Other - Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

My fiancé just broke off the engagement about 3 weeks ago. I’m very hurt at the moment and don’t know what to do. He broke it off because he felt like he and I did not want the same thing in life. I know that he loves me very much, but I just want him back. Is very embarrassing because we have not told everyone, so when people ask me how are the wedding plans going I have to lie and say great. To others we are together, since only he and I know is done. I don’t know what to do, I’ve spoken to him and tried to make sense about us, but he wants nothing to do with me. Please Help!!!

2006-10-19 04:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i had him nd then we broke up nd after we did he started gettin out rumors about that he was just playin with me and that he didn even love me but my faithful bestfriends knew what to do but i wanna do somethin... si any suggesions

2006-10-19 04:00:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's been talked to death - but what would you do? He developmentally slow (injury as a child) and doesn't understand "consequences", sees it all backwards - if you take something from him as punishment - he blames you for making a bad choice to take the item etc....HELP!

2006-10-19 04:00:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

your partner you have been dating for 6 years never told you about two guys they slept with 7 years ago.

2006-10-19 03:59:27 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet 1

I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years, and he has been coming over my husband and my house for about a year. He has never shown us a picture of his family. He lived with this woman for about 12 years, and they have a 12 year old child together, and she has another older child. She cheated on him about 2 years ago. He said that he doesn't trust her, he's not in love with her, she and he have nothing in common, and he turned around and married her about 2 months ago. He didn't tell me, another friend told me. When I asked him, he said that he forgot to tell me. What? Why didn't he tell me? He said that he married her for the children. I think that he knows that I have feeling for him, but I'm married. What is you take on this? Please give me some good advice.

2006-10-19 03:58:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 03:57:10 · 5 answers · asked by SLEDGEHAMMER 2

Have you notice that there are times in life when you are happy with your job, or with your partner or with your health or friends, but not all in the same time? If absolut happyness means having it all at once, then does it mean that happyness doesn't exist, but we are only allowed to have happy momments? If so, we should mark and enjoy them!

2006-10-19 03:56:51 · 4 answers · asked by Desire 1

whats happening black men are out work by the droves they have family too some is very educated is jobs only for other races something is going on here iam sorry!!!!

2006-10-19 03:53:26 · 3 answers · asked by annjilena 4

i am going out with a guy that i had known for 2 years.. we started going out now.... everyday we seem to argue, everyday .. but about the most simple, smallest things ever. i am a very moody person, reasonably ... i am blunt honest if i don't like something or i think something is not right i say to him what i think about it. i been in bad realtionships b4 and this is why im doing it . i don't want anymore dissappointment ... i already told him but we still argue what can i do??????????????/

2006-10-19 03:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by gina g 2

I am finacially secure and can easily provide a good home for a child. How do I find a woman willing to have my child and then freely give it up and have no future contact?

2006-10-19 03:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by jeep_man129 3

I've been in this relationship for over 7 years and I love this lady very much and she tells me every day that she loves me but for over 3 years there has been next to nothing in the bedroom,like mabe 10 times if that she is going through the change and I can see its hard on her and I try to support her but I need some understanding also I don't want to lose her but I don't want to live like this forever.We have talked but it hasn't done any good.She has been to the dr.s we've tryed herbs, health food stores even the internet and nothings helped her.So if anyone has some good advice I'm willing to listen.Thank you

2006-10-19 03:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by lonewolf 1

Is there an official term?

2006-10-19 03:24:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do when you think no one cares eventhough they do? When u feel alone or want to be alone but you cant? What if you cant fit in?
I get all these mental breakdowns. it gets worst everytime and i sometimes cant control the things i say or do. fortunatly i nvr do anything i regret after too much. But the pain that comes with these breakdowns are really terrible. all my problems and fears emerge and tear me apart.
Friends, family, my ex, school... the usual teen pressure except, trust me, its not the average probs average teens go through and im serious
The usual response is, its not important, be yourself, relax, do your fav things and all that crap but im looking for real answers here....

2006-10-19 03:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by SaM19 2

2006-10-19 03:11:52 · 3 answers · asked by beauty girl 2

i have told him i dont love him and he still as not got the picture wot do i do

2006-10-19 03:05:14 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly B 1

A lady I work with wants to know. Her boyfriend calls her that all the time.

2006-10-19 03:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 3

2006-10-19 03:04:38 · 5 answers · asked by beauty girl 2

LIKE that new song by Beyonce...would that be a compliment or an insult?

2006-10-19 02:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by MsNic 4

MY SISTER STARTED DTING THIS GUY AND FOUR MONTHS INTO THE REALATIONSHIP HE HIT HER !! sHE IS STILLWITH HIM & THEY MAD THREE BEAUTIFUL CHLDREN , I AM CONFUSED WHY CONTINUE TO STY IN THAT MESS CALLED LOVE WHEN YOUR GETTING ABUSED!!

2006-10-19 02:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by Tabby 2

I go to this school right, and it's very rare to see a white person (afrikaans speaking) talking to a black person.What happens when you start to fall for a white dude,who doesn't seem to intend on making the first move?Will it work flirting with him or just tell him how you feel? Please give me some tips on this!!!!!!!

2006-10-19 02:53:13 · 2 answers · asked by portugal 1

2006-10-19 02:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by sassy_fun_devoted 1

Back in the 90's I met a wonderful guy. Unfortunately I was engaged to be married within months. Anyway, we kept in contact, and then recently when I went back to reading his letters I realized that he had mentioned that he loved me and didn't want to offend me. But he would still sign love your best friend *** I love you. He also mentioned that when he was in the hospital I was all that he could think of. Anyway more details, but 2 make it short I am separated due to domestic violence and I started reading his mails and i realize i was getting butterflies and I went to search on internet found him. Well he came to my state to visit and after all these yrs we made love. It was wonderful but we are in different states so now what? did we ruin our 15 yr platonic friendship? we speak often and he always assures me that he loves me inspite of the distant thing. i love him too. we are adults by the way. what are we doing? yes he's in a relationship, she found love letters to me a few yrs ba

2006-10-19 02:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by nomorepblm 2

ok i have been going out with my bf for almost a year but i met this guy about a month ago and i fell in love with him and he told me that he loved me what do i do because i love the new guy more than my bf but i dont want to leave my bf what do i do

2006-10-19 02:44:52 · 29 answers · asked by Stephanie R 1

MY DAUGHTERS FATHER IS LOOKING FOR HIS FATHER WE HAVE VERY LITTLE INFO ON THEM HIS MOTHER DIED WHEN HE WAS ADOUT 8 YRS OLD 23 YRS OR SO AGO.WE WOULD LIKE TO FIND OUT WHERE SHE IS BURIED AT AND IF SHE HAS ANY FAMILY STILL LIVING .DOES ANY ONE WHERE I SHOULD START.ANY SUGGESTS THANK EVERY ONE FROM NOW

2006-10-19 02:43:06 · 4 answers · asked by Kenya B 1

I saw one girl get 55 answers! Damn!
Now I am fabricating a super question using my combined knowlege of people out here... I think it will have something to do with Jesus and sex, those are the most fruitful topics.

2006-10-19 02:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my man has been working in another city all week. I want him to know how much I really missed him, the old fashion way, (other than sex, thats a given) doing something real spiecal that will make him not want to leave for the week again. Any ideas???

2006-10-19 02:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by Rock n Robin 1

2006-10-19 02:39:02 · 2 answers · asked by dawnlynn72 1

Ok im getting married in 3 days and i know i should be overjoyed but yesturday he started some strange behavior. Ok he likes being very rough while we're playing and haas always like hit me and we will hit each other back then have rough play but yest. he seemed serious. We weren't fighting or anything and all of a sudden he hitme really hard and when i hit him back he said dont hit me back either then started laughing but i did hit him bak and this time it was harder and then he held my arms down and got on top of me and started biting me. he was laughin and everything but do u think he was serious or just really rough play. I eventually got to hit him back but then he got an attitude. I have bruises ande everything

2006-10-19 02:38:44 · 13 answers · asked by I know these things 2

Please don't drive drunk it not safe. But some people continue to ignore the out come. I have seen and heard real-life tragedy of drank drive some people bones were brokeing some cars were total what or some people thinking ?if you drive fast and your trying to turn a curve you no the out come. if you take drug you no the out come you see what it does to other people every day.some people should learn from what happen to other, but I guess they just dont care. if you go out party please take a friend with you a person who does not drink or take drug there will be lest death and injury. I just want people to take life seriously safe.your here today and gone tomorrowI just care about you all when I watch program of car accident or some one love one dieing from a drug overdose It hurt me to see what people have to go though Like I said I guess some people just dont care who they hurt.

2006-10-19 02:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do u in particular do that inyour daily life?
What are the feelings when u are doing it (giving and luving ur relatives and family).

Actually I have a problem that my bro does not like conversating with me. Im his only sister and 3 years younger to him. He always talks alot with my elder girl and boy cousins. Our conversations however end with a uyes or no from his side. Even if Itry to prolong a conversation ...he almost always puts a dead stop. How can I get him to not think less of me. Hes not such a bad guy. Hes got integrity and is doing a job so is earning. he also sometimes buyes stuff for me. But his attitude is so aloof. Its not normal. Ive seen bros and sisters talkin and I feel so left out. Sometimes while my mom, dad, him and I are sittin together he will almost ignore me completely.
Hes leavin for Norway in like 11-12 days and I have been tryin to get him to talk to me for the past God knows how many years. Im 23 hes 26.

2006-10-19 02:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous