Friends - August 2007

My crush and I have known each other for 5 months, in fact he asked me to join the gym that he works at. So I did then all of a sudden all of these woman who have been at this gym for years started talking to me and becomeing my friends. I thought wow cool I like this gym meeting new people well my bestfriend joined as well becasue I asked her too. We go to classes 4 to 5 times a week. A few day's ago my friend and I where talking and she was telling me about some of these woman who are my suppose to be my friend where say the only reason we're her friend and hang out with her is becasue of her crush. He never gave us the time of day untill she came along now he talks us all the time. That hurt me and I trust my bestfriend becasue she doesn't like my crush she has a boyfriend.

Well tomorrow we're suppose to be doing something at the gym tomorrow and this woman who just joined the gym 2 months ago started being my friend and seen my crush and I hung out all the time together.

2007-08-17 16:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by browneyedangel210 b 1

She is 17 and so am I. She has never had a boyfriend, but this summer alone has fooled around with 3 guys at the camp we go to. She's got the reputation of 'camp ho'. Somehow she thinks it's a good thing. When I try to tell her what she is doing, she just laughs and says it's fun. How can I get her to understand that everyone makes fun of her and calls her names behind her back and that she needs to control herself?? Or should I just say nothing? Help please. I don't want to be mean, and want to say it as nicely as possible.

2007-08-17 16:50:31 · 3 answers · asked by onawaylvr9 2

WE are throwong a party for the batch that has just joined our college. A batch 1 year junior to us. We are about 150 people and our ages are around 18 to 22.
Please suggest some rocking ideas for the theme of tha party.

2007-08-17 16:28:58 · 4 answers · asked by goddess_of_fame 2

okay so i moved all the way across the country this summer and its been really hard on me and really depressing.So my old friends at my old home have already started back to school and kind of have moved on. So i am in desperate need to make some new friends to get my mind off my old ones. So I haven't started back at school yet and i can't figure out how to get friends. There aren't any activities out yet and we do live in a subdivision but girls/boys my age aren't outside like kids my little brothers age are. and what do i do if i see a girl ride by on her bike or walk by and i want to get to know her? How should i approach her and not seem weird??
any advice?

2007-08-17 16:06:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need advice. I can't get along with my husband's best friend. I feel he is a bad influence. I catched him once staring at my 16 year old sister.He is into guns and hunting and I hate that. Everytime my husband goes out with him he forgets any promises he makes to me. For example, last week he said he would go to his cousin's house and that when he came back we would go out. He did leave late, like at 7:00 p.m., but he returned at 11:00 pm. and then acted like he had said nothing.I told my husband I hated his friend. My husband sided with him and even told him what I said.My husband said that nothing would come between them so every once in a while he goes out with him without asking me or telling me anything he does. I feel that my husband should have not told his friend that I didnt like him and should have just tried to keep things neutraI. I feel very disrespected and I want an apology from my husband. I really dont know what to do. I feel like leaving his *** sometimes.

2007-08-17 16:04:06 · 14 answers · asked by NFM 1

I don't know what to do anymore. I have been friends with this girl for three years. She was my BEST friend. Then she gets a boyfriend. It's five months later. . She has DITCHED me so many times. The whole summer I've hung out with her ONCE. And she brought her boyfriend too. And they made out the whole time. Now they're in another city together and I'm pissed. She's gonna end up ditching me on my birthday to be with him, because she's done things like that before.
What do i do ??

2007-08-17 16:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 15:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by mari 1

I have a couple of friends in my life that I think are taking advantage of me. How can you tell when your friends are taking advantage of your kindness? One friend is always ready to come over here for dinner, movie, couple of beers, asking me to watch his daughter, but I never see him asking me if I would like to hang with him at his place. I have another friend who lived with me for awhile until she sucked me dry and then moved out. Thats a sure sign I know. I have another friend who I do not think is completely honest with me about how she feels about a guy we both know. How can one tell, are there signs your friends are taking advantage of your kindness, the type of caring person you are?

2007-08-17 15:53:48 · 3 answers · asked by tkllum 1

I have been married for bout 7 yrs. and now i discovered that im really lonely.I dont even have friends besides my husband.hes ok but i felt that i needed something more that he just can't give me.Tell me "Am I being selfish "? I used to be an outgoing kind of person and I have friends then.But since I got married.......

2007-08-17 14:27:56 · 9 answers · asked by lorelie s 1

I have a friend who I have had feelings for for ages, but, as he was married when we first met, I never acted on them or expected him to feel anything for me.

He is now separated and moving towards divorce. At first he was upset, but now talks positively about his plans for moving house, travel and work changes. Since feeling better, he's also contacted me very regularly (almost every day over the past few weeks) and we are planning on meeting up in a few weeks for a weekend together.

When we are together, he stares a lot and I often catch him looking when I am doing other things. He is also very compliamentry - tells me I am smart, hard-working, full of life, etc.

We have a lot in common - more with him than any of my other friends. All this, despite the fact that he is 45 and I am 23.

From this information (I know, not a lot to go on), do you think he likes me? I'm a little overweight, but have an OK face & don't dress particularly sexually - just jeans with dresses, etc.

2007-08-17 11:18:57 · 12 answers · asked by Kirralilly 2

Hi Iam 20 years old have a 6 month baby, my husband is 23, anyway I know my husband for 2 years now, we lived together for about 3 months then he moved in with me, the thing is that I wanted to met his mother after we knew each other for a while! but she was always making excuses, so I stop, then I got pregnant when I was 3 months she finally said to go over to her house when we got there I was nervous, we seat and eat everybody in the table were talking but they never said one word to me, not even how was my pregnancy going, I felt pretty offended I went home thinking that they didnt want me, I told my
husband how I felt he told me that hes mom changed since she got married to another man, his step- father and that all she does is listen to him, and never care about him anymore! since my daughter was born they havent give her a thing! and she's her first grand daughter, then his step fathers son lives there with his GF there so fake,my mother in law talkingabout me with the gf




I can not believe how they're, they always want to come between this marriage, they think that Im the bad person, cause whenever is the weekend and I dont feel like going to there house they think that I control him, but the truth is that my husband never wants to go there if Iam not ther with him, He loves me more then anything and I do too, she. The sep father has son and my mother in law is always talking to him so nice and to his Gf too, she treat him better then my husband and she talks to her more then me! everytime I go there I go thinking that things will be better, Im always nice to them, but they just dont want to open up
with me! now I dont even want to see them anynmore, only my mother in law cause I believe she has the right to see her grand dauhgter but the other people I dont care! Do you think I should see them, after them not giving my dauhter a thing?


they never want to comet to my house cause we live with my parents, and what I hate about my husband is that he never talks to her, he never tell her how he feel after all this years, they're just too
apart from each other! I dont know what to do! Help me please!

2007-08-17 10:49:12 · 2 answers · asked by Ursula M 2

My best friend, Destiny, has been my friend for more then 4 years. Just recebntly, she hooked up with my other best friend, Juniour who I've known all my life. I hooked them up late spring and they are a cute couple. Just last night I stopped over Destiny's house to drop by a shirt she had lent me. No 1 answered the door and no one seemed to be home. I turned the knob and found it unlucked. I decided to quickly drop off the shirt in her bedroom. As I got closer and closer to her room, I could hear her voice. When I was actually standing in front of her door, I heard another voice 2! I opened the door and couldn't believe my eyes. Destiny was sleeping with another guy. They were just as shocked as me. I tried to speak but, I just dropped the shirt & walked out of the house. The next day she asked me not to tell anyone especially not Juniour. She said she was sorry & that it was just one night and it would never happen again. But, what do I do. Don't I owe my friend my honesty?

2007-08-17 10:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by Alisha 1

one of my guy friends is always mention ing other guys being in my life or not as if it has anything to do with him.i asked my mom why he mentions this and she said its because he wants to know if theres competition but hes a friend so hes not in competition.what do you guys think about his behavior?

2007-08-17 10:11:49 · 18 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4

It can go either way for me:

I'll either feel awkward, clam up, and be super clingy to the host.

Or

I'll feel good and I'll make lots of good friends.

Should I go?

Also, I'm going to be late.

2007-08-17 09:46:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My previous question was deleted, so I posted this one here.. Thanks in advance for your answers.

Last Oct. I met a man online, we began to chat everyday for endless hours. Eventhough he was 10 years my senior [[ I was 20 - he was 29 about to turn 30]], we had so many things in common. Only thing was he worked in Naples and came down to Miami [[ Where I live ]] every other weekend. Turned out we lived 15 mins from each other. We met face to face Christmas day. Everything went wonderful. We spoke on the phone everyday for hours.. we even had stupid little nicknames for each other, and when he came down we went to t/movies, had dinner a couple of drinks, hung out with friends, ultimately got to the point where we had sex, I slept over his house.. etc. This went on all the way until April. Long story short, I fell in love with him [[ yeah stupid me ]] ..

Saturday, before 5 de Mayo, we had sort of a disagreement, On the drive home no hurtful words were exchanged.. Just pure silence. When I got out of his car I slammed t/door shut and walked away.. he peeled off and I didn't hear from him again. It’s been close to 4 months since the last time I saw or spoke to him. I really miss him, and the fact that I haven’t seen him or spoken to him kills me. I know it’s no use to dwell on t/past.. But I wanted an unbiased opinion regarding t/relationship. Did I see more than what was actually there??

2007-08-17 09:33:45 · 16 answers · asked by Patty melt 2

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2007-08-17 09:26:21 · 3 answers · asked by Lacy 1

My 10 year is coming up next year. ugg, anyway I did not keep in touch with most people because I was over the drama. Do people change or have you found people are the same at the 10 year reunion?

2007-08-17 08:58:32 · 25 answers · asked by deeply happy 2

well here's the thing, every time im just out in the neighborhood whether im riding my bike or walking my dog she's always laughing when i walk by. if she's with some of her friends, she points and whispers. im not even her friend, and i never talk to her. i dont know why she keeps staring at me. my sister doesn't even care when i tell her this, but i could really use a hug and some kind words. i always end up crying at the end of the day. why am i feeling this way. i dont even want to be her neighbor!!

2007-08-17 08:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are two guys that really like me and I don't like them, but they won't leave me alone, even after I've told them. THere is this other guy...He was my best friend in 7th grade and I really love him now, but I'm in a wheelchair as of this year and he doesn't even seem to notice me. ^-^ How can I get rid of those two guys and get that one guy to notice me again? Any advice?

2007-08-17 08:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by science geek 2

We have gona t his friends, and no one knows were he is. He had told me about this, i told him no, running away is not what you should do, he always said yeah im just playing. I always thought he was playing. And he really did it, and i feel guilty because maybe i could of told someone. What should i do? I havent had any sleep these five days.

2007-08-17 08:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know its gay.
what do i do to convince them ?!
im 15 turning 16!!!
HELP.

2007-08-17 07:56:41 · 13 answers · asked by nicky ♥ 1

ma best friend hates me cause her boyfriend likes me while am not even interested! if she was really ma bst friend she'll believe me right?
others just pretend that they like you when they are only hypocrites...jealous of whatever opportunity u get n whatever u achieve!

2007-08-17 07:56:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

They've lived together for 3 years now, and they're best friends?!

So her roomate and her BF are going to buy a house, which is fine. But they put a bid in on a home, and they got it. Which they didn't tell my GF, also they got posesstion two days ago, which they ALSO didn't tell my GF. Of course it's fine that they want to move in together, but you'd think that she'd let my GF know, since they're roomates and all. We found out all of this through one of our friends, so they told everyone else but my GF.

ALSO! They're getting married... they started dating when he was 29 and she was 18. He still lives at home with his mom, not for long I guess. Anyways, she NEVER brings up the wedding, most gals getting married talk about the wedding and are excited, aren't they? My GF has had her heart on getting married at a particular location, that we go to every year. Friends told us they decided to get married there and they've never been there together.

What should we do, talk to her?

2007-08-17 07:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 2

2007-08-17 07:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-17 05:45:47 · 11 answers · asked by louise d 6

okayy well not to talk myself up or anything but im an attractive 16 year old girl ! i still go to school and everything and like i just want advice ! im a real ***** to all the guys and girls and im the leader of my clique =) but im getting sick of it all ! im pretty much famous and school and not only that im sick of being known as the rich, stuck up slut ! i just want advice i mean do guys even find bitchy girls sexxy ? cause like all the guys from school want me and its great but why ? im not even nice ! i lead them on and drop them . ha ha ! im pretty much confused right now !

2007-08-17 05:27:48 · 6 answers · asked by p r i n c e s s - k r i s s y 4

Hi I am really really bored and I dont know what to do atall can somebody help me please I dont mind whenever its things you can do when you go out or stuff youc an do inside its just I need help lol =) thanks love Tizzy!

2007-08-17 04:49:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

but he's older than me. im 15 and he will be 18 in 3 weeks. and my dad dont like him b/c he's older than me. what should i do?????

2007-08-17 03:15:47 · 3 answers · asked by flirtygurlie 2

can you guess?

2007-08-17 01:57:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

anyone no problem

2007-08-17 01:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by pinky 2