Other - Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I have a huge sex drive and my wife turned out to be just the opposite. Situation worsened after birth of my child. The last time we had sex was an year ago. This has got me frustrated and drove me to internet **** in every other flavor. I imagine sex with every other good looking female i see. Distance between me n my wife has widened to the point that we hardly talk to each other these days. Feel terribly depressed at times. Have even resorted to adultery in depression... and felt bad later on. Plese help. I am still continuing with the marraige becos of my child and becos of our parents who are unaware of the situation. Cant tell our parents of our sexless marraige and cant have my child splitting his time between parents. I weep terribly at times when i analyze my situation, which seems hopeless. Please put yourself in my shoes before u answer. Sometimes i feel an early heart attack would solve my problem. I am 35 and my wife 34 with a marraige of 8 years.

2007-01-22 06:49:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We can teach people not to steal, drink and drive, and other crimes. But can we really teach someone not to commit cold-blooded, premetated murder or rape and molestation?
If so how?
If not, what should be the punishment.

2007-01-22 06:45:48 · 5 answers · asked by D.B. Cooper 2

No arrearage is due . I have 3 years left would like to pay the next three years off in advance. Can this be done?

2007-01-22 06:43:34 · 4 answers · asked by Family S 2

My exgirlfriend is 19 and i am 36.
On 3rd January she split up with me due largely to me practically accusing her of having affairs.
The thing is, we still find each other sexually attractive and when were together we find ourselves losing control in that way.
The problem with it is she has said she doesnt find it particually comfortable anymore but we still find both of ourselves eager to go down that path.
She really enjoys it and gets to a point just before sex where she finds she cant go on any further (leaving me feeling frustrated frankly).
She says were not getting back together because she says she 'just doesnt feel the same' but at the same time, she always asking whos texting me and we text each other every day.
We talk about one of the options to stop this sexual attraction is to not see each other but she says she doesnt like the sound of that as shed miss me.
I want us to be a relationship again but i dont know what to do for the best.

2007-01-22 06:42:33 · 16 answers · asked by John 1

Yes it is over. Not racism but my relationship.It is over b/c my bf found out the reason y i havent told my dad about us is b/c my dad is not into the idea of me havin a white boyfriend.When my boyfriend found out he was CRYING! He feels as if it would be easier for me if we just be friends.When we got off the phone we told each other that we loved each other but i cant see myself being friends w/ somone i love.I didnt go to school today b/c I was cryin sooo much that im physically sick.
I talked to my dad this morning and he said that he gives me "premission" to date him b/ci must truly be in love if i cried so much over a guy to the point that im sick.What should i do to get my man back? And how do i tell him that my dad said its ok for us to date even if he doesnt like it? Please dont tell me to get over it b/c that cannot happen. He is the first guy iever cried over. He may not be my first but hes my one and only.How can i get him back?Im willing to do anything to get him back.

2007-01-22 06:40:47 · 8 answers · asked by lil_court_843 2

i am married to a guy name steven and we been married for 7 months now, but i don't know if i can trust him... i mean he says when he sees his ex, that he don't like her or he says she ugly....how do i know he is telling the truth?

2007-01-22 06:31:41 · 3 answers · asked by st._pappys_ gurl 1

Large populated areas probably would not be able to communicate, and travel would be next to impossiable.

2007-01-22 06:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by D.B. Cooper 2

My daughter, hubby, and I use outlook express to handle all our email accounts. When I opened it today, my hubbies account opened up as the default (no password). In it was tons of emails I forwarded to him (most of them unread) and two very, very, disturbing emails. I almost threw up by reading just titles alone. The subject was beyond your average adult content/porn. I thought he never really used this account. All folders like trash, sent, draft were empty except inbox. I know this because he always uses my account.
How could they get there? I don't think people use this as normal everyday spam, I think they could get arrested if they sent out spam like this. Could someone have stolen my hubby's email address? Is my husband leading a double life? Is there something about adult content email that requires some sort of proof of age before sending it? What are the laws, the rules for sending out emails inviting you to visit sites? Is it legal for me to secretly record him

2007-01-22 06:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you think it's ok for a teen couple who have been together for a year to have sex? Or should they wait longer? I'm talking about...17-19 years of age.

2007-01-22 06:07:14 · 24 answers · asked by rach 1

I got involved with a friend's engaged brother. Now there is a chance that I may be pregnant and he wants to have a family with me. ( So he claims) I know his relationship with his fiancee has been on the rocks and that she threatened to kill herself if he ever left him. But now he claims he is in love with me and wants the baby. What do I do? Do I wait around to see if means what he says about having a family with me? Or do I walk away when he seems sincere?

2007-01-22 06:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by dear_summer_09 1

my family people(not close relative) taut me this all at my childhood. i cant join jim due to some resons(belongs to my carrier & medical reasons). I m 25 yr old bachelor.i hv applied all methods provied by social / spiritual voilenteres available in india.

sombody HELP ME SO THAT I CAN MAKE MYSELF STRONG @ ANYTHING , ANYHOW .

I will sacrifise my life for him/them/her.
PLSSSSSSSSSS

2007-01-22 06:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me, it's my hamster-Albert. He does the cutest things-and he doesn't even try to impress us. He just lives in his own little world,and he's very bright as well-name suits him! :) I always get so excited when I see him, and hear his little heart beat-he puts a smile on my face, like no one else can.

2007-01-22 06:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex called me cause he wanted to come visit i told him that i was moving which i am. He than asked me how my sex life was with my new b/f and i wouldn't answer he kept asking than he started screaming "is he better than me c'mon you can tell me" and i told him it was none of his business. everytime he calls me he calls me on a different number so i don't know who it is. He wants me to take him his stuff{lives 8 hours away} but i won't do it cause i don't know what he will do. i don't trust him and i just want him to leave me alone. he was abusive and started acting crazy while we were dating he pushed my daughter down of the ground to make her cry than picked her up when i turned around in so he would look like the hero. My daughter was scared of him and so was i that is why i kicked him out. Than after he left he was harassing me and than it stopped i don't know where he is but i am scared he might come back and hurt us. can i get a restaining order if i don't know where he is??

2007-01-22 05:56:11 · 3 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2

what little hints, or questions can i ask to find out without giving away what im trying to do? Whether its little things or big things. how can i find out if my girlfriend is a freak?

2007-01-22 05:54:05 · 9 answers · asked by Tommy 1

Ok my mom doesn't like black people and neither does the rest of my family. i guess mainly because they were all raised were there were none and i was raised where all there is is black people and i love them to death. well i started dating this black guy and he is my world he is the best person i have ever met in my entire life and i love him so so so so so much! he has always been there for me and i know he will always be there for me. he knows i love him and i know he loves me but my mom won't let us be together. His mom loves me to death but my mom doesn't see it that way. She told me that if she ever finds out i'm dating a black guy she will send me to an all girls school in florida. I only have a 10 months until i can legally move out and i love bryan more than anything in this world i have no idea where i would be with out him! Please help me! what should i do.....my mom or my world.
a little more info on my family. i have always been the outcast and they have never wanted me

2007-01-22 05:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today, many couples are together and do not keep their relationships and make always fight instead loves. Sometimes, they make terrible fights and use bad words to each other. So, what is important in relations: Make love or war, respect or bad words, cheating or trust etc..

2007-01-22 05:51:43 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I and my partner have been contemplating moving from England away from the cold, my son is hopeing this happens because he wants to move also...we thought about spain, but i have been there so many times, but i have never been to the US before...can any of you suggest the best parts to live in the US, some where that has plenty of sunshine and good night life? if so what makes it so good there?

2007-01-22 05:42:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 05:42:13 · 5 answers · asked by sims 1

loves you and he need you?

2007-01-22 05:39:21 · 12 answers · asked by Stacey 100 1

i thougt i found mr right but relaised i havent im in love with my ex but i no i dersver sum 1 better wil i find this guy 1 day ? and wil i ever get over my ex as in love and were togther 4 3 years i dont wont to get over him but have to .

p.s this web site thing is bril thanc 4 all the support

2007-01-22 05:37:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think I'm depressed, I don't want to do nothing or see anybody, I don't feel like going out and just feel like staying in my room. I don't know why I feel this way the only reason I could find is school. Help me please get out of this situation. Can you give me any advice.

2007-01-22 05:34:01 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Can you help me? 3

just want to edit the question for some of you is it the wordin? how do i change it thnk u xxx

2007-01-22 05:27:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 05:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by CluefulinSD 1

2007-01-22 05:25:16 · 4 answers · asked by rethsae 1

My Man & I have been married 10 yrs. for the last 7 he has been addicted to meth. He no longer has ability to live on his own & my doc said his brain damage is permanent. While I wouldn't say he is retarded he can't make decision's on his own like, $, heath, simple things like how to make macncheese, he is angry & mean most of the time & I NEVER leave our kids with him, I still care about him & know if I were to divorce him he would be dead or in jail, or homeless. He was adopted & has no family other than me. He doesn't brush his teeth for months a time a showers once a week with a fight, I met a man that knows my situation that loves me & wants an affair, I know that marriage is for better or worse but I have been so lonely, and have slept on the couch for 6 six yrs, I don't want to hurt my husband & this man reluctently accepts that. i know is wrong but I can't bear thinking that I can never be made love to someone again, I have protected sex with my husband once every 3-6mths & its

2007-01-22 05:20:50 · 8 answers · asked by Destiny 5

Once you have your partner restrained, what torments do you like to bring on?

2007-01-22 05:20:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you wait until after you graduate college to get married? Let's say your...21, 3 year in college, have been dating a guy since you were 15 and you love eachother with all your heart...would you marry him then? Even if you were still in college?

2007-01-22 05:08:50 · 5 answers · asked by rach 1

Hi. I live in a house with my brother, his girl, and her daughter. Everything was fine but me an my brother's girl got real close. It's like we can talk to eachother about all kinds of things, and it is really nice to know someone like that. Anyway, my brother got jealous and assumed that she and I were sleeping together, which we aren't. He recently moved out, knowing that we depended on his third of the rent to maintain this place, and it is because of him I am in this predicament because he asked me to take the place with him. Meanwhile, we are struggling here and he is living the life of Riley and I am not talking to him. Some people say that I should move out, since she is not my girl and all but if I left, then she and her daughter will be on the street, and I'm not the kind of person that would just bail and leave someone in a bad predicament, because they have never done any wrong to me. Any suggestions?

2007-01-22 05:08:02 · 15 answers · asked by trevor_laforce 1

please help?

2007-01-22 05:06:46 · 12 answers · asked by Mandi B 1

I have my 61 yr old Mother living with me to watch her failing health...now she acts fine and has lived with me for a year.I had to put the house in her name for fear of my stalking ex finding out where I live..I have an 11 yr old girl.Now she has started calling this her house..her dog messes all over and she don't clean it..as well as after she cooks.She is completely ugly to my girl,constantly putting her down when I am at work (she gets home from school before I am) Now I have seen what looks to be a recipe of witchcraft,including an e-mail page from "witchcraftexposed.com She has also told us to leave "HER" house if we are so unhappy here.And we are..but I will not uproot my daughter anymore...my ex has ruined my credit and I don't have the finances to move.I have no friends for she has done a great job of running them all off including lying to them about my friendship with them (like I am just using them) HELP US!! This is urgent..I am scared

2007-01-22 05:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by IM 1