wat should i do?

Question

ok so one of my best friends asked me 2 go on vacation with her an her family so i went and she asked me not 2 tell any one but the day i was packing my friend sapphire asked me why i had 2 pack so i told her cuz i'm goin 2 wisconsin then she asked me "r u going with tali(the girl who invited me)" i didnt want 2 lie 2 her cuz last time i lied 2 her she refused 2 talk 2 me so i told her the truth then yestrday she came ovr and and told me she told a bunch of ppl that tali invited me 2 go so of coarse everyone waz pissed that i waz the one that got 2 go then she started saying that i should hav nevr told her about the vacation cuz she didnt want 2 not hav to tell every 1 bout it and know shes mad at me cuz i told her the truth but i didnt want 2 lie 2 her cuz she would hav been even more pissed
wat should i do?

Answer 1

girl drama. i know it's hard being friends with people who are easily upset. especially between girls. but i say this. listen with your heart. be not concerned with worldly things. focus upon God and Him only. He is your friend who will never fight with you. or stab you in the back. or turn away from you. be not concerned with worldly things for they shall soon parish before Gods wraith. I'm not saying you can't have friends. just discern yourself from the drama and look towards God. and chose wisely about who you hangout with.

Answer 2

sometimes the best thing to do is to lie to one friend to keep a promise to another. if this is hard for you, don't lie and just tell your friend sapphire the next time she askes you something that would require you to tell sometihing you said you wouldn't tell "sorry, promised i wouldn't tell" if she pursues the question say "would you like me to tell something you told me and i promised not to tell anyone else?" if she pursues any farther, i am sorry, but she isn't a true friend

as for what you should do in the time being, just apologize to tali and promise you will never do it again, it may take some time, but if tali is a good friend, she will accept your apology, but you can't do much because what's done is done

Answer 3

tell everyone you are sorry that you were the one invited and not them, but you aren't about to lie to their faces. Tell Tali she put you in a bad position with everyone by asking you to lie to them, hope she will understand why you did and said what you did

Answer 4

Learn who you can and cannot trust with a secret.The first person is you.Remember that the minute you tell a secret to someone it is no longer a secret,everyone will know within an hour after the time you told it to them. So,to keep a secret tell no one and they will be the only one that knows.

Answer 5

Tell her that you didn't understand exactly what she meant when she asked you not to tell anyone.
There are two ways to interpret what she said:
You're not supposed to tell anyone. That means that you are not supposed to get on the phone and tell everyone what you are doing.
You are not supposed to tell anyone. That means that you are supposed to lie if someone asks you what you are doing.
Tell her that you don't know the difference unless she specifically tells you. It was an honest mistake - you didn't want to lie.

Answer 6

well i'm not an expert but one time i had a friend like that and i told her that if she was going to be like she was than we would have to take a break from our friendship, and now we are still the bestest of friends!

Answer 7

dump tali, she aint a good friend =]