what shoould i do cuz my mom wants me to move but i would just rather deal with it myself but while doing that i get really hurt and bad things happen but i think i deserve.And if i move I'll miss my Fam and friends what should i do?
2006-11-01 04:23:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with some of the others...it's really hard to understand your question and your situation. Try editing your question and adding in more details. Once we know what's going on, then we can try to help you.
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2006-11-01 04:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not totally clear. Let's see... you mom wants you to move out? Are u of legal age to move out on your own? And if you are why does she want u to move, do u have a job or income to support independent living expenses? You would rather deal with what yourself? get hurt doing what? and are you saying bad things that happen to you, you deserve the bad things? Moving away from household can be a good experience or a bad one, but I feel it mostly depends on your attitude about the whole process. It's usually bad when you are not prepared. Try being more specific so you could get a better answer. I hope this helps.
2006-11-01 12:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by sissytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom knows best, most of the time.
You will miss your family and friends but you need to start making decisions that are more adult. You are close to being one. Some decisions hurt in some areas but are good for you in the long run. It is like getting a shot at the doctors. It hurts but is best.
Take Care.
2006-11-01 12:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by RJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit and have a heart to heart with mom you must remember you are still her child regardless of your age ,and that it is her home. Try to get alone with your mom you only get one and when she's gone trust me you will miss her like crazy. So honor her so that her days may be long upon this earth this is one of the ten commandments
2006-11-01 12:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you even able to move out? Do you have the finances to support yourself? If not, then you can't even consider moving. Make peace with your Mom, and do your best to make the best out of yourself. Someday you will be mature and independent, and automatically get more respect from your family members.
2006-11-01 12:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by bluebyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I'm having problems, I do two things:
1. Go for a walk and calm down when I'm really upset.
2. Do nothing. Give it time - think it out. I wait until I know what to do so that I don't compound the situation (make it worse).
I don't know how to help you. That's your choice. I suggest trying to figure it out, but don't act out of emotion - act out of intelligence.
2006-11-01 12:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MOVE. That's what I did and now my mom and pops misses the heck out of me. It also helps you to grow up and be an adult, i.e. pay bills, cook for yourself, wash your own clothes, maintain a household, shop for yourself/household, etc. Miss them? That's where the word VISIT and PHONE comes in at.
Mom of B & D
2006-11-01 12:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out. Seriously move on and be by yourself, never stay in a bad situation if will only get worse.
2006-11-01 12:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on at home? How old are you? If you are still in school, you can't move out and do it on your own. Add more details, so you can get more advice.
2006-11-01 12:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you move, you don't have to move out of your area...you will still see family and firends. But, the move will give you an opportunity to grow and learn. Start packing.
2006-11-01 12:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋