My boyfriend of 9 months recently broke up with me. He said he feels guilty to be in a relationship cus he's always working and can't dedicate enough time to me. He said he needed to be alone for now. He also expressed that he cares for me a lot but is not in love with me. Since the breakup he has continued to call me once a day everyday. We have even seen each other a couple of times but nothing has happenend. I asked him if he believes we'll eventually get back, and he said yes, that he doesn't want to lose me.This situation is extreamly painful. I am confused, and scared of losing him for good. If he wants space why does he call each day? What should I do to make him realize this hurts me? Plz help!!
2006-10-26 09:46:39 · 4 answers · asked by XDebbie22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. i think you need to sit him down, express your feelings and he needs to decide either way because 1. its not fair of him to have you lingering around and 2. he is causing you too much pain. i think that if he cant be direct with you, you really need to try and have closer and move on. because he may end up hurting you even more. and, if he's not in love with you...why would he say that he could see you two getting back together?? i think he is being extremely cruel and not understanding your feelings. and, if he is understanding, he's very very selfish. good luck girl and BE STRONG.
2006-10-26 09:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you both will get back together finally
i think he just needs time and is afraid that you want more and deserve more time than he can give you at this present moment
make it clear to him that you understand the situation and that your OK with not being in that close of contact with him at the present moment
but you don't see it fit for him to say your over but still want to be in contact with you
ask him if he cant just limit the time you spend with him but don't call it quits on the relationship just yet
that' the best i can think of at this moment
i hope it helps
2006-10-26 16:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he is being honest with you? if so, he'll be back and your relationship will be stronger. if you don't believe him then move on.
2006-10-26 16:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Buster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. my boyfriend won't let me go either.
2006-10-26 16:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋