i go with this boy that always says he loves me and stuff but we only been going out for about a month and i barley know him. My ex and me are really close. we always see each other and talk to each other and more. his friends say that he wants me back but im not sure. He didnt say it to me so im not leaving my new bf. but i dont like my new bf that much.I really miss my ex. i know he misses me too. Oh yea and one of my friends likes my ex. i hate her for that cuz he dumb self called me asking for his # and stuff. now i feel like i cant trust anybody! i was going to fight her but its not all that serious; exspecially over a boy. which i should be worried about my edu. but last week i got papers in the mail for a scholor ship. help!
2006-10-26 09:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do your new b/f a favor and tell him it is over between you two cuz you shouldn't be with someone if you aren't truly wanting to be with them. it sounds like you are only with him for convenience while you are still holding out for your ex. and loose the so called friend, even tho he is your ex your friend should know that your ex is off limits to her! you never know your ex's friends could just be telling you that he still likes you because they don't want to see you with the new guy.
2006-10-26 09:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've have even entered into another relationship and you weren't over your ex. You were wrong for that because the new guy could genuinely be falling for now. What I think you need to do is, tell this new guy about your feelings for your ex and break it off. It will hurt him if he has feelings for you but, it will be better to do it now than later! Try and work it out with your ex if at all possible. Maybe you two just needed space. As far as your scholarship goes, you know what to do! Why did you work for it? I wish you the best. Next time, think before you act. Luvu.
2006-10-26 09:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down girl! Guys are nothing to stress your self out over. Let time tell! Have you ever heard that sayin, "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours. If it doesnt, it never was." Use that as a guideline. If youe ex is telling people he wants you back, sit down with him and talk about it. Maybe he is to "proud" to step up and say anything to you or he may be afraid too. Have a chat and please let the new man go. If you arent in to him that much and he already says i love you, you are only going to hurt him worse by hanging on to him for nothing.Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 09:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your new boyfriend, your not being fair to him.
2006-10-26 09:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋