2006-10-26 09:14:10 · 4 answers · asked by tori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will have to choose and choose wisely. You will have to say yes to one and leave the other behind. It's not often easy and it's not often kind, but you will have to finally make up your mind. You cannot have a marriage relationship with both. It isn't legal nor is it moral.
I suggest you test their love by the standards found in the Bible. Read in I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" of what true love is and isn't. Love is always patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. It is such that if someone loves you, they will die to save your life. But if love itself dies, it wasn't love in the first place. If either one doesn't measure up to this, he is not for you.
2006-10-26 09:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lead either of them on until you decide which of the two you want, or if you want either of them! Do you have feelings for one of them? Just be clear, and be honest.
2006-10-26 09:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by coffeytalk.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your relationship the same with both of them
don't act any differently
don't hurt one of them unless you truly do like the other
2006-10-26 09:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be difficult, but you would have to break it to one of them and tell them you just dont like them the way they want you too....i would probably just be friends with them both and see what to do from there....
2006-10-26 09:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by hannahgirl333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋