How do you know that a guy will never ever leaves you no matter what? Everytime we argue, I dont talk to him and just walk out. I easily get mad and angry. I dont like it. I am so sensitive and emotional. He cry everytime we argue, he cries when I am sad and mad. Does it mean that he really loves me or does it mean that he is a gay? They say that when a guy cries, then he is a gay. :S
I've been with my boyfriend for half a year. We have a nice relationship yea.
Any answers pleas? Thanks alot!!
2006-10-26 09:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you will know your boyfriend really loves you when you feel like he does. you have instincts and they will tell you every and anything you need to know the answer to. its the feeling that you get when you know something isn't right or that something is right. if you ask yourself that question, the answer willl come to you through these feelings
2006-10-26 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both need to act more maturely if you want this to work out. Crying, walking out, getting mad - those aren't ways of solving problems. You never know that a guy will or won't leave you because men change, just as you will also. But, I think you know someone loves you when they put your needs before their own and sincerely treat you well. You are probably rather young and will change so much in the coming years that what you want will change, so just go with the flow and don't take it too seriously. Also, guys cry because they're hurting, just like women do. That has nothing to do with being gay. But, if he cries all the time, he may not be able to express his emotions with words, so try to encourage him to do that!
2006-10-26 09:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it is not true that if a guy cries he is gay. That is a horrible stereotype that was never true. That horrible statement is why most guys are afraid to cry in front of others and why most guys are emotionally messed up.
It is great that he cries when you are angry or sad. He definitely loves you and he feels your emotions. You would do well to look inside yourself and understand why you get angry so fast. That is not healthy and will hurt all of your relationships.
He also does not like arguing. You might want to learn about his home life. His parents and/or siblings might have been abusive to him and your anger is similar to his experiences at home. Rather than getting angry with him, you could try compassion and you will better understand his emotions.
I was emotionally abused as a child and into adulthood. I have not spoken to my parents for more than a decade. I am very emotional and I do not like confrontation. My wife was also abused as a child and as an adult. We do not argue, since that brings back a lot of pain for both of us.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-27 01:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cries for you then he probably loves you. I think that if he really does love you, you'll be able to tell yourself, though. And you never know if a guy will never leave you - you can't control them. All you can ask is that they wouldn't want to leave you, and hopefully they won't.
Also, tell whoever told you this that it is ridiculous and obnoxious to stereotype "gay" people as "overly sensitive". Sadness is a human emotion - it's okay for guys to cry! Gosh! I don't know where this idea came from that guys can't cry. Wouldn't you rather have a guy cry over you than sit there and not care? It sounds like he def cares about you, so don't even think about considering him as something he's done nothing to be considered.
2006-10-26 09:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not gay, honey..He's just more in touch with his feelings! We guys get alot of that "real men don't cry" nonsense and I think its silly. It is true that men in general tend to block out their feelings, but I guess he is more comfortable with letting his feelings come out when he's with you. But if he cries ALL the time, though, maybe something is different.. It doesn't mean that he is GAY, but maybe he is abit effeminate. If you are comfortable with that. He is less manly, but probably better to talk to about feelings and emotions (most 'manly' guys are really bad at that)! I think you should talk to him during an argument though; walking out NEVER solves the problem, and as long as both of you are willing to discuss it civilly. Or take 10 minutes in the next room to collect your thoughts and emotions before discussing it. Yea all the best to you girl!
2006-10-26 09:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody cries, that doesn't mean he's gay. Next time you walk out after a fight, come back in a few minutes after you've calmed down, and try to figure out why you had the fight. You will keep having fights if you don't reach a compromise on what is bothering the two of you.
2006-10-26 09:11:50 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the sweetest thing... that he cries everytime you are sad or mad.
I hate the fact that guys think they're gay JUST BECAUSE THEY CRY. Guys are humans too... and humans have emotions too!
He is not gay for crying. He just really cares about you and it hurts him to see you sad or mad.
2006-10-26 09:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a quacky female, I don't know what you mean by tearing up but have a bit of an idea, get yourself a punching bag lady, I don't like what you did. He has no need to apologize because he is occupied. Go out and get a life of your own.
2016-05-21 22:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who cry just have emotions like the rest of us. I am a guy and I cry and I am not gay. stick it out babe.
2006-10-26 09:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No hes not gay if he was he wouldn't be with you.He cries cuz he cares for you and loves you alot.When he cries it seems he can feel your pain too.
2006-10-26 09:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by sweetpinkness2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋