what scares men in relationships?

Answer 1

I can speak only for myself.
The constant pressure to 'talk about my feelings'.
Its not that I don't have feelings, Its just that I'm not used to talking about them, and I don't care as deeply about some things as my wife.
I think she gets too worked up over nonsense, and has almost no clue whats really going on in the world. I just can't bring myself to worry about the little dog on Animal Planet, when I know people serving in Iraq and Afghanistan may be dying right now.

Answer 2

I personally think everything does. If you tell them you love them and they can *feel* that you really do and its not just words, they get scared. If you want to be a big part of their world, they get scared. If you tell them everything and your honest and you have nothing to hide, they get scared. If you mention the word marriage before they do, they get scared. Its a lose, lose, situation that I have found. I know that not ALL men are like this, but they ALL do get scared off one way or another. These are just a few 'what scares men in a relationship' that I have personally experienced. Blessed be.

Answer 3

There is no clear answer to this. It depends on the man and what his relationship intentions are. For example, if he is in love n wants to marry you, marriage will not scare him. Generally, men seem to be turned off by women that are insecure, women that are clingy, untrusting, shallow or unloyal.

Answer 4

Committment committment and oh yeah, did I mention committment? You're not allowed to speak or think of your future in terms of relationship wise in front or around them.. However, they are allowed to plan you're future and say whatever they please and it's considered sweet.. if you do it.. it's considered crazy, psycho, clingy, demanding, controlling, overwhelming, scary overbearing, etc... Men are more into relationships of the moment and only understand love to the certain extent of what they are feeling at the time..us ladies always examine every detail of what we're in because we're looking for completion..word to the wise.. keep you're hopeful thoughts of finding THE ONE to your inner self..

Answer 5

that's somewhat useful to do a sprint soul finding to be sure what handed off on your previous to make you this way on the instant and then attempt to reframe that venture on your recommendations and locate advantageous improve orientated subjects on your adventure. you weren't born with an apprehension of intimacy and relationships, so something ought to have handed off alongside a thank you to reason a short-circuit on your dating wiring.

Answer 6

It many things. Failed relationships,scared of losing control of their routine,a job can be more easier than committed relationship. That s why many become workaholics. Be certain you both want the same things,if not do not waste your time or his.

Answer 7

I think it is the fear of committment and the fear of growing old with the same person. I know it's weird but, I think it's true, because my boyfriend is always talking about how he loves me and wants me to move with him, but I won't because of his fear of committment and his sex addiction lol! For a lot of guys to be macho there's so many pathetically fearful men. That's how they keep going with the whore-ish, skanky girls instead the girls they can build a home with.

Answer 8

I think that being two clingy scares a lot of guys off that and jeoulousy

Answer 9

The thought of being told what to do too much for the rest of your life and not being able to have any fun.

Answer 10

Picking out wedding dresses and saying "I Love You" before they are ready for it. Always let them bring up marriage and love on their own.