how can i get her to stay in the uk till she has had baby and i will go to japan with her. i dont want to loose her or the baby. i love her to much but dont think she always believes me. what can i do? my flat mate called her names to which is a english efection thing not to be mean but she took it the wrong way now they are mad at each other my life is a mess at the moment when it should be the happiest time of my life cus i will be a dad.
2006-11-13 04:02:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should have married her before getting her pregnant. That way you would have more of a stack then what you have now.
2006-11-13 04:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Texan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not go to Japan now? Why have the baby here? Japan is a lot more advanced than this country, it'll be born wearing an ipod and playing the latest game on the Playstation three!!!
2006-11-13 04:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Katie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First congratulations - and you will be a fab Dad if you are so intent on doing the right thing already. The only thing is to talk, to communicate everything you feel with your girlfriend..... sometimes these events in our lives are never the way we thought they would be - but bottom line - you could be a Dad this time next year - so do everything you can to make things work - good luck.
2006-11-13 04:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this girl and you are both happy about becoming parents, then neither of ya'll should let these petty details get in the way. Find a way to make it work. You two are going to have to sit down and talk about it.
2006-11-13 04:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain to her he didnt mean anything by what he said. tell her how you feel about her leaving and all you can do is keep telling her how much you love her. if she still wants to leave before the baby is born then just go with her before the baby is born. ask her to marry you! Good Luck!
2006-11-13 04:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes out tonight and drinks together. Best way of sorting out problems that I can think of. It's up to you to sort it, so start organising.
Good luck.
You could always move to Japan.
2006-11-13 04:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you go to JApan with her before the baby arrives and live there with her - it may be easier xx
2006-11-13 04:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a foreigner I am, I could find it offensive as well. Just try to explain her it is normal in this culture or just say you didnt like your flatmate's attitude either. This might win her heart. Japanese are very sensitive, be careful. Good luck
2006-11-13 04:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by umitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and seal the deal
2006-11-13 04:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop the question and move out away from the insensitive flatmate.
2006-11-13 04:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋