I was in love with this guy. We had been goin out 4 almost a mounth. Then he broke-up with me bc he said he found some1 else. I was in love with him and i thought he felt the same way i guess i was wrong. All i can think about i if the girl he is goin out with now is pretty, smarter, and funnier than me. When i think about those things i start to think that im not good anoff 4 any1
2007-08-19 09:33:40 · 20 answers · asked by kalie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sometimes things happen if life that we have no contrl over and it hurts but the best thing we can do is learn by our mistakes and move on.
bes t of luck
2007-08-19 09:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts alot. People change the way they feel about others. Unfortunately....it has happened to you. There may be a day that the girl he is now with could do it to him. She may find someone else and break up with him. You may thinks she is prettier , smarter, etc...then you but YOU are probably prettier, smarter, etc. then alot of others. If he broke up with you it's best he did it now and not 2 years from now. It would still hurt but would probably hurt a lot more. A lot of times....looks has nothing to do with it. It could be their personality or the things they like or just one of those instant attraction things. Like at first sight. Down the road YOU may unintentionally do it to guys you go out with because you meet someone else you are more compatible with. The only thing that will help is time. Eventually time does heal wounds and broken hearts but it doesn't happen overnight. Good luck.
2007-08-19 16:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by lacrosselover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok honestly the first thing im going to say is at no matter what age if u have been dating for a month ..u dont love him...n if u think you do then u dont know what love is your maybe to young, i think you may love the idea but not him,,,,not so soon and secondly if he droped u for someone else then f him....his loose why would u want to be with sumeone if they didnt choose you first off,... who cares what shes like funnier smarter prettier...ummmm whorier lol but besides that there are plenty of fish in the sea and don't let it take over you unfortunately its life and these things happen,,,,,,you will find someone soon enough but if you let this take over u and get depressed and think negatively people will see that...keep yah head up
2007-08-19 16:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by dbombs24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For being just a month, I don't think it was truly loved. Your heart being broken is because you obviously really cared for the person. It takes longer then a month to know what real love is for a person. You just liked him a lot.
I can only imagine how hard it must be with you. The best thing you can do is keep yourself busy, hangout with friends. Pretty much distract your thoughts from thinking about him. It will take time, its something that doesn't happen over night.
best wishes and take cares
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2007-08-19 16:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by artsygal_cc86 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww, i use to feel the same. things do get better! when i got into a relationship id give all my heart and a month later get dumped. then i realized i was never in love with them because my situation now feels soooo much more intense. i felt like no1 could like me, what did i do wrong? fact is, it wasn't meant to be and that's not a bad thing, you will find someone again that puts you on cloud nine... and sorry to say the only thing that helps is time. sorry that happened to you but don't waste your time dwelling on y he chose her. assume she's a ding dong and that's what he digs! lol laugh it off and move on to the next one... and next time hold on to your heart.
2007-08-19 16:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by xray babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never mind i know how you feel, it just takes time, depending on how attached you were to the person, just don't dwell on it and time will heal all. If you broke up you werent meant for each other, if he/she ran away or cheated, the you shouldnt love someone who doesn't love you. If you are really meant to be with someone you will stay together forever.You will find the right person.
2007-08-19 16:41:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky that you were only with him a month, that's nothing! I was with my boyfriend for 6 years and he left me 2 months ago, and there was someone else involved and children who also hurt. You can do better though, anyone who leaves you for someone else is not worth your time. You will find someone out there who will treat you well and make you very happy!
2007-08-19 16:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kailey T,
you cant get over someone you love because you love them, but if you want to move on tell the person how you feel and express your feelings to them. sometimes you may love someone and they might not love you back...i think if you talk to that person about it you'll be okay.
2007-08-19 16:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with friends and talk to other guys. Find someone new to think about. Erase his number and forget about him.
2007-08-19 16:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's someone for everyone out there, so don't compare yourself to this other girl.
You're just as good as she is, and there will always be someone else.
Just get out there, be confident, and you'll soon have another guy, thats so much better than him. :D
2007-08-19 16:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋