Ok...my boyfriends ex, of a year and in half called him and tells him she misses him and even though he says it dont matter cause he loves me now...i still think somethings wrong because hes been really weird im afraid hes gonna break up with me for her even though he says he not gonna do that...any advice for me...
2006-11-01 04:18:11 · 14 answers · asked by Tweek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't allow yourself to be insecure about it. If he wanted his ex, she wouldn't be his ex. You are his girlfriend, but you must accept a few facts a) You do not own him. b) The only thing binding him to you is a verbal contract-- in other words, he's with you because he wants to be. c) If he chooses to go back to his ex, he's not worth your time anyway.
2006-11-01 04:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mary S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you mean by "acting wierd", biggest thing is not to jump to any conclusions. Just ask yourself "has he ever given me a reason not to trust him?" If the answer is no, then don't drive yourself crazy asking the what if's, if the answer is yes, then you probably shouldn't be with him in the first place.
2006-11-01 12:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by Trey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation babe! the only difference is that I am like your BF now ... my Exgirlfriend started to call me, and put me under pressure again. Although she has a bf too, but she says that she wants me back. you know what I do? you boyfriend might do the same thing I do. I use for my X- for sex only becuz my real gf is abroad! I give LOVE only and only to my GF, and i would never go back to my X. as i said i only use her for my enjoyment. Try to not change the way you act with your boyfriend, and show him that you have NO DOUBT THAT HE WILL NOT GO BACK ... he will stay with you, i promise ;)
2006-11-01 12:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by hacker_d26i 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all don't jump to conclusions. This guy has reassured you and you need to trust that and him. I guess he seems weird because probably hearing from her brought back memories, good and bad. Just hang in there with him. Trust him. But it doesn't hurt to keep one's eyes and ears open.
2006-11-01 12:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by dsd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he does, you can't really do anything about it. Sit him down and ask him to be honest with you and find out what is going on. You deserve to know what is going on. If he still insists it is nothing, then when she calls again, stand there when he tells her not to call anymore!
2006-11-01 12:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by kimmypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes and ears open. I know that sounds mistrusting, but you need to stay aware. He has been acting odd since the call. Hes obviously thinking something.
2006-11-01 12:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you should sit and talk to him about how you feel and have him explain how he feels about her to you and do not take a one word answer or I do not know. Then once you have the facts or whatever than make your decision
2006-11-01 12:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by JAmie N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to kill yourself worrying about it all. Stop with the what ifs. If you want to stay with him do it and forget about the call. If you cant stay with him without this consuming you then get out!
2006-11-01 12:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He left for some reasons...why would he want to go back to the old reasons. Unless, you have given him more reasosn than he had with her.
2006-11-01 12:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play it by ear and see what happens. of course you are going to feel threatened, its a part of his past. just be honest with him and let him know that it makes you feel insecure. he will choose the realest one.
2006-11-01 12:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by bam_32473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋