Other - Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

2006-11-06 07:38:59 · 7 answers · asked by HeazAngel 2

Okay first off I’ll say that normally I wouldn’t ask others for advice because I usually work things out by myself but this one is hard. My wife went to Brazil for some medical volunteer work. She came back and for some reason I could tell something wasn’t right. Anyway I let it slide. I use to use her yahoo profile to play games on-line and when she got back she changed the password and came up this lame excuse why. Normally I would ask for the password because I know that she would give it to me because she had nothing to hide but this time I knew something was wrong. She told me about everything that went on in Brazil and how it changed her life and how she lost her outlook on reality while she was their... I asked her half joking if anything happened that I should know about and she got supper defensive. I found out her password to her e-mail and found out that she has been writing back and fourth to this guy she met while she was their. In these e-mails they both tell each other how much they miss and love each other. Second she has been talking to him on her cell phone and not telling me about the phone calls. She has other contact with the volunteers and tells me about the phone calls and e-mails but not about the ones with the guy. I kind of feel her about not telling me because she thinks I would freak out about it but shes wrong. Anyway in one email the guy’s response to one of her email that he likes that she had a dream about him and that he misses “sharing kisses and her soft skin. I just want to know if this is enough info to confront her or should I wait for more. Also do you people think she cheated because I am kind of in denial about the whole thing? Also should I let it slide because she was gone for two weeks in a third world village and kind of lost reality for those two weeks. She kind of cheated me before we got married but we were broken up at the time but I think she was just waiting for the chance. We have a boy and house together and been married 4 years. Sorry about the grammar and messed up writing but I need help. Also why do I feel embarrassed that she did this?

2006-11-06 07:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Lost73 1

Well all my friends keep fussing with there clothes or with there make up to impress some guy or just the people around them.Is it a bad think if i don't care what i look like to another person?

2006-11-06 07:19:38 · 15 answers · asked by serenity 2

Every time me and ma BF get intamet its really hard 4 me 2 let loose and you know get down and dirty with it, like i really want to but i just cant. does anybody got any ideas of what i can do? PLEASE HELP ME!!

2006-11-06 07:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by La C0qu3ta 1

Looking for ideas, my daughter almost 17yrs.old, took my car while I was out of my home. Drove and without a license and crashed. No injures, major damage to vehicle. Any ideas on punishment besides the usual no phone and no computer...

2006-11-06 07:03:00 · 23 answers · asked by jpf 2

normal everyday things that grind your gears!!!!

2006-11-06 06:58:43 · 29 answers · asked by _DestroyingAngel_ 3

I would like to place his face on a website to let all the wowmn know is a cheater and to watch out for him?

2006-11-06 06:56:22 · 12 answers · asked by cprice3071 1

hes a good kid his grades are good and he dont ask for much he talks to girls on the phone and at school but he wants to start the going out thing like the movies,games,etc.

2006-11-06 06:54:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend for so much and I can't let him go at all. I try to not think of him or even talk to him, but it hurts so bad to not be with him. I let him go because he doesn't have feeling for me anymore but he didn't admitted, but i know him for too oooo long so I told him it is okay I'll be fine. but nope Im not . i love him still he is my first and I want him to be the last. don't bother to tell me to go with another guy cuss i cant. my religion one guy u lost is the one guy u need to stick with or u will will have a bad name. and not that I want to I dont want to be with him but i let him go. now I cant forget about him at all and i dont want to at all. the thing that is hard is stop loving him i been with for 5 years. what can I do to not be inlove hwith him

2006-11-06 06:53:01 · 2 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2

Or should I lie? or say nothing? or what!

Because if the truth is negative, then you shouldn't say it, right? But we shouldn't lie either, right?

Get what I'm saying?

2006-11-06 06:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I made contact online with an old friend. We actually dated for a short time about ten years ago and have not talked since. But over the past couple of weeks we have been exchanging emails. Nothing romantic or intimate or anything like that. Just catching up. I am in a serious relationship already and I don't want to do anything to jeapordize my relationship, but I don't really think I am doing anything wrong.
Do you agree/disagree?
What are your reasons?

2006-11-06 06:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1

whats yours and why?

mine is the windows advert (buy one get one free) that little dwarfy fella with the voice like nails own a blackboard who wears this really stupid red coat....he really gets on my nerves....someone poke pins in my eyes, pleeeaaassssse..arghhhhhhh!!!

may i add that i dont always watch the telly...but corrie is on and i had to endure the ads first....lol....

2006-11-06 06:37:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a son and I love him with my whole heart. Granted he get's in trouble, all children do. But, I still love him so very much. Many men or women just stop, drop and roll to be with another pearson and leaving their child or children. How can that be, I just do not understant. How they would let their children go, so they could be with another pearson. Many say I love my child. How can you say, I love my child or children, when you just let them go? I do not undrestant, please tell me how.

2006-11-06 06:36:48 · 28 answers · asked by mary l 1

Both my husband and me are very good looking couple in our twenties; my husband has a body of steel. Anyway, we had a party in our house and I was drunk and did a strange thing. I was laughing and joking with my next door neighbour, a guy in his mid fifties and very overweight however is redeeming feature is contagious humour.

His humour sometimes involves sexual innuendo and it is very amusing, anyway to cut to the chase he jokingly put his hand on my leg and I laughed and told him not top stop, he didn’t’! We were in the kitchen alone and I just seem to let him, it was sort of gross but within moments of being fingered I had the most intense orgasm.

For about a week after the event I was masturbating continually about this. It was both repulsive and exciting. Without going into more unnecessary details I have been shagging this fat guy frequently for the past month. It isn’t love and my husband doesn’t suspect, for the obvious reason that he wouldn’t think it possible that I would even consider this man attractive. The thing is I don’t! Quite the opposite.

I have had more orgasms with this guy in short space of time than ever with my very attractive husband. What the hell is wrong with me? It’s almost like a drug I keep telling my-self one more time and its finished? Yet I keep going back for more. Please tell me I am not that strange

I don’t even feel is if I am cheating, I am basically using this guy as a vibrator and he knows it. I am not looking to redeem or excuse myself for my behaviour; it is just the irrationality of it that’s got me flustered. Why do I find this so stimulating? Is it the grossness of it? I know he is human being but he is so fat I feel depraved. He is six feet plus and must be at least 20 stone and I am only 5 feet and skinny, he picks me up as if I was a rag doll and I feel so helpless. At first it I only gave him oral sex and he used his finger on me but eventually you want more, he doesn’t even have that big a cock and its uncut and slightly smelly, but I still seem to get a weird sexual gratification from doing oral with him.

There is no point of going into all the disgusting things that I have now done with him, writing them down only makes the situation worse.

It makes no sense, my husband although not tall has a fantastic physic, and most women would kill to get at him. But me, I seem to get my thrill easier from a fat middle aged man, why? And will I grow out of it? And am I the only one like this?
And I can’t talk to my friends about.
Yours completely irrational.

2006-11-06 06:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so what if you had access to your spouses code to his or her cell phone answer machine. Now what if you guys have a great relationship, they never gave you a reason to think they were cheating. You never caught the person in a lie since you guys been together but you so happen to see them put there code in while they were checking there messages.

Would you (A) Check there messages

or

(B) Forget the code I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop.

or

(C) Keep the code in mind just in case they start to act up but only use the code if things are getting suspicious.

...What would you do?

2006-11-06 06:18:59 · 19 answers · asked by Isis Dior 2

My boyfriend and I love each other more than anything in the world. We are closer than best friends and lover . We are beyond that path. We been together for 4years almost 5, but just recently this week he told me that somehow he feel that he lost a feelings for me so he ask for a break to think about it. although he say he love me still and care for me it just his feeling seem to go bit by bit.I told him that he can, then a week later he say he love me but now is been anther week and he acting strange. He look sad sometimes when he stare at me then he don't want to kick it ask much anymore. What should I do? I Love him more than my life, and I never lost feeling for him. I want him to be happy, but he say nothing is wrong but there is because I know him for too long. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me and I don't want the person I love and care for than my life to be miserable with me.

2006-11-06 06:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2

I am 15 about to be 16 and I have recently lost my virginity to a 20 yr old guy that has a girlfriend, used to live with me, and his dad is best-friends with my step-dad. I told my mom a couple days ago. She flipped out. I have just moved to a new school and I am know as a whore here and where I came from. My mom told pretty much everyone in the neighborhood. I felt pissed and depressed afterwards because the guy had denied it because he could go to jail. I cut myself because of all this.

2006-11-06 06:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a committed relationship with a man for 3 years now. I live with him and his two children of who I help to raise. My problem is that I want a child of my own and he doesn't. Friends tell me to leave but I love him so much. I just don't know what to do!!! Please help me!

2006-11-06 06:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by Patricia L 2

This question is a little open so let me explain. I am 22 and in college my boyfriend is 25 and works a decent job. He and i plan on marrying someday but we don't want to rush into it. I recently got off the pill and hope to be pregnant soon. My boyfriend thinks we shouldn't tell anyone that though, he thinks that if i get pregnant it would be more appropriate to tell everyone it was an accident. I find this odd, but true. That if you tell people, that you are young, unmarried, and yes poor and are planning to have a child they think your foolish. Yet if you have one accidentaly that is okay because you are young and poor and according to most probably not too bright. To me if i have thought about the consequences and the hardships of having a child, and plan to work hard and raise it to the best of my ability that is what should matter. Yet society frowns upon this. Should only middle class, and married people have children? Why are accidents considered more acceptable?

2006-11-06 06:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by TR 4

I want to tell my ex b/f (Ross durnin) that i hate him and despise him. The physical pain I live with everyday only gets worse and i cannot get it off my chest, why does he get to go live a free life when i have to cry in pain just to get out of bed every morning?.

2006-11-06 05:59:47 · 7 answers · asked by kiti4u 4

Me and my fiance plan on going away to get married at the justice of the peace. We just want something private. Would it be wrong not to tell my step-sister that I plan on doing that, and just come back a married woman?

2006-11-06 05:50:08 · 2 answers · asked by stella 2

2006-11-06 05:38:17 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. About 6 months ago he had broadband & cable tv installed. Recently if I turn the tv on, very often it is on Bravo (not renowned for its news & documentaries). He has also been asking other people (on Yahoo! answers) how to delete his search history on his pc so "prying eyes" presumably me, cant see what he has been searching for.
Its fairly obvious he is watching porn. I feel really betrayed & feel like I dont know him. He is trying really hard to cover his tracks. It wouldnt be so bad if it was enhancing our own sex life but he doesnt seem interested in me at all. Recently we had sex and he made very little effort & at the end commented that by me doing all the work would help my diet!
I love him so much. Mainly our relationship is good. I just feel that I am very open with him & dont do the things he would not like. I feel really betrayed & like I dont know him.
How do I deal with this? Am I being ridiculous?
I am 28, he is 33

2006-11-06 05:33:18 · 24 answers · asked by verity b 3

well i have a boyfriend and i only see him every 2 weeks, so my question is what should i do wit my problem?

2006-11-06 05:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by I love him, but he dont love me! 2

well i have a boyfriend and i only see him every 2 weeks, so my question is what should i do wit my problem?

2006-11-06 05:31:15 · 6 answers · asked by I love him, but he dont love me! 2

I've been depressed for a long time waiting for one thing to happen in my life .. i know i'll fix everything about my life once it happens .... but its not likely to happen ...
wut should i do?

2006-11-06 05:26:59 · 21 answers · asked by DuDeTte 2

my boyfriend makes me these promises and he sometimes don't keep them and that kind of make me not want to trust him anymore but i love him with all my heart and i won't let this come between us but why does he do this and he know how my past was and i hate when people make promises they could never keep. guys tell me that why does he do this? Ladies to.

2006-11-06 05:21:10 · 6 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2

Things that you wish he/she wouldn't do and drive you crazy!

2006-11-06 05:16:13 · 20 answers · asked by koochilly 3

What do you do when you are with someone that makes you feel like you are the most amazing thing in their lives and treats you like a princess (50%) of the time. Yet the other 50% of the time make you feel like you are not tryinghard enough, in the wrong. Constantly question your love, your motives, and faithfulness, when reality is when things get tough and there is a row you spend hours on the phone to friends talking about the guy you are so desperately trying to love, is it a case of loving a guy that does not love me back? Same **** different person? stay or go? I know everyone has ups and downs but this is getting ridiculous, so many times I sit there and feel like a failure, yet I not the one that is not prepared to talk things through, yet then 2 days later I get flowers a meal cooked and rose petals covering the bed! confusded....... springs to mind, where is the consistancy, and I don't mean constant flowers just a bit of non roller coaster action. How can I reassure him?

2006-11-06 05:10:27 · 15 answers · asked by Girl of Spirit 2

i just broke up with my love two weeks ago im feeling depressed scared alone and cant trust new people cause im scared of getting hurt is there any cure all time will heal my wound??

2006-11-06 05:09:53 · 7 answers · asked by Full M 1