How would you feel??
2006-11-13 02:51:43 · 47 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I hope he was just kidding, but I can understand if you feel upset, hurt or angry. It was a very insensitive comment, and next time he comes to see you, I would make sure he does not get any "relief".
You should let him know that the comment was extremely insensitive, and that it bothered you. if he remains insensitive about it, he may not be the right person for you and it may be best to find someone who does not just see you as an outlet for "relief". If that is how he sees you he is just using you, treating you as a sex object, and bluntly said, is a creep.
2006-11-13 02:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Raistliin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get him to take you out for a nice meal - quite a disrance away so that the taxi costs twenty-five quid each way. Order a really expensive bottle of wine - £45! Drink it then order another! Look at the menu and order a seafood starter followed by the Filletto all Romana and some nice side orders. Desserts and Irish Coffee afterwards is a must. Then a nice Port with cheese and biscuits!
The bill came to £160.00!!
I won't say anything remotely like that to my girlfriend again!
.......the meal was lovely though!!
2006-11-13 02:59:29 · answer #2 · answered by Fin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be devastated! Who on earth would say such nasty things?!
I would kindly say that if all he's looking for is sex, then there is a reason why they seek it from women willing to give it for a price, and that I hope they realise that they will one day feel as cheap and tacky as prostitutes and have no pride or dignity left. And will possibly never be able to have a fulfilling relationship in the future.
Then pick myself up and start agian.
2006-11-13 03:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a girl, and never said this to one!
unless this was said in the context of an evening of fairly weird humour and you said things of the same level before or after, I'm afraid that's not a good sign.
some people don't dare to breakup when they feel a story is over, so instead of doing it, they try to provoke the other person into doing it. Maybe this is the case?
2006-11-13 02:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by AntoineBachmann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd feel an amazing sense of relief that I found out he actually pays for sex because I can walk out without an attorney's help.
Get rid this jerk, and get tested asap.
2006-11-13 03:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Totally not approving of the behavior. But think about it, you clearly have him by the short hairs--make him pay for it. Sounds like you are owed a shopping trip. Let's just see how cheap it is?
2006-11-13 03:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by C D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's joking. Of course its cheaper,its free! But if he only seems to come around at those times,than maybe its not so much a joke.
2006-11-13 02:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him the door out and tell him to go see a prostitute and not to return.
2006-11-13 03:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omigod what kind of guy would ever say that to his girlfriend! I would be extremley offended and kick his behind to the curb! Thats not funny at all i dont care if he says he was joking that talk is extremley offensive my husband or boyfriend would never ever say that to me more than once that untolerable
2006-11-13 02:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine being in that situation. If you're only in it for the sex yourself, let him know that he's the only one who is available on a Monday, but if he's actually supposed to be a boyfriend, I should let him know that he's an ex!
2006-11-13 03:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by lickintonight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋