They've lived together for 3 years now, and they're best friends?!
So her roomate and her BF are going to buy a house, which is fine. But they put a bid in on a home, and they got it. Which they didn't tell my GF, also they got posesstion two days ago, which they ALSO didn't tell my GF. Of course it's fine that they want to move in together, but you'd think that she'd let my GF know, since they're roomates and all. We found out all of this through one of our friends, so they told everyone else but my GF.
ALSO! They're getting married... they started dating when he was 29 and she was 18. He still lives at home with his mom, not for long I guess. Anyways, she NEVER brings up the wedding, most gals getting married talk about the wedding and are excited, aren't they? My GF has had her heart on getting married at a particular location, that we go to every year. Friends told us they decided to get married there and they've never been there together.
What should we do, talk to her?
2007-08-17 07:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yea! what kind of a friend is she???? i would be pissed....your gf's roommate should have given your girl notice before she went off and got a house. you need to ask her why she kept that from yall and why she wants to get married there if shes never been there....god what a bit ch..... goodluck lol
2007-08-17 07:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by ☆..LoSEr..☆ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definatly talk to them get things sorted out and stuff. Every1 makes mistakes and bestfriends hurt each other sometimes ... i guess your girlfriend's bestfriend seems to know the art of this. Making wild guesses will not help the situation. Maybe your girl's room mate don't even realise what she is really doing we grown ups get carried away sometimes can't you testify to that for all we know she could have a whole different explination ... one that makes the point at which you are looking at the situation total bull! So talk to them both you and your girl friend :-) hope you guys resolve this issue soon and i am sure there is must some form of explination!
2007-08-17 14:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who gives a crap. seriously just their getting married where ur gf wqants to get married doesnt mean u weddign wont be special or unique if not better than theirs. seems like their unoriginal and cant think for themselves. in terms of not speaking to ur gf about their living situation thats just plain rude. i think she shoudl confront her and ask why she hasnt given 30 days notice. if she doesnt (which she legally must do) then keep her portion of security for not giving her adequate time to secure a new roommate. did they sign a lease? if so then she is equally responsible as ur gf for paying the rent unless the landlord lets them out of it. they seem like rude peopel who cant think for themselves and i think ur gf is better off without them in her life. be grateful ur getting rid of them and their weirdness!
2007-08-17 14:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to try to talk to her, it's time for your GF to find her own place, that's all. People change, situations change, sometimes very quickly. It's just part of life. Best of luck
2007-08-17 14:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First they should have told the roommate about the move, shame on them. Second, it's her wedding and if she is content with not talking about it, that's up to her. You can talk to her about it, but not sure it would do any good.
2007-08-17 14:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if there is an issue between the two. They need to talk about it.
2007-08-17 14:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋