me and my b.f are so in love with eachoher and his birthday already passed but he invited me to go to the mall and out to dinner with him and his fam and a freind i mean im so happy and i really want to go but im scared becuase idk how much food to take when we go out to dinner i mean like i dont wanna take to much becuase then the will think im a pig and i dont want to take to lil becuase i dont want them to think i dont eat or somthing. and im scared that his freind will make fun of me or somthing. and i dont no what to ware i dont know how to do my make up or my hair. omg omg i dont know what to do and im gonna be so scared to eat infornt of my b.f also when im with him and his freind should i still hold his hand or no.i need meg help
2006-10-26 09:05:04 · 17 answers · asked by becca p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You must be young. First of all, BE YOURSELF! If you are so in love then what does it matter how much you eat? As long as you have good table manners I don't think you can do any harm. It's your relationship and not anyone elses. Again be yourself and eat!!
2006-10-26 09:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cristina M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you hook up? If you are going to have an anxiety attack at the thought of dining with him and his family., then you need to stop and build up your own self esteem. Maybe this is not the time to be concerned about boyfriends. Especially if this is the way you are about everything connected with him.
I can tell that you are young. All I can see is diarrhea of the keyboard here. Since you are worried enough to ask, then you should be courteous enough to be a bit more contentious of your writing.
You let your feelings rule you. This is very dangerous! You need to be able to think and observe. Close your mouth and slow that brain! Watch and observe all around you. It does not hurt to ask what the others are ordering, this will let you see how much you can, safely, spend for your meal(choose between the highest and lowest prices. By being observant and quiet you will project a confidence that you will obviously be lacking.
2006-10-26 09:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared just be your self and relax. in the end it does not matter what people think as long as your man loves you and if you do have his love than others peoples opinions shouldn't really matter. It will be ok. as for your clothes and make up wear something you know he likes after all it his day and you want to look good for him.
2006-10-26 09:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 03:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I feel that is safe to wait until the others have ordered, then choose something that is in between price range of what the others have, or in between the amount of food. that way it is neither too much nor too little. then relax so you don't give yourself indigestion!:)
2006-10-26 09:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mistro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just eat a medium sized portion.
2006-10-26 09:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just eat. Quit worrying about the little crap. Its not worth the stress.
2006-10-26 09:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and eat the way you do normally. Enjoy yourself!
2006-10-26 09:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself!
Don't care what other people think about you.
If your boyfriend judges you for how you eat and how much you eat, then he doesn't really love you.
It's just food...
My boyfriend and I are both pigs when we eat. We just laugh about it.
2006-10-26 09:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry just be yourself. if your bf loves you so much he wont care about those little things. if he loves you for real he wont care how much you eat, how you do your hair, and he wont flip out about what you wear. dont get worked up about it, if he loves you for who you are he wont care about the little things. so dress like you, do your hair like you and have fun with your bf.
2006-10-26 09:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋