got in a Accident and broke his neck now he is Parlized from the chest down. doctors say he will not walk again. I'm 15 by the way and I feel upsett all the time I don't like the things I used to and I have night Mares, and dreams that my dad can walk and he is Telling the world about god again
2007-01-22 09:37:28 · 9 answers · asked by Arc_Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No. i wouldnt. Your doctor will give you pills that make your mouth dry, and if u still dont feel better he will change the pills. Either way your taking pills. I think the best think for you is to have faith and go to church maybe God will make you feel better. Stay positive and encourage your dad. You are the future of the family. Talk to friends or a boyfriend who will support you and understand you during this time of need.
2007-01-22 09:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of satisfaciton with things that used to be enjoyable and sleep disturbances are major parts of diagnosing depression.
Contact your school guidance counselor or school psychologist and ask where he/she would send his/her daughter for help. Insurance for mental health is a pig. If you don't have insurance call your local mental health board or contact your state's Psychology Board. Find someone who does cognitive-behavioral therapy before you go to meds.
Depression is a nasty disease. It comes and goes and fools you into a sense that if today was OK then I must be getting better. Then it comes back with a whallop. Be good to yourself and know that your parent's problems are not yours. You didn't sign up for these challenges.
This is an awful time to learn about boundaries but this time of trouble can make you into an incredibly strong person. You don't have to feel damaged for the rest of your days.
2007-01-22 17:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by David G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, honestly, if you show any of these signs, if these symptoms impair your normal life:
-Persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" mood
-Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
-Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
-Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once enjoyed, including sex
-Decreased energy, fatigue, being "slowed down"
-Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
-Insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
-Appetite and/or weight loss or overeating and weight gain
-Thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts
-Restlessness, irritability
-Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such as headaches, digestive disorders, and chronic pain
It is very possible that you are depressed, and that therapy can help you feel good again and gain some feeling of control over your life again. Being a teenager doesn't help, either. Please speak to a school counselor or your doctor, and don't be ashamed to ask for help.
2007-01-22 17:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious issues that could cause depression. Here's a link that explains everything you wanted or didn't want to know about depression and a link that provides a self-test to see if you are depressed. Regardless, you should go see a doctor immediately and talk to him or her about what you're feeling.
2007-01-22 17:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Scott K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
I'd suggest a diagnostic session and then whatever group therapy the shrink suggests.
If you can get on this now, you'll prevent future problems that could have occurred from holding it in.
2007-01-22 17:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by jonathan V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grieving a major loss. Look at the stages of grieving (Kubler-Ross) and begin to understand what happens to normal people when life hands them major blows. And yes, you do need a support network and people to share your sorrows with.
2007-01-22 17:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by onLine preDator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been through quite alot and should at least speak to an adult that you can say whatever you want to.....school councillors, trusted relative, or family friend. Good luck.......it does get better.
2007-01-22 17:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your high school guidance counselor or the school nurse.
2007-01-22 17:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, talk with someone at your church. Just try talking to a family member, aunt or uncle.
2007-01-22 17:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by railroad_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋