I look at some ppl and really think they can love and be with one person a lifetime,and i look at others and don't see that pasion in them,i don't see them capable to stay with one person a life time...i know myself,i know i can but then again i'm a girl,and as i see, we are more romantic
2006-11-01 05:33:50 · 19 answers · asked by Linu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes girls are more romantic, and guys are more sexual. But a guy with the right girl can be romantic too.
I think girls, either the right guy or the guy who abuses them tend to show intimacy, but guys show that only to the girl that is in tune with them. And often we guys don't wait long enough to wait for that perfect match, you already have heard/known that we have 2 heads and either one is always active so when the lower head over rules guys tend to be sexual and then the problem arises when it comes intimacy.
So as a guy what I suggest to a girl/lady is test the guy who asks you out how long he can wait before he asks you for sex?
If you find a guy who is willing untill honeymoon , you got yourself a romantic guy.
But if he wants sex on the first date, well you know the lower head is in charge.
Plus believe it or not what God told Adam and Eve in Genesis still works. Remeber one of the curses was for Eve to subdue her will to the man, which I do believe is showed in being more romantic, again when a girl has/does sexual intercourse her wills are sudued to that man, she gets binded to him.
That is why I don't recommend sex before marriage, specially for the girls' sake.
( Mat be it has to do with what Eve does to Adam,what do you say? )
2006-11-01 05:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see myself loving someone for a lifetime. I, of course, am a hopeless romantic, but nonetheless, there have been people in my life that have truly left footprints in my hearts, people I could love for a life time. When you find the person/ persons for you, you know it. You KNOW that this person completes you and you cant imagine life without them. These are the people you can spend the rest of your life with. I believe everyone has a soulmate, a person they can love for the rest of their life. Be it a friend, or the person you marry, or, if you're lucky, both. These people wont leave your side no matter what. So yes, I believe i am capable of loving someone for the rest of my life. And beyond...
2006-11-01 06:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last statement of your question I have to say I do not agree with. I am much more romantic than my wife is.
I believe that anyone can stay with one person all of their life. The issue is that most people do not put in the necessary effort to understand who that person is.
Many people marry someone that they do not know. Many people marry someone that they are infatuated with, but not truly in love with. Many people marry someone who reminds them of one or both of their parents.
These people are more than willing to get married, but they do not understand what marriage is about. Marriage is more than just committing to another person. It is committing to the person that you like, love, are friends with, are devoted to and know.
If you watch older couples married for fifty years or more in interviews you will soon see that they finish each other's sentences and thoughts. If you know a person that well, you are ready to commit to them for life.
My wife and I do things for each other without saying a word and say to each other all the time, "that is just what I was thinking." We have been married for four years and together for six and have yet to get those things wrong.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-01 05:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I could if it were the right person. Again, it all comes down to integrity, respect, affection and attitude.
Of course, I have a track record of staying too long in relationships where one or more of those things is sadly lacking, but... if the right one comes along, maybe I'll appreciate her more after this long string of choosing the wrong ones repeatedly?
2006-11-01 05:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the couple and the people in the relationship. For a relationship to last a lifetime, I believe that there's a lot of compromise, a lot of work, a lot of bending your rules for each other... It doesn't always go perfectly, but if you work at it, yes, it will work a lifetime...
2006-11-01 05:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The cultural practices in India are such most of the couples lead love life till the end of their life. They dont have any advances to any other person other than the one they love and they are closely knit in marriage. Have you heard of Sati, a practice in india where the wife dies on the funeral pyre of the husband. Religious practices also restrain them going astray after lust.
2006-11-01 05:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by khayum p 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I will love my husband for the rest of my life. I really love the effort he puts forth trying to help me out of my jams. I really really love it when he tries to help me clean the house. I have to treat him like one of the babies, give him credit for his efforts, no matter wrong or right. I think as long as you focus on the important things in life, love can last and last and you can be truly happy! We focus on bringing each other up and not down.
2006-11-01 05:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately. true love is out there and is permanenent. I am so in love wth my fiance as he is with me. We both have the same beliefs and views, that love can last a lifetime, eternally.
2006-11-01 05:36:17 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definitely!! and until i meet that person, well i used to "fall in love" with everyone i dated. but recently,past 5 yrs. I've dated no-one because if i don't intuitively feel something when asked out- i opt not!
2006-11-01 05:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely I can and I finally found a man that I think I can see it in him as well.
2006-11-01 05:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋