i am going out with a guy that i had known for 2 years.. we started going out now.... everyday we seem to argue, everyday .. but about the most simple, smallest things ever. i am a very moody person, reasonably ... i am blunt honest if i don't like something or i think something is not right i say to him what i think about it. i been in bad realtionships b4 and this is why im doing it . i don't want anymore dissappointment ... i already told him but we still argue what can i do??????????????/
2006-10-19 03:50:06 · 8 answers · asked by gina g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There's nothing whatsoever wrong with being blunt and honest. However, you'll receive a much better reception from those around you--especially those with whom you're in a relationship with--by using tact. You can say something any number of ways. Start phrasing your equally honest observations and thoughts in a more tactful manner. I am no fan of PC speech just for the sake of PC, but tact isn't necessarily PC speech.
2006-10-19 03:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Trollbuster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are arguing every day, perhaps you should think about going out with someone else who won't make you so moody. And maybe take a good look at yourself and what makes you that way. Bad relationships are a part of life, we all get into one or more. Doesn't mean we have to change who we are because of it.... Good luck, honey.
2006-10-19 03:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering--did you and he argue like this before you began a relationship? If not, perhaps the relationship changed the dynamics. It happens. If you and he argue so frequently now, it's not going to change. Do you honestly want that? It may be you are meant to remain friends.
2006-10-19 03:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do keep the honesty
but instead of always having to be right try and fathom that ya man may have some valid points make sure you hear him out when you chose to tell him something bluntly and let him know that you care about him after an argument its always easier to talk to someone who just walked up and down you in an argument if u know they care
2006-10-19 03:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by comm2nd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We u have told him upfront how u are and he is still there. Sometimes oppisites at attract so go with the flow and if u find it unbearable drop him and find someone and find yurself a "yes mam" guy who agrees with you on everything. that will get boring really quik.
2006-10-19 03:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by dunebugger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone argues...
2006-10-19 03:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.relax
2.don't share every little thing that comes to mind
2006-10-19 03:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by rachel o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up
2006-10-19 03:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋