Other - Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

My boyfriend of 9 months recently broke up with me. He said he feels guilty to be in a relationship cus he's always working and can't dedicate enough time to me. He said he needed to be alone for now. He also expressed that he cares for me a lot but is not in love with me. Since the breakup he has continued to call me once a day everyday. We have even seen each other a couple of times but nothing has happenend. I asked him if he believes we'll eventually get back, and he said yes, that he doesn't want to lose me.This situation is extreamly painful. I am confused, and scared of losing him for good. If he wants space why does he call each day? What should I do to make him realize this hurts me? Plz help!!

2006-10-26 09:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by XDebbie22 1

He's on my mind all day. I can't wait to see him, be near him, smell him, etc...We were friends first and now lovers and it's the greatest feeling in the world. He's almost 30, I'm 25 and while I know we need more time to grow as a couple, I just know in my bones that he's the one.
Are there any ladies who can relate to what this feels like? Are you with this man now? How long did you have to wait until you got married?

2006-10-26 09:40:32 · 2 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5

I was seeing a guy for about 5 months. We were always together and text eachother about 40times a day. lol. We were so into eachother. We would think about the same things and even have the same dreams at nite. Well, we started fighting and it started goign down. The last fight was really bad. He broke it off and said that he dosent wanna waiste our time, that we are to much alike and that it will never work out. We are very much alike I agree but Im havng such a hard time letting go. Is he correct that we will never change and continue to bump heads? We have the same temper and are very passionate people.So when we fight its deep. But our love was deep too, I thought! Im so confussed. We have so many moles on our bodies that are alike and are located on the very same spot. He has a scar by hes eye that is exactly like my scar on my eye. Not only that hes birthday is 2 days before me! Im so confused. I though this guy was my soulmate

2006-10-26 09:39:20 · 2 answers · asked by evangelina1980 2

i go with this boy that always says he loves me and stuff but we only been going out for about a month and i barley know him. My ex and me are really close. we always see each other and talk to each other and more. his friends say that he wants me back but im not sure. He didnt say it to me so im not leaving my new bf. but i dont like my new bf that much.I really miss my ex. i know he misses me too. Oh yea and one of my friends likes my ex. i hate her for that cuz he dumb self called me asking for his # and stuff. now i feel like i cant trust anybody! i was going to fight her but its not all that serious; exspecially over a boy. which i should be worried about my edu. but last week i got papers in the mail for a scholor ship. help!

2006-10-26 09:37:42 · 1 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

I dated a guy for 2 years after a messy divorce. We had an awesome relationship, but my xhusband and i were fighting over custody of my children. I moved away from the town i was in and left my boyfriend. Friends told me he was depressed and sad, but I thought putting my kids ahead of everything else was the right thing to do. This was 8 years ago. I recently looked up old boyfriend on net & found him. Called him -he's still basically the same as he was 8 years ago. He said i broke his heart and he's been waiting for me all these years. I now live 11 hours away and he's wanting me to move back. I have since been married & divorced & had another child & i'm single & old boyfriend is single. Should i take a risk to move back for a what if things worked out or if they could now or is that just plain ol silly to think i can rekindle an 8 year ago romance? He's willing, he's even agreed to pay my relocation expenses for me & my 6 year old who live with me. Nothing forcing me to stay here.

2006-10-26 09:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by princessb 2

boyfriend of 4 yrs,two kids he is on meth, i luv him but he cheats beats and doesnt work says he luvs me 2 death but he is bringing me down i want al-anon meetings where 2 go.

2006-10-26 09:34:54 · 1 answers · asked by lukijes 1

I asked toni why she was so mean, guess what she said...You have no right to call me "extremely bitter" as you do not know me or my character and that is a judgement of my character. If you ever, ever refer to me or anyone else in DCMM as such again, I will ban you IMMEDIATELY.

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2006-10-26 09:33:57 · 1 answers · asked by sami 3

how do you if your current boyfriend is thinking about proposing to you? is there signs or anything?

2006-10-26 09:32:32 · 1 answers · asked by shortcrazychic 2

On this Thursday evening ? Anyone have anything out standing going on ?

2006-10-26 09:31:54 · 1 answers · asked by Geedebb 6

legally and without looking too vindictive?
because i just found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. he pressured me into an abortion then i found out from one of his mates he was seeing someone else and had been for months. so i'm very angry and want revenge on him-i don't care about her as apparantly she didn't know

2006-10-26 09:31:46 · 12 answers · asked by strigoi12003 2

i went out wit this guy for like months and then pplz started saying i was cheating on him wich i didnt and then one nite he broke up wit me and since then its been like a rollercoaster with us he has a new girl but i he even said that he still have feelings for me and i love him still i juss wanna be with him. what do i do if he does still have feelings for me...why wont he try to be wit me??

2006-10-26 09:30:46 · 1 answers · asked by bOoTyLiCoUs(XoxXo) 1

I work in an office alone with my much older boss.I am married and he knows this.But,he will rub my back under my shirt when I go near his desk and he grabs me and hugs me all the time.And he'll say can you hear your heartbeat and put his hand on my breast.I can't quit I need my job.Help what do I do my husband has no idea this thing goes on.

2006-10-26 09:26:00 · 8 answers · asked by katzgto67 2

I am 30 years old... my parent got separated since i was 1 years old.. My father got married with another women.. from whom he brought 2 boys and 1 girl... I had a chance to see the 2 boy before when i was 5 years old.. but the girl wasn't born then yet.. the first time i saw her is when she was 10 years old... and i was 16 at that time... during that period we loved each other so much... it was crazy.. Then i haven't see her again till last year.. where i found out that she was engaged... i was happy for her... although when she told me about her fiancé.. I didn't find him suitable.. but anyway.. i didn't want to get involved.. and for me i was just trying to find out more of her personality and her character.. she came and visited me during my vacation and my family at our beach house for about a month... along with my other 2 brothers .. however my brothers had to leave most of the time because of their work.. at that time i had the chance to sit together and talk about many things.

2006-10-26 09:23:35 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i go with this boy that always says he loves me and stuff but we only been going out for about a month and i barley know him. My ex and me are really close. we always see each other and talk to each other and more. his friends say that he wants me back but im not sure. He didnt say it to me so im not leaving my new bf. but i dont like my new bf that much.I really miss my ex. i know he misses me too. Oh yea and one of my friends likes my ex. i hate her for that cuz he dumb self called me asking for his # and stuff. now i feel like i cant trust anybody! i was going to fight her but its not all that serious; exspecially over a boy. which i should be worried about my edu. but last week i got papers in the mail for a scholor ship. help!

2006-10-26 09:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3

I personally don't have any children but work with children at my church. One of the girls said something about not celebrating halloween. I know this is common among Christians and just wonder why and if you let your children go trick or treating? My mother always let us go when we were little and it didn't change my faith at all.

2006-10-26 09:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by Leah * 3

2006-10-26 09:14:10 · 4 answers · asked by tori 1

i need a buffalo sabres extended network code!

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2006-10-26 09:11:16 · 2 answers · asked by Emma 3

text number by mistake got reply been texting for nearly 3 years ( i'm married) hes not

2006-10-26 09:10:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

name maggie roberts born 1898 have old letter with 10 wigram row as the street but was returned in 1960

2006-10-26 09:10:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell it like IT is!no need to lie anymore

2006-10-26 09:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by manders359 1

me and my b.f are so in love with eachoher and his birthday already passed but he invited me to go to the mall and out to dinner with him and his fam and a freind i mean im so happy and i really want to go but im scared becuase idk how much food to take when we go out to dinner i mean like i dont wanna take to much becuase then the will think im a pig and i dont want to take to lil becuase i dont want them to think i dont eat or somthing. and im scared that his freind will make fun of me or somthing. and i dont no what to ware i dont know how to do my make up or my hair. omg omg i dont know what to do and im gonna be so scared to eat infornt of my b.f also when im with him and his freind should i still hold his hand or no.i need meg help

2006-10-26 09:05:04 · 17 answers · asked by becca p 1

How do you know that a guy will never ever leaves you no matter what? Everytime we argue, I dont talk to him and just walk out. I easily get mad and angry. I dont like it. I am so sensitive and emotional. He cry everytime we argue, he cries when I am sad and mad. Does it mean that he really loves me or does it mean that he is a gay? They say that when a guy cries, then he is a gay. :S
I've been with my boyfriend for half a year. We have a nice relationship yea.
Any answers pleas? Thanks alot!!

2006-10-26 09:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 09:01:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-26 08:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by Joy R 1

i heard my dad talkong on the phone with his cousin saying that he might leave my mom.and leaving me and my brother. im scared thats going to happen. what should i do?

2006-10-26 08:49:01 · 10 answers · asked by buble c 1

should he be forgiven ,if they were split up at the time but he was still sleeping with the girl friend and didnt sat anything about a one night stand until he got caught?

2006-10-26 08:48:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

tommorow im dressing up for the school holloween dance and im dressing up as trya bank and i dont know what to wear,how to do my hair.can someone help me?!!!!!!!!

2006-10-26 08:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by buble c 1

been together for a year and a half. lived together. after a year he proposed. six months later he broke up with me (done, over, wouldn't talk, see or face me)due to different factors on both parties. (no cheating involved) he said he got cold feet and needed a little space. we got back together four days later and decided to take it solw and not live together. i see him everyday but go home at night and on the weekend i stay with him. how do you go from having it all with all your dreams coming true to having nothing to having a little. How do you transition to just dating when you are use to having him there all the time and being yourself again instead of feeling like you are on egg shells all the time scared of irritating him or making him mad, etc. any advice on how to deal with this and get things back to the way it use to be. its great between us but its very different gosh i want my ring back and OUR life back...tell me how you JUST date someone after having all that.

2006-10-26 08:44:28 · 21 answers · asked by badgebabys65 1

I want to have plastic surgery on my nose. As far as I can remember it has been a wish of mine. My nose is horrible. My husband is against me having it done, he says it looks ok. I told him it would make me feel so much better in myself, he then says i am trying to be a spring chick. I feel upset with the way I look and I want to do this for me and no one else. hat would you do. any advise please. I am 47, and dont want to look like a chick as he says.

2006-10-26 08:38:48 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy 1

Yes her name is Sara Powers she would be around 20 years old I have looked to as far as my abilitys can go does anyone know this person or know how I mite go about finding her?

2006-10-26 08:38:14 · 3 answers · asked by Since birth 2