should he be forgiven ,if they were split up at the time but he was still sleeping with the girl friend and didnt sat anything about a one night stand until he got caught?
2006-10-26 08:48:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not at all. i m a guy. if i love smone then only i will take tht step of sexual intercourse.
and after tht if he cheats u then he is a black spot on humanity.
if he cheated u after doin sex thn one thin is for sure, he never loved u, he just wanted sex. so will u forgive a prson who used u for his amusement n threw u wthout carin for wht all u have to face in future
2006-10-26 08:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by confused soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiven but not forgotten?
You already know he's an irresponsible cheater. It could have been a 101 night stand until he got caught also making him a liar. Love doesn't cheat, your baby deserves better and so do you. Remember he didn't just burn the toast, he was out making more babies.
2006-10-26 16:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Share 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question. You say they were "split up" but still "sleeping together". How does that work?
Anyway, if they were "split up" then he wasn't "cheating", so there is nothing for her to forgive. If they were "split up" then it's none of her business who he's sleeping with. The same thing goes the other way too. If they're split up then it's none of his business who she sleeps with either.
2006-10-26 15:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The split up does not sound like a break up. It also sounds like he will cheat again. Trusting him would not be easy. You might want to wait until the baby is born and see how he reacts. If he develops a sense of responsibility, he will most likely be honest. If not, then dump him as soon as you can.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-26 15:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they were split up he didn't get caught! He was allowed to sleep with whoever he wanted! You need to find out if he is commited to the relationship before saying he hasd cheated. I hope you guys can sort it out. Good luck
2006-10-26 15:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by lazy lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he shouldn't be forgiven. Sooner or later he will do it again. I feel sorry for the pregnant girl, tough call for her and of course the guy knows it.
2006-10-26 15:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by yolkyolk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they were split up then he didn't technically cheat. However he should have been honest with her about sleeping with someone else. There are too many diseases out there to risk that kind of behavior. I hope he wore protection.
2006-10-26 16:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would have to do some serious repenting and walk the straight and narrow. He needs to marry the pregnant girlfriend and be faithful to her if he is serious about wanting forgiveness.
2006-10-26 15:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Punky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were split up at the time, it is NOT considered cheating! So then there is nothing to forgive. If it continues while the relationship is being reconciled, then you decide whether or not to forgive!
2006-10-26 15:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if u didnt satisfy his needs while u were pregnant he had to get it done somewhere else but after u give birth he should have no excuse as to do it again so yea u should hes the father of ur baby
2006-10-26 15:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by bigboss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋