Other - Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

My long time (6 yrs...i am 24 he is 23) boyfriend/father of my children "broke up" saturday. It has been a tough year for us and we have been fighting a lot.
The thing that confuses me is he is still living with me and we have had sex 4 times since the supposed break up. I think that sex within 24 hrs of a break up voids the break up.
he keeps saying that we are only taking a break and as soon as i get the daycare set up he is going...i told him that is he moves out he isnt moving back in because i have put up with enough of his crap and i am not going to just let him go screw with a bunch of other girls them come back to me. i have taken care of him since we got together so i told him he either stays or goes permanently and he is still there....so are we broke up

2006-11-13 04:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tissa 4

how can i get her to stay in the uk till she has had baby and i will go to japan with her. i dont want to loose her or the baby. i love her to much but dont think she always believes me. what can i do? my flat mate called her names to which is a english efection thing not to be mean but she took it the wrong way now they are mad at each other my life is a mess at the moment when it should be the happiest time of my life cus i will be a dad.

2006-11-13 04:02:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every1 please asnwer! <3 thank you =]]]!!!!!!...?
okay i am home from school today due to a teacher meeting all day and for the day i want to go to the spa. how can i persuade my mom to go to the spa for a spa day! =]]]please help me as i want to go to the spa really bad tomorrw!

2006-11-13 03:54:54 · 8 answers · asked by jayden_327 2

C'mon guys...when are you gonna start helping around the house?

2006-11-13 03:40:41 · 12 answers · asked by King Dong! 1

love is only a part of us or life is also part of love answer me.

2006-11-13 03:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by hello india 1

why do FTMs look more real than MTFs?

2006-11-13 03:26:22 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and have to say that I am starting to get quite bored with the relationship. He isn't a loving person, doesn't ever want to go out to the pub and would rather stay in and watch the television all of the time. Before I met him I was out every weekend clubbing, but because he doesn't like clubs he won't go out with me even though I go to watch things that he wants at the pictures and do things at the weekends that he wants to do rather than what I want to do and makes it difficult for me if I try and suggest new things. Two of my what I would call close friends have both said that I should finish it, but I love him so much and just don't know if we need to go see a counsellor, or I have to sit him down and tell him that i'm unhappy. Thing is he won't change, and it's almost like he hasn't got a backbone doesn't have an opinion and just keeps plodding on with his life and is bringing me down with him - help!

2006-11-13 03:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Laracroft81 1

Leaving the keys on the lock on the outside of the front door? Would this bother you a lot or would you just shrug it off and not make a big deal about it? I'm talking about going to work in the morning and finding the keys just out there and this has happened at least 8 times.

2006-11-13 03:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by Pinky 3

Because he likes boys.

2006-11-13 03:10:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live with my parents and there r some rules they dont want me talking when i'm supposed to be asleep. i had got in truble with my parent cus i talked late at night with my girlfriend, so i got my phone banned after hours. so i decided to get another phone i had it for 3 months now. my parents found it saturday. they told me i went behind ther back an i need a punishment. so they want to keep me away from my girlfriend for a week. so i was ready to leave. i had told my girlfriend whats going to happen she thinks they dont want us together i have an engagement ring i was to give her on wednesday. now i cant cus my parents are to strict. i'm not sure if she wants to be with me anymore i know deep in her heart she want to get engaged but im not sure. i dont know if she want to still be with me after this? she said my parents are trying to control our relationship. she said she loves me and want to be with me forever. my parents sometime want me to decide if it them or her. i want both.

2006-11-13 03:04:13 · 8 answers · asked by Through The Eyes Of The Dead 2

For the past 15 mths I have been involved with an evil man, at first he was everything I ever wanted him to be, if anyone could read some of the questions I have posted they would understand that I have been putting up with some horrendous ****, so I decided today to take control and ask for some help on a0 self reassurance, b) satisfying things to do to regain strength back c) get bk at the one man that has hurt me like noone ever before.....

2006-11-13 03:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2

2006-11-13 03:03:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with my boyfriend today. He was taking me for advantage and treating me awfully. I just couldnt handle it anymore as i have a son to be taking care of and on top of other issues its all too much. I now feel so awful extremely tearful, all though i was rapidly falling out of love - it just wasnt working. I wish there was a way i didnt feel this horrible inside. its really aching. is there anything i can do to stop the pain?

2006-11-13 03:00:13 · 23 answers · asked by happyglitterthatrocks 1

Does it bother you? How do you cope with it? And how do you manage to chill and not get your self stressed about it?

2006-11-13 02:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by me_me 1

How would you feel??

2006-11-13 02:51:43 · 47 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2

can you be in love with 2 people at the same time and yes im faithful to my partner and dont see the other person but cant help thinkin he was my sole mate.

2006-11-13 02:50:54 · 10 answers · asked by jamie k 2

2006-11-13 02:45:15 · 19 answers · asked by gorgon9696 1

What do you do when you have a 17 year old son that is totally out of control? He calls me names, gets suspended from school for calling teachers names and getting into altercations with other students (fights). He is on probation however from another state and because the state that we leave in now does not think that his behavior is the extent and because he is not a delinquent (yet). No he just disrespects his mother and does what he wants to. He has served 10 days in a Juvenile Detention home just recently and it had no affect on him at all. If he doesn't get his way I am called Bitches on a daily basis and was just called a ***** when I picked him up from school on Thursday from a suspension. We are doing counseling but its not working. Please, please somebody tell me what I should do. It’s to a point where I have to throw my son out of my house. By the way keep in mind that this is a kid that is mentally challenged diagnose with Trauma Brain Injury at the age of 15 months...

2006-11-13 02:37:28 · 14 answers · asked by Pamela R 1

Why is it that people don't want to believe that this happens more than what people want to admit? I am 35 yrs old,I suffered from every abuse there is,,,but now that I'm grown I have chosen to break the cycles.How often do you think sexual abuse occurs?

2006-11-13 02:24:42 · 7 answers · asked by Mother of 2 girls 3

seriously. i'm conducting a poll to answer this questions for an article.

every old woman i've ever known has disliked animals--especially indoor pets. what are you're thoughts??

2006-11-13 02:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by blah123456 1

My bestfriend moved overseas for work.. we promised that wed stay in touch no matter what. He and I had a lot going when he was here. We used to hangout every single day. he's more than family to me. He's been gone for about a month, and I thought I could play it tough. But really it's very hard it hurts, I barely am happy... Ive tried meeting new folks, but they dont do it for me. He and I email almost 2-3 times a week. I know he is busy with work, and has limited internet access. Sometimes when I dont hear from him in a week it drives me nuts. What should I do? I honestly dont want to sound pushy and ask him to do more... But he's emails make my day, I just feel so alone sometimes. He went to Europe, I have to stay in the US to work on my MBA.

2006-11-13 02:19:44 · 3 answers · asked by dustin m 1

Give 5 turn ons/offs of a person you date/live with/marry (lover).
Give 5 turn ons/offs of your good friends.
Give 5 turn ons/offs of people in general including coworkers.

2006-11-13 01:55:52 · 5 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3

Do you have any traditional things that you do each year?
Or Do you hate it?

2006-11-13 01:39:07 · 28 answers · asked by julie m 2

2006-11-13 01:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by QuestionAnswer 2

its actually an early christmas gift i want to give her. . . we got married at 20, we now have 2 kids, we are married for 3 yrs. times are tough, we are not broke but htere are just somethings I THINK that are far too important than celebrating occasions between US, dont get me wrong, I LOVE MY WIFE, i would give anything, thats if i can afford it, i know i sometime take her for granted, by not getting her anything on our anniversary, but i still take her out for a dinner. . . WITH OUR KIDS. i know we have to have time alone together. i used to have something for her everytime, but things are different now. i somehow want to make it up to her, starting right now, please help me out. . . and on how to make time with her just like before, but more special, i want her to feel special this time on. . . .any suggestions would help, thanks!!!

2006-11-13 01:25:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 01:15:42 · 15 answers · asked by DAVE 6

Four years ago I was in the same class with this girl and I recalled at that time I was telling myself, "I think she is my true love.."

And three and half years passed. I experience so many temporary lust..

Lust which doesn't last..

And after that I re-discovered that that girl is my true love. I care for her and I would protect her. Now I am still in the same class with this girl.

Do you think she is my true love and we are destined to be together? If yes, what should I do if she doesn't realise it (except leaving her)?

2006-11-13 00:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could rewind and delete one thing in your life what would it be?

2006-11-13 00:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by missy 3

My ex came to visit me and bought me shoes and an outfit. He got mad at me and now wants to give it to my sister. What do you think is up with the situation?

2006-11-13 00:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by 87baby06 1

i need some serious help digging out the garden.Im think a veggie patch would be so cute+what with all the GM produce im starting to worry.Is it normal to have an arm growing from my head?

2006-11-13 00:31:55 · 15 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4