I am finacially secure and can easily provide a good home for a child. How do I find a woman willing to have my child and then freely give it up and have no future contact?
2006-10-19 03:42:08 · 12 answers · asked by jeep_man129 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Advertise for a surrogate,I'm sure there are websites that deal with this.If you are serious about this,please make sure the child has a female role model that they can confide in,especially if you have a daughter,there are some things that dads just can't answer.Good luck to you.
2006-10-19 03:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by stellablue1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that's really the best idea, but if it's what you truly want to do then I'd suggest adoption. There are plenty of young mothers who put their babies up for adoption. The only thing with very young children is that they need their mothers. So you could probably adopt a child that is around 7 or older. Good luck though, raising a child is hard on your own.
2006-10-19 10:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ally S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats great you have money, but money is not everything and it certainly is not a mother. You may make a wonderful father but a child needs a mother just as much as they need a father. You can never replace the bond a mother and her child has, that connection is made the second the child is conceived. You need to think about the child and whats best for it, instead of your personal goal of wanting a child. There are many great single parents, but most people dont seek it out. Its hard raising a child by yourself, money or not. The truth is two loving parents are better than just one. Thats twice the love and the attention that a child can receive. Not to mention if something happens to one parent than there is another parent available. I couldn't imagine not having my mother in my life, especially around my preteen/teenage years. I think you need to sit down and really think about what you are trying to do. The choice you are making will affect not just your life, but another as well.
2006-10-19 11:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by nefertiti186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a surrogate mother, there are some women out there who would be very willing to do this for someone. Did you ever think about adopting, there are so many children here in the US that would love to have a loving home to go to. Just something to think about.
2006-10-19 10:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly there is no real solution to your problem. You kind of have to have one to have the other. And you can't ask a mother to give up her child with no contact. Unless of course you just adopt or you could find a "surrogate" mother. They are women who have children for those who can't or have a hard time conceiving. The only problem is that you need eggs for the doctor to use. THe surrogate moms can't be used unless she agrees.
2006-10-19 10:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by lady_lucktyree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surrogacy..hmmm..im sure there are plenty of women out there willing to carry a child for and let you have full custody, it happens all the time. Or find a woman willing to carry a child and then find an anonymously donated egg. im not sure where you would go - perhaps it is similar to going to a sperm bank..go to a woman bank! ask at the hospital is my best idea...or you could adopt a needy child and make them a wonderful home - it doesnt always have to be ur flesh and blood to be 'your' child. best of luck.
2006-10-19 10:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think again....overthink the thought what you are doing to this woman.
even though you might find someone who would say that she will do it for a certain amount of money - if she have to give the kid away after birth she will suffer all her life long....
as for the kid: kids need both role modles: man and woman.
but who am i to judge.
all the best for your future...babysit a few kids and make sure, that this is really what you want and not just something to fill up your emptyness
2006-10-19 10:46:47 · answer #7 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope to God you are joking...the bond between a mother and a child is so special and because you don't want a relationship with a woman you want to ask her to give up motherhood for you...you are an asshole and you don't desrve a family or children.
2006-10-19 10:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy. Find a woman who wants to place her baby up for adoption.
2006-10-19 10:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I don't think that will work. No adoption agency will allow a single man to adopt a child.
2006-10-19 11:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋