Other - Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

okay me and my wife had a wondeful life for about 5 years during the sixth year we just could not get along anymore and so she moved out of my house. we both still go to college, its tougher not that we split the incomes. the thing is we still talk some what, but all she ever wants me for is sex all the time, i usually wouldnt mind, but afterwards i feel like crap because i know its just shallow sex and we wont have what we once did. i tried to make my self not have sex with her again but i just have no self controll and she knows that and i think she uses that against me too. i feel like i need to get away but i just dont know how, its hard for me to get close to another woman mainly because i still love my ex-wife. what should i do?

2006-11-01 05:47:48 · 20 answers · asked by hardjesus 2

a friend left a message in my 360 mailbox before deleting herself off the site. she obviously didnt realise that now shes gone i cant read the message. it says in my mailbox 1 new message but when i click on it it says message is unavailable. is there anyway that any1 knows of retreaving this msge?? did post this elsewhere but no one answered hence why here now!

2006-11-01 05:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by adriboff 3

My fiance and I went to a car dealer a a few days before I got enaged. He was buying his parents a brand new car when they aready had a car. The car dealer thought I was his wife but my fiance said that I was a good friend. Him introducing me as a good friend to the car dealer bothered me. So I discussed it with my fiance and he said the car dealer doesn't need to know his personal life. A acouple of days later he went to the car dealer again without me & my fiance and him have been talking about me. Because my fiance told me so. Now when he goes to get oil change or a free car wash there he doesn't go with me. When we were spending time together one day he needed to see the car dealer so he dropped me off at my house & picked me up after he was done. When I call him while he is working he sometimes doesn't say that he loves me. He just talks to me like he would talk to casual friend. But when we are alone he is very lovey dovey. I am Indian he is white. Is he ashamed of my race?

2006-11-01 05:39:20 · 29 answers · asked by Hot C 1

I recently met my teacher and she has 2 small very nice daughters 3 & 5. I have met them only a few times and the 3 yr old was extremely shy, why is it so, how come grown ups are not shy but young children are extremely shy meeting new people or those whom they meet infrequently?

2006-11-01 05:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I look at some ppl and really think they can love and be with one person a lifetime,and i look at others and don't see that pasion in them,i don't see them capable to stay with one person a life time...i know myself,i know i can but then again i'm a girl,and as i see, we are more romantic

2006-11-01 05:33:50 · 19 answers · asked by Linu 2

what is the first physical attribute you notice on a girl below her neck?

2006-11-01 05:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

The last two questions I asked, I got responses where people thought I was a girl... why? Is it my avatar thing?

2006-11-01 05:26:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

any ideas

2006-11-01 05:26:16 · 30 answers · asked by wave 5

what is the setting? are you with a girl or a guy

2006-11-01 05:26:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 05:21:12 · 5 answers · asked by kendra_hl 1

Is it ever too late for "real" love?

2006-11-01 05:21:07 · 7 answers · asked by lisa s 3

I need advise on dealing with my abusive parents. The truth is I've
run out of legal options and leaving isn't possible because of bogus
claims my parents make about me.

Even though I'm an adult, it seems to not count in the eyes of the
authorites and everyone else. My options have all dwindled to having to stay with my parents and put up with their stuff.

Mostly my parents verbally abuse me and seem to enjoy it.
They call me names like mentally ill, incompetent and other
names I can't mention. I do suffer from depression and anxiety
that I believe is circumstantial.

The short version of my problem is my parents don't see me as
an adult and interfere in any attempt I make to be an adult. Work,
attend church, and especially take responsibility for my life.
This has gone on for about 20 years now. I'm an adult in my 30's.

Inspite of my claims to the cops and others, I'm being forced to
remain.

I need advise real bad. This thing is on me.

2006-11-01 05:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-11-01 05:15:51 · 3 answers · asked by romanu13 1

No real short answers please. Expound abit.

2006-11-01 05:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you guys celebrate the anniversary of your FIRST DATE?
Or the anniversary of the day you were OFFICIALLY a couple?

(Those days are about a few weeks apart.)

I know I'm gonna put more emphasis on the day we were official, most likely.
But my boyfriend and I were friends for a long time and I didn't have feelings for him till the day we went on our first date. And it's weird because it hit me just like that... I DO like him back. So I consider our first date important. He was a really great friend and a really great guy. And the day I finally realized my feelings for him is a day I will never forget.

So I don't know which day I should celebrate with him.
Should I celebrate both?
I plan on giving him some nice gifts that I made and put together.


What do you guys think?
Thanks!!!!!

2006-11-01 04:52:38 · 8 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7

Why don't you just watch with him? That's what I do with my man. We don't do it all the time but it does make sex exciting and we learn techniques and can get new ideas sometimes

2006-11-01 04:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by Love United 6

2006-11-01 04:38:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 04:38:04 · 15 answers · asked by piper 3

2006-11-01 04:28:20 · 22 answers · asked by D K 1

My friend has been in a relationship for the past 3 years.

2006-11-01 04:28:16 · 24 answers · asked by Phoenix77 1

what shoould i do cuz my mom wants me to move but i would just rather deal with it myself but while doing that i get really hurt and bad things happen but i think i deserve.And if i move I'll miss my Fam and friends what should i do?

2006-11-01 04:23:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I simply feel it..

2006-11-01 04:19:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok...my boyfriends ex, of a year and in half called him and tells him she misses him and even though he says it dont matter cause he loves me now...i still think somethings wrong because hes been really weird im afraid hes gonna break up with me for her even though he says he not gonna do that...any advice for me...

2006-11-01 04:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by Tweek 1

my fiance's ex falsely acused me of inaproppriatley touching their 3 year old. An investagation was done and the case was close due to lack of evidence. I have a small child that was removed from my home because of the investagation.

2006-11-01 04:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Diamond22 2

My fiance totally changed himself for me. We've had a wierd past and now were together again. He is the best thing in my life, the sweetest kisser and the most beautiful man around.

( We're getting married in December so I might be in La-La land a little bit :P )

Thanks for answering in advance!
Kristy

2006-11-01 04:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 04:01:56 · 24 answers · asked by HotMommi 2

For the past couple nights i have been dreaming horrible things about my boyfriend. Like one night it was about me walking down a hallway and every room he was being toutured differently..or i would dream hes breaking up with me, in bed with my bestfriend etc.. but last night was the worst i dreamt i went into a trailer and he was dead on the floor and it was so bad i actually woke up and i was crying freaking out..It felt so real!! can anyone tell me why I am dreaming this stuff. and if possible how i can stop it

2006-11-01 03:57:38 · 24 answers · asked by Aeris_141 2

I heard one time that there were these lovers and the girl's female friend really wanted a baby. So, the lover had sex with the man and just before he climaxed, he pulled out and went inside the woman's friend. The point of this was for the lovers to enjoy sex but the woman's friend to receive the baby. Both women ended up getting pregnant. Ok, I just made that up. See how you can do and indicate if you think or know your story is true.

2006-11-01 03:52:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

choose another guy for me.whoalso love me a lot. i can't live without the person whom i love. i don't know what to do? please give me reply quickly afteall it is a question of my life

2006-11-01 03:38:56 · 20 answers · asked by sukhadiya D 1

and if so, what did you do or make your spouse/partner do to make the marriage/relationship work?

2006-11-01 03:37:44 · 50 answers · asked by Deja' Vu 2