my boyfriend makes me these promises and he sometimes don't keep them and that kind of make me not want to trust him anymore but i love him with all my heart and i won't let this come between us but why does he do this and he know how my past was and i hate when people make promises they could never keep. guys tell me that why does he do this? Ladies to.
2006-11-06 05:21:10 · 6 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Making promises and breaking them isn't a good sign. If it were a few here and there it would be understandable. You either need to lower your expectations of him or get rid of him. If you know that's how he is, when he says something don't count on it, if you can handle that then stay with him. But i know that will get old, don't waste anymore time. It also sounds like you have trust issues from past relationships, you can't use those for an excuse for how either of you act. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 05:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by spiritfilled_daughterofzion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may make some promises just to get you to leave him alone, while other times he's sincere but just messes up. There is nothing you can do about the second, but the first is tricky. If it's something that really isn't important, don't worry about it. If it's something that is really important, just tell him in a respectable and ,most importantly, straight foward manner(we hate having to dig through details if we don't have to).
2006-11-06 13:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a guy thing it is a person thing. Some woman do the same. Either you learn to ignore his promises or you leave him.
2006-11-06 13:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we make promises that circumstances change. And sometimes guys are just talking sh*t
2006-11-06 13:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he's not sure he can do something, to tell you that he'll try, rather than making promises he can't can't keep.
2006-11-06 13:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach others how to treat us .
You let hin get away with it .
2006-11-06 14:50:16 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋