Other - Family & Relationships - 30 July 2006

my boyfriend is pessimistic.he loves me and he trys to show me his love but he says that he is always concerned about me andhe always feel insecure .he says that his father has always been pessimistic and he has his effect in his sons life . he doesnt want to be pessimistic .he always wants me to explain him my daily activities and wants me to make him sure that i am not cheating.his behaviour hurts both of us. he asked me to help him but i dont know what I shouddo.what should I do about this?

2006-07-30 11:25:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a baby boy almost 11 months old and this should be the happiest time of my life. Husband out of work with union job and health insurance ended in March. Since then I have applied for Family Health Care and still didn't get it after many calls and sending paperwork. The social worker says I should get it soon but only for the baby. My husband is doing side-jobs but not much income. I can't look for work right now because my mom had a stroke and my dad has altzheimers and I have to keep going there to help. Brothers say they will help but they do not. My older son is drinking too much and has a very bad attitude and talks to me like I am dirt even though I show him nothing but love and kindness. My phone is probably going off in a week and the rent is behind and the landlord is selling the house we live in and new owner already said rent going up a few hundred dollars. My anorexia/bulimia have returned and I cannot stop. Husband says he is not happy with our sex life

2006-07-30 11:25:36 · 8 answers · asked by New York Mama 3

ok well I have had and still have a crush on this girl that i met at a rink. anyway I finally got her as a friend but I havent seen her in a month because the rink is resurfacing the ice and wont be back to the normal schedule until next month. Anyway I have her as a friend and talk to her through email and IM. I want to see her next month at the rink or maybe even before and she is really REALLY shy she is 15 yrs old (I am 14) and she does not have a bfand has never dated or anything. Anyway we are "just friends" but I want so bad to just give her a hug. I know a kiss is out of the question because once I was joking around with her on IM and she was telling me how annoying it was with this one guy that liked her and tried to impress her and throws footballs and soccerballs and stuff at her and anyway I joked around and said "lol has he kissed you yet" and she said "ew no!" anyway I want to HUG her and I dont know if it is a good idea or when to do it. Should I hug her?when?whatkind

2006-07-30 11:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does it hurt? Stuff like that.

2006-07-30 11:19:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

today I had a headache and my guy rubbed my head for me, isnt that sweet?

2006-07-30 11:18:38 · 14 answers · asked by memeemelissa 2

Did you believe that he or she was being honest with you?

2006-07-30 11:16:15 · 24 answers · asked by Gurlie 2

2006-07-30 11:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by carlandrover 4

My cousins live 2 hours away from us, and are planning to go to an amusment park that is 4 hours from their hous, but only 2 from ours.

So, they were going to come down tommorow, and spend the night, getting up at 5 in the morning so that they could be there when the park opens. Then, they would come back here at close and spend the night again before they left.

They invited me to come along. This is a fun park, Cedar Point, if any of you know it.

Here's the deal, though:
1: I don't talk to them all that much
2: my one cousin is nice, but the other is a snob.
3: Nice cousin only talks to snob cousin because they have more in common, and talk more offten then I do (they live by eachother, I only see them on holidays.
4: evertime we get together, I don't talk to them... Well, not much, but very very little.

I've tried to invite a freind, but as no parents are going they won't let her, and I have no one left to invite.

HELP?!?!?!

2006-07-30 11:15:18 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 3

I suffer from Premature Ejaculation........and I feel so pain about it that I can not approach any girl due to this. My question is that can anyone (me in this case) still make a woman satisfy during sex by doing some (If yes then what are those tricks) other things. I feel that one minute is not at all sufficient for any woman and feel very bad about it....I feel like less man...

2006-07-30 11:08:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 11:07:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll turn 40 this year, and have never been married. Close several times, but then . . . one woman cheated on me, another developed a drug habit, another became verbally and physically abusive.

I've done my best to be a healthy, confident, dateable man . . . but when people treat me like some kind of loser because I don't have a ring on my hand yet, it dredges up all those bad memories, and I become defensive about being single. Some even think that I'm gay because I've never been married, which certainly isn't true.

I really think I am a good catch, but have just had some really lousy luck. What would be the best way for me to respond to people who are insensitive and immature to me about the marriage subject? It wouldn't do any good to give a 3-hour story about all of the women who've wronged me.

2006-07-30 11:02:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there anybody (excluding your family members) that you would actually lay your life down for?

2006-07-30 10:52:26 · 4 answers · asked by jam961 5

doesnt my family ever go 2 church, weve gone 2 time this year...
ever time we r supposed to go, we dont. y?

2006-07-30 10:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think?

2006-07-30 10:44:34 · 10 answers · asked by libraNlovinit 1

It is my little sisters birthday is 4 days she turns 19 she is having a baby in three weeks and lately everything has been all about the baby but for her bday i really want to out do everyone and totally concentrate on her because its her day whats a good gift for me to buy her to make her realize just how much i care? And not concentrating on her baby?

2006-07-30 10:44:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

legally change your name? i dont mean like take on someone's last name cuz u marry them but like change your full name.

2006-07-30 10:40:55 · 21 answers · asked by predictable 2

If you caught you son/daughter looking at porn what would you do?

2006-07-30 10:28:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's a serious question that carries lots of truth about the person who answers. So think about it.....

2006-07-30 10:26:10 · 20 answers · asked by Atypical Marvel 2

IF YOUR EX IS STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU AND YOU KNOW HE IS , IS IT OKAY TO STILL TALK TO HIM , WITHOUT YOUR SPOUSE BEING MAD... AND HOW TO EXPLAIN TO HIM THE REASON YOU WERE TALKING TO YOUR EX INTHE FIRST PLACE? REAL ANSWERS PLEASE

2006-07-30 10:20:35 · 31 answers · asked by eye candy 1

Are you attracted to girls with high moral standards?? Or what are some things that you look for in a girl??

2006-07-30 10:13:43 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly Nicole 1

I was to get this money at acertain age, I'm not sure what age it is. Mom lost all the paperwork, Grandpa died in 1995. Can you Please help me. I could use this money to get a car or help pay for my futer education. Thank You

2006-07-30 10:03:56 · 12 answers · asked by sandy44k59 1

ask by panget

2006-07-30 10:03:51 · 18 answers · asked by panget 1

My Morning Thoughts
OF YOU

I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way!
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all!

By: Kenny P. aka-cobra

2006-07-30 10:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Cobra 5

Has sex in the same house as kids and mother or father in laws?
Just wondering because my mom did it with my stepdad on a family vacation with her in laws and my stepdad did it in the same house that his parents were in. They always have sex when i'm home and i was just curious is there any name for them.

2006-07-30 10:02:10 · 5 answers · asked by Kelly 2

Well, actually she is Bi I guess, simply because she is with me. Anyway,we have been together for 2 yrs and we are completly in love. I want to respect her craving for other women. When she goes out and meets girls, she can't be up front about having a B.F. and it is not a good situation for everyone involved. She wants to stay with me, but how do I deal with her having sex with other girls? And no, I can't or want to get in on the "action". Basically, it is tough to deal with her wanting someone (not because it is a girl, either) and I am afraid of losing her to somebody else. Some advice/answers from lesbians would be appreciated.

2006-07-30 09:53:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 09:49:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Fighting with people/boyfriend

2006-07-30 09:48:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

You see we beagn dating firhg t after prom I was 18 and we were crazy for each other. I made it clear that if we were to be together I wanted to be able to trust him. I wanted him to be honest with me I know honesty whenit comes to guys is a real pain. To my surprise he came out and told me that he ws writing to my ex best freind. They wer freinds for as long as I could remember. He asked me not to get mad because I knew that they were friends for a long time. And he even dedicated a song to me do you guys remember "please don't go girl" (new kids on the block). I still love that song, he even told me that he loved me and he said to me please don't leave me over this. I was so mad that I ended the relationship anyway. I regret it because I did still love him I just felt like he was keeping that from me what else coudl there be hidden. I was afraid that in the long he would reject me so I rejected him first. He came back looking for me when he was done serving in the army.

2006-07-30 09:44:18 · 7 answers · asked by friend 3

2006-07-30 09:42:53 · 11 answers · asked by sosol 1

ive been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months it will be 1 year in November. We have had some issues in the past few months, but were trying to work threw them, anyways. For christmas also his birthday right after ,he keeps hinting about a Michael Jordan basketball card (autograph) i believe the card ranges from $400-600
Im 19 years old hes 24, i make about $200 a week.
I dont feel comfterable buying a $400 ****** card, but thats what he always wanted.
Have you ever spent that much on your gf or bf for a gift?

he doesnt exspect me to get it but thought it would be nice of me.

2006-07-30 09:41:03 · 9 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4