Friends - August 2007

2007-08-19 14:21:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so im not trying to sound like a poser but im using the word emo so u kno were im comin from. so me and my friend r emo and we were like that for a while and stuff and we liked it and now she tells me she doesnt want to be emo anymore and now shes turning skater ( not turning skater as in " now i wanna be skater!" but more like " well i dont find myself to emo anymore and i guess im not") but me on the other hand is goin deeper into the whole emo thing and even a lil goth and shes ganna be so ****** pissed at me cause she doesnt like that stuff and only yells at me if i look too"gothic". if she sees me again she'll probably have a heart attack and im scared. shes my best friend for 7 yrs now and i just dont want her to be mad at me for being myself. she just doesnt get how ppl change but she truely is a nice friend. she just cares about me alot. i cant even talk to her about shopping at hot topic without her getting all up my ***! wth am i supposed to do?

2007-08-19 14:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were friends with a coworker. She was always pursuing this guy (broke up, back together, broke up, back together). Now after she married him; then right after the wedding she breaks off all contact with everyone, leaving me and my wife devastated. Then he shows his true colors (cheating, not working internet porn, bring women in the house with her mentally handicapped son at home). Now all of a sudden she starts writing all her friend again.

I think I went through enough pain and it is time to move on; and after four years I have gone through a lot (death of one friend, parent, another with cancer in terminal stages).

My question is should I write back; what should I say? Or is it time to move on?

2007-08-19 13:52:21 · 2 answers · asked by mitchell2020 5

is there really such a thing?

2007-08-19 13:39:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am stressed and i think tickle torture will make me feel better.
If you really want to tickle torture me tell me how you would do it and how long you would do it for. I heard the best way is being tied spread-eagle and being tickled for hours! *lol* please tickle me??? i need it.

2007-08-19 13:34:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you suggest some useful stuff to do on the net other than just sitting and chatting and spending time on myspace and yahoo answers :) ,after getting back from work I have a lot of free time at my hands and my laptop is my main source of entertainment so any suggestions and good websites to learn something new or make constructive use of the net.

Some of you might suggest to go out and enjoy but going out after a long day at work is really tiring ,i am hardly home on weekends so i do my social activising at that that time

Thanks for the help

2007-08-19 13:25:15 · 1 answers · asked by life goes on... 2

I couple of weeks ago i caught my brother (17) wearing one of my thongs, i turned a blind eye to it and said nothin' about it. He has a girlfriend so i'm 99% his not gay.

but . . . today i came home from work, no one was surpost to be in the house but i walked in and saw my brother, wearing my skirt, top, tights, undies, knee high's. Just sittin' in the armchair watchin' tv. I asked what the hell he was doin' and he said "Relaxin'". He just sat there watchin' tele in my clothes and makeup, when i got up he tried to walk like a girl in the knee highs. he stayed like that until my mom puled up on the drive, then he shot up stairs to change keeping on the tights, thong and bra, just puttin' on a pair of my tight jeans (passed them off as his own) and a loose t.
what do i do now i know it's not just the underwear he is wearin'
ps: i washed to clothes and we had an agreement if he wears any underwear not to put it back in the draw but in the washing basket.

*helpful answers pleas

2007-08-19 12:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out a friend got killed in a car crash this a.m.
Heading out of W.P.B. Florida.
This friend gave my hsbnd the $
to pick up our dghtr's for their Uncle's funeral.
Now, he's gone too.
On May 13th (mother's day) my brother was shot & killed.
Life is short & precious.
Do u have ur affairs in order?
i.e. what kind of services u want.
ur will, medical directives. Etc.....
I am not being morbid.
Nor fatalistic.
Realistic.

2007-08-19 11:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 33 and I am not at all grown up for my age. I have a neighbor who is 20 and she is sooo immature for her age, always going on and on about about her boyfriend and their lil things that are interesting to a 15 year old but not particularily intersting for a grown up. (No offence to anyone). Take this example....last night a friend had a tupperware party and this girl came (as we include her on everything and hope that she'll see how people act at things like this). Well it was a casual dress thing and we were all having fun and nibbling hors dourves and sipping wine and in she comes with a can of beer, her midriff sticking out, talking over the tupperware lady, and loudlt using the F word in front of 50+ year old ladies.
What do I do? I don'r want to cut her out of my life as she is clearly a nice person and has no family.....and I can't NOT invite her to these things as she would feel excluded if we did....
HELP

2007-08-19 11:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by Cindy 2

O.k. My Friends And I Are Talking To Our Friend Tomorrow. None Of Us Can Really Trust Her At All Because She Lies ALL The Time! She Also Puts Us Down To Make Her Feel Good. She Also Copies Almost Everything Off Of Us! We Are Still Going To Be Nice To Her, But We Don't Want To Be Friends With Her Anymore. Is There Anyway To Tell Her This Nicely?

2007-08-19 11:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been friends 4 as long as i can remember but know she has become a ***** to me

2007-08-19 11:19:24 · 17 answers · asked by kalie T 1

my family, and one of my other friends reckon that my friend is ver pushy with me. last night i was gsoing out with friends she didnt know, but she basically invited herself.. then got annoyed when i called her before she was leaving her house and said 'one of my friends is really tired so he's going home so we are to' it was the truth. she invited herself anyways. she backs me into corners in conversation to get me to come out with her. when im not with her i understand what people mean when they say shes out of order with me. but when im with her she seems nice. except for the occassional insult. lol. im so confused! is she a friend or just a *****?!

2007-08-19 11:16:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever feel like you just keep doing your best and doing your best and it's still not enough? I am so tired of this. Her dad is a great guy but he is out of state so he only visits every so often and we are unable to be together we just don't see eye to eye. My parents are dead my sisters both have mental issues and or drug problems depending on the day of the week. His family is just crap alcoholics or nutcases. I seem to have no support and I am tired does anyone feel like this? Unfortunately all of my friends have normal lives or I would ask them so now I am reduced to whining to a q/a forum Jesus how did my life turn out this way? lol am not that miserable.

2007-08-19 11:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Margo is better than you are 4

This friend of mine is such a freakin drama queen. He 'overly exaggerates about the positive and negative situations, he is ultra high on himself, very controlling and manipulative. There have been time when I litterately wanted to "Bitchh slap the shhit out of him. He makes up stories about where he's been or what he's got to do.....I've told him that I know what he is doing and that he does not need to make up stories to feel important and to gain people admiration. I want to drop him but we've been friends for awhile. what should I do and WHY the hell is he keep acting like this????

2007-08-19 10:57:34 · 12 answers · asked by ?????? 1

i used to be really close to a teacher, and today was her birthday, so i emailed her after not talking to her for about 5 months. she spelled my name wrong in her reply-email and wasnt nice.
why do you think shes acting this way?

2007-08-19 10:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous 2

would they be my nephews/neices?

2007-08-19 10:34:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

and I noticed that one of my balls had dissappeared I was freakin out cuz I swear I had 2 now i have 1 Is this a disease er what? I did this chick a few days ago but that can't have anything to do wit it RIGHT?!!! shizzzzzzzle twizzlerz I told my pappy and he said dat im scrooged

2007-08-19 10:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband let his 45 year old friend stay in our basement because he does not have a home. He sleeps all day and smokes in my basement. we works sometimes and pays nothing to me. I've put up no-smoking signs and newspapers with rooms for rent circled in red. This has been going on for a couple months. I want him gone. Any suggestions to get rid of the bum ?

2007-08-19 09:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by cafe_au_lait 6

My friend Anna is my best friend. When school ended all we did was tex each other. when we start texing she is in a good mood and then she turns judgemental and she always thinks her opinions are better than mine. I end up getting kind of pissed and stop talking. when I see her in person the next day we are fine and dandy. Later that night we will start texting again and it starts all over. I have talked to her about it but she says that she still loves me and would never hurt me. But then again she does it again. I donno. It weird cuz its only in text messages and nothing else. I donno. She has this weird habbit of telling me other plans with her other friends like she is trying to tell me that she has a life and she can have fun without me. why is she doing this? help

2007-08-19 09:36:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in love with this guy. We had been goin out 4 almost a mounth. Then he broke-up with me bc he said he found some1 else. I was in love with him and i thought he felt the same way i guess i was wrong. All i can think about i if the girl he is goin out with now is pretty, smarter, and funnier than me. When i think about those things i start to think that im not good anoff 4 any1

2007-08-19 09:33:40 · 20 answers · asked by kalie T 1

my friend is 16, and has a boyfriend who is 37. she did it w/ him, and i don't know what to do... should i tell someone?

2007-08-19 09:07:38 · 2 answers · asked by ♥snapple♥ 1

ok so one of my best friends asked me 2 go on vacation with her an her family so i went and she asked me not 2 tell any one but the day i was packing my friend sapphire asked me why i had 2 pack so i told her cuz i'm goin 2 wisconsin then she asked me "r u going with tali(the girl who invited me)" i didnt want 2 lie 2 her cuz last time i lied 2 her she refused 2 talk 2 me so i told her the truth then yestrday she came ovr and and told me she told a bunch of ppl that tali invited me 2 go so of coarse everyone waz pissed that i waz the one that got 2 go then she started saying that i should hav nevr told her about the vacation cuz she didnt want 2 not hav to tell every 1 bout it and know shes mad at me cuz i told her the truth but i didnt want 2 lie 2 her cuz she would hav been even more pissed
wat should i do?

2007-08-19 07:47:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I currently am in college and feel alone due to having zero friends. I am not hard to get along with and feel I am a decent person, so i don't think im the problem. I tend to be shy and introverted however. I want to have friends, but when i try to go and meet new people, I realize I'd rather be alone. I just think alot of ppl my age seem simple-minded and immature and I just can't pretend to be like that just so I can have "friends". Don't get my wrong i'm not a self-rightous jerk, but i just can't see pretending to be a certain way in order to have friends. Basically, I ask, is it better to be who you are and have no friends or should I conform to the standard to gain some aquaintances.I really don't know what to do.. I hate not having anyone to talk to and I feel really isolated... especially since i room alone as well... any suggestions?

2007-08-19 07:47:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It always seems to happen. You lose your job you find a new girl. The girl thing gets more interesting and you need to relocate. Explain how you deal with a few heartless years. Is the crapshoot the best possible system??

2007-08-19 06:46:13 · 1 answers · asked by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3

I'm sorry. I just want to know where I can find reliable information on my family for FREE. They're MY family, I shouldn't have to pay 40 frickin' dollars to search on a site that doesn't even have the slightest idea who i'm searching for anyway.

2007-08-19 05:34:06 · 4 answers · asked by disciple1002003 2

2007-08-19 04:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by bronxgirl636 1

my friend was caught shoplifting. she doesnt want any one to know about it but me and obviously her family. she has divorced parents and talked to her dad over the phone and she told him about it. she keeps asking me for advice but i dont know what to tell her. she says that her dad wont ever forgive her and her dad wont ever look at her the same. I dont know her dad. so i dont know what to say to her to make her feel better.. I'm always here for her. and she needs me the most right now. I just dont know what to say to her. will everything be ok? will her family forgive her? I need advice from someone who has gone through this themselves or helped someone through it... PLEASE i feel like i cant do anything.

2007-08-19 04:35:26 · 7 answers · asked by betsy6075 2

Ok I have a friend that was my past college teacher and I told her in an email that I hope we stay friends for a long time. She is older than me and I look up to her. Well in her reply email... she didn't mention anything about it... so is that ok .. or if you were her, would you say i hope we do too? I guess what I said was a statement and not a question but still. And I also offered her help with her new baby and she didnt say anything back about that either.. Does that mean she doesn't want these things or that there is no need to reply to that? And we have been friends for a couple of months through email but have done stuff together like gone to lunch and the other day she invited me over to see her baby... which I have also gave her baby a gift before... those are just some extra details. Oh yea and she said she is going to play a spot that we both enjoy and said shes excited to play and is going to get cleared from her doctor b/c she just had a baby.

2007-08-19 04:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

2007-08-19 04:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-19 03:57:40 · 20 answers · asked by llllllllllll 1