As a fellow Mormon, I understand your question, but I think the other answerers might not.
So for them: what "high moral standards" means to a Mormon is not just switching off lights to save electricity or not stealing pens from work, but specifically not having sex outside marriage. The phrase "morally clean" and other similar phrases based around "morality" have come to mean, in Mormon parlance, saving any form of intimacy for marriage. That means everything bar kissing and hugging, by the way.
So what she is really asking is not whether you would be interested in a girl who is kind to animals, but whether you would date a girl who wouldn't let you get even to second base without a wedding ring on her finger. I think that might skew some of these answers.
2006-08-02 19:57:34
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answered by sunnyannie 5
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Very high moral standards are something to be highly esteemed, admired and respected, but whether or not a guy finds that attractive depends on what his goal is with you, and how big of a barrier your standards are to getting what he wants from you. I have a very high moral standard for any girl that I'm dating because I have more respect for her than any girl I would normally just call up to "hang out" with.
I greatly admire and seek a girl with a high moral standard, because the Christian goal for dating is marriage, and I expect more self-control than usually exercised... on both sides of a serious relationship, not less. Nowadays, people don't do stuff because they'll get labeled or embarassed, but then when they "go out", they start heavy physical relationships because the rest of the secular world tells them "it's okay if you really love the person."
I love high moral standards in a woman because I date for its true purpose, but any guy who's is dating for another reason, probably will not find that attractive.
Never let the secular world shake you from what you know in your heart is right, Kimberly.
slyguy_hzleyes@yahoo.com
2006-07-30 17:39:34
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answered by Anonymous
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It honestly would depend on what a guy is looking for in a girl. Society now a days isn't concerned with moral standards as much as the older days. I personally do look for somebody who is educated, has morals in the first place, and who is of course attractive.
2006-07-30 19:15:30
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answered by Tom 1
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I am attracted to girls with morals and that's that, the hight moral standards are a whole different thing all together, to the point of hypocrisy.
2006-07-30 17:19:16
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answered by Jetty 4
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Yes, I am, but I am not into girls whose moral standards are so high, that they criticize everything you do. Morals are great, but we don't want a woman who is going to try to change us, and look down on our behavior, especially if it's nothing that offends anyone.
2006-07-30 17:20:25
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answered by Jeffrey S 6
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Every guy is different. However, people are attracted to common intrests. people usally date other people that correspond with their own unspoken groups, such as physical attractiveness, wealth, and ethnicity. I assume that morals would fit into this as well. so, yes, haha i am attracted girls with high moral standards.
as for things i look for in a girl, the main quality that attrats me the most is a girl who is comfortable with herself and has a complete understanding of who she is. intelligance is a must as well.
2006-07-30 17:19:45
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answered by John W 1
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1-her looks.
2-moral standards.
2006-07-30 17:19:28
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answered by ali a 2
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I just got married two months ago to a wonderful woman with very high moral standards. I wouldn't have it any other way! :-)
2006-07-31 17:41:00
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answered by Senator John McClain 6
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I am more attracted to woman who is very open minded with some liberal morals just as long as she respects herself. If you just be yourself then you will find the most common denominator for a relationship. No one really care for someone who is imitation.
2006-07-30 17:27:22
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answered by Thom 2
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Some standards are a good thing, just as long as they don't become too much to handle. Contrary to popular opinion, open-mindness is a good thing.
Give and take girl. Give and take.
2006-07-30 17:30:29
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answered by Brian C 1
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