Why don't you just watch with him? That's what I do with my man. We don't do it all the time but it does make sex exciting and we learn techniques and can get new ideas sometimes
2006-11-01 04:41:46 · 24 answers · asked by Love United 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I agree with you. I think many girls get really insecure about it. They feel like they are being compared to these unrealistic versions of women. Plus, many of them are not willing to do what they see on those shows.
2006-11-01 04:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by 180 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why do humans have to watch others having sex? Don't you have an imagination? Or is it so dull that that is the only thing that can stimulate you? If so, you are with the wrong person! I won't be with someone that needs or believes porn is ok. Sick and twisted minds out there! Think about it! What is lacking in you that you need to look at others? I'm not insecure, I just happen to have values and morals. That doesn't mean I can't do whatever I want behind close doors but that's my business.
Right on Violent Pearl..
2006-11-01 04:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by daisy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The reason that I get upset if my man watches porn is because the fact that porn is fake and he don't see it that way. Sure porn is sex but that is all it is, sex.....like a bunch of dogs or something. There is NO love in the sex acts of porn. If people want to advertise their sex and let every body see them engaged in sex that is them, as that is all it is just sex and not making love. I don't want my man to get the wrong ideal of thinking that I am going to act like one of the sl*ts on the porn. I don't like having sex, I on the other hand love making love with my man.
2006-11-01 05:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regularly indulging in sexual fantasy about other people, whether in one’s mind, through reading magazines or watching films, is a form of infidelity. You have made a commitment to be sexually monogamous with your partner, and you break it by deliberately focusing your sexual attention on someone else.
Intimacy is the shared experience of closeness and connection between two people. Porn destroys intimacy because, by definition, it introduces a third element into your relationship--the thought or picture or video of another person or sexual situation. Although some couples claim they both enjoy sharing pornography together, I strongly doubt that it creates more intimacy in the long run. What it does do is create more eroticism, which many couples- possibly you- mistake for intimacy.
2006-11-01 04:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having read the answers previously stated I'm surprised at the acceptance that a male will want to watch a staged show of a woman's body being used as a toy over building a realtionship with his partner.
Insecurity has nothing to do with it.
There is a lot more to a relationship then having physical sex. Most of these males are not men as they are not in-tune with they emotions and are unable to share emotionally. Therefore unable to give more to the real woman in front of them. Any woman who settles for this is settling for herself to be nothing more then a toy. Relationships are much more and if the male is unwilling to grow get rid of him for a man.
2006-11-01 05:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by Tracey K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i do sometimes but i have a black boy friend that puts down black women but all he would look at is white porn and i sad look at some black porn and he said they can do it better that's why i got upset so i said go with them but he said i love my sisters and I'm black and would not give me no sex he said i should come on to him because white women do it and i got up set so watching porn with him was out of the question
2006-11-01 04:52:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz women are afraid that they lose out to the porn stars in terms of figures, looks, booties & boobs! So the more they see them, the more inferior they get. Not only that, if women know their men are watching porn, they tend to get worried that their men would rather watch porn & masturbate themselves in front of the TV. If not, the men settle their desires by "using" their women's vag_inas while they imagine the porn stars' face & screw them but not really love their women and want to have sex with them.
2006-11-01 04:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
it is cause the guy think of doing the porn star instead of their girlfreind. I know this cuase i'm a guy and picturing doing a porn star is a big turn on. even if the girlfreind is hot then the porn star. plus guy like they also cause they do thing in the porns that they would like to have their girlfreind do but the girlfriend thinks that is sick and wrong to some of the things seen...
2006-11-01 04:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only time I got upset about him watching porn was when he did not want to have sex with me yet I found him sneaking porn. I would have gladly watched it with him. And no, we are no longer together.
2006-11-01 04:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he shouldn't need porn to have a good sex life with me and he shouldn't want to look at anyone but me.
2006-11-01 04:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by hot like me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋