For the past 15 mths I have been involved with an evil man, at first he was everything I ever wanted him to be, if anyone could read some of the questions I have posted they would understand that I have been putting up with some horrendous ****, so I decided today to take control and ask for some help on a0 self reassurance, b) satisfying things to do to regain strength back c) get bk at the one man that has hurt me like noone ever before.....
2006-11-13 03:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Itried to contact you jon but couldn't for some reason when I emailed you!
2006-11-13 03:19:03 · update #1
The guy is a control freak. I have been in similar situations myself. good for you for trying to break free get councelling but please realise it may take years to undo all the psychological damage he has caused you.
You can only truly break free with professional councelling so please do that for me because i know what it's like.
Good luck, you deserve happiness. :-)
2006-11-13 03:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by bluenose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you concentrate on you first. If you have managed to find the power and strength to walk away....then keep walking. Dont worry about getting him back just yet - let Karma deal with that. You need to sort yourself out first.
First things first - treat yourself, you and a mate off to a spa day or something, nice massage, facial and total relaxation - followed by a good night out. New clothes. Just do stuff to make you feel good.
Build yourself up over the next 3 months, get your mental and physical strength back - then if you still feel the need to get him back - you can - if not - you've moved on with your life and just dont look back.
good luck
xx
2006-11-13 03:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a) Therapy. Self-help books. Time with yourself doing things you feel accomplished at.
b) I like painting, sculpting, cooking, riding my bicycle, rollerblading, even work. Anything, really, I find that occupying my time is helpful.
c) Don't. Harboring ill feelings towards another takes more energy than they are worth. What you need to focus on is you. He is no longer important. It's a difficult concept to grasp, but unbelievably liberating and empowering.
2006-11-13 03:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an section the position they received't complication anybody perhaps an abbandoned shead. call the authorities leagally some one has to get them there's no determination they ought to. feed the canines some weatbix and milk until eventually they arrive to p.c.. them up. dont trust this woman with them. she will be able to kill or damage them. if this happens you'll hate this woman for something else of your existence. you dont wont problematical emotions between your associates. attempt to save the peace the subsequent fue days i recognize its a soreness besides the undeniable fact that that is going to avert destiny difficulty
2016-11-29 02:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by lesure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know revenge is a dish best served cold but ignore him and concentrate on yourself that will bug himmore in the long run.
good for you by the way. my motto never take no s**t from nobody. chin up and look forward to a brighter future without him. people only s**t on you if you allow them to, trust me i've learned the hard way
2006-11-13 05:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me know what help you would like and I shall certainly give you a hand, and well done for regaining control!
2006-11-13 03:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well done don't let him grind u down,,you are worth more than that,,we all deserve happiness,,be strong and try not to get down,,if u feel like a chat im me :-)
2006-11-13 03:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by kimble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask, and if I can do anything to help I will.
Even if it is just someone to talk things through with.
Good luck
Dares
2006-11-13 03:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by DARES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask fuckin god to help you.
Oops.
My dads a pastor sorry.
2006-11-13 03:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is a brillant step.
2006-11-13 03:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋