Friends - August 2007

I have been friends with someone for about 5 years now and we have gone through alot together and now it seems as if she has changed and not for the better.
Recently she filed for divorce and I understand that because of something this big some changes will happen but her whole lifestyle has changed. She use to never go out and party (for one reason she has kids) and she use to call me atlest 2 or 3 times a week and I would do the same or I would atleast get a text message once a day. Now I havent got a call from her in about a week or so, and now all she does is go out and party (or thats the way it seems) and when I do call and she does answer we only talk for about 3 minutes or so. I am worried that something is wrong with our friendship. Can anyone give me a fresh perspective on this???
Should i continue to be there for her or should I cut the friendship off or just be there but leave her alone and wait to pick up the pieces?

2007-08-16 02:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

At first, my boyfriend's best friend was just joking with me, and then he just started actually hitting on me.

He called my house, he kept touching me, and he always tries to sit close to me.

My boyfriend has no idea about any of this, and it's hard to avoid his best friend, and I don't know if I should just deal with it.

His friend is hot and he knows it, and he's pretty concieted.

What should I do?

2007-08-16 01:52:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-16 01:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by Diana 1

See, sometime ago she told she liked him and I told her I liked some other guy instead of telling her the truth. Now, it turns out that he likes me and we've been spending a lot of time together and I know I have to tell her, but I don't know how to do it or how to bring up. I'm afraid she's gonna be so hurt that she won't talk to me anymore and we've been friends for years! What do I do?

2007-08-16 00:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by wheee 1

I know what i mean but does anyone else understand !

2007-08-15 22:59:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is only for ladies.I go to a computer institute.Last Monday I was sexually harassed by the Faculty.That day I was wearing as usual jeans.My faculty continuously tried to sneak my pantyline.Then lastly he asked me to bend to install a cable.
I realized he was doing that to see my panty.I could not violate his order and he saw my panty.The faculty is young.I have heard that he tries to view upskirts too.Can anybody advice me what to do?

2007-08-15 22:22:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-15 22:00:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So me and my friends are always talking about each other's moms......

"Your mom this Your mom that".....

I have this one friend who gets really upset if we say anything about his mom......

Should I respect this Or tell him that his mom is a hooker....

LOL!

2007-08-15 19:21:15 · 23 answers · asked by demert858 2

if you are how often so you contact them..and if you arent then were did you meet the friends you have now ??

2007-08-15 17:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know wtf is wrong wit me i want this girl so bad(the girl ive metioned in almost all my posts) i am a obesvive person but i dont know if youve ever wanted this girl/guy that was taken(not married in my case) but it just eats me so up inside that she with someone else can you please help me i know i say the same thing in almost all my qusteions but i am so deprresed at night and i hope to god that i have a chance with her please someone give me real advice i am in no way a stalker and those of you who have ever been in a tough and young love situation will now how i feel so please help

2007-08-15 17:28:41 · 1 answers · asked by mets rule 4

ive been looking for her

i dont know her last name

2007-08-15 17:23:05 · 11 answers · asked by Listening.. 3

I have a friend who is 17, 300 pounds (5'9), beats women, wears silk robes, and wants to be a monk in Greece. Previously, he wanted to be a freemason, and a mobster. What do I do?

2007-08-15 16:29:08 · 29 answers · asked by Scoogle 1

It's been almost a year since I have made a new G/friend, and we've talked about many things, so I know her beliefs and oppinions a little bit more or less. However,we spent a weekend get way at my in-laws last week and when some topics of conversation came up, she shared beliefs and oppinions which she's opposed many times B4. She even tried to agree to every single thing my in-laws said! Things which we have discussed before, when my in-laws gave me a hard time and she reasoned with me! But then she switched the entire stay, and I was furious when she even sided with my in-laws against me!It was nothing serious, but her whole behaviour was driving me nuts.. Not that I was expecting her to misbehave , but you just don't do that to me, bcoz she should be grateful I gave her the opportunity of a short vacation and she was there on my behalf. Why is she like that, bcoz i'm going crazy thinking about it and I don't feel like talking to her. I'm already wondering if she should be trusted?

2007-08-15 15:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4

ok thers this boy that i use to like well i still kinda do and i was with his cuzzin an we went to a park an i seen him an he gave me a hug and was talkin to me then he spent a night at hes cuzzin house and i did to and he ask me out an i said yeah and he said that he want me to be hes girlfriend and that he really wana be with me and that im the finest girl around and we was messin with each otha all night then the next day he left and gave me a hug by and from saturday he neva called me or text me and then i decided to call he finaly answerd we was talkin for a while then he said he was gone call me back and neva did so i dnt know ifhe really like me or he just playin and everytime i call he dont answer should i just leave him alone or wait cuse he dont show no concern an i really like him but i dont like him enough to let him hurt me so should i just let him go an he ack like he want me wen im by him but when im not he dont call or nothin

2007-08-15 14:51:00 · 1 answers · asked by meme 1

I know we are all rude and everything but what I wanna say is WHO CARES IF SOMEONE LOVES GOD. I AM EXCITED ABOUT HIM. NO ONE CAN PUT ME DOWN. and also if you dont like the question, dont answer it and insult people.

2007-08-15 14:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by jstrachel 2

Ok i have this friend, she makes me laugh all the time!!! But sometimes shes alittle too moody. and well she gets herself into trouble alot (she makes prank callz, she says she's emo and she cutz herself, shes way too boy obbessed *cant live without a boy*, and she will do anything to break the rules.). But then again she can be really nice, cool, and funny! I wanna be her friend but at the same time dont. My mom doesnt approve of her being my friend. should i still be her friend or not?!!!
ADVICE?!!! PLZ!!!!

2007-08-15 14:18:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have recently been switching "groups" of friends. But my only two friends are moving away. THe old group i used to hang out with annoys the **** out of me and I cant stand them any longer. My parents think i am starting to act like an outcast because when im home i just lock my self in my room cause i dont get along with them either and I jsut dont want to deal with them. A new school year is starting and i have no friends in my city. I feel like crying all the time and I cant stand my family at all. What should I do?

2007-08-15 13:53:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to now if a good friend started to like me, or just being friendly?
we are already friends he is not someone knew, but when we r within our group of friends he say im like his sis , baut when we r alone i feel he's flirting i even told my best friend and she said he likes me, is there some thin i can d o or a small test 2 know?

2007-08-15 13:22:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My neighbors and me and my fiancee used to be really good friends. Well all of a sudden everyone just stopped talking to each other. We weren't fighting we still talked when we seen in each other in the hall way or outside (we live in an apt building). Now here's the thing. They put garbage out in the hallway and we don't complain to the landlord about it but it will stick up the hall way one day they told the landlord that we had the hallway smelling like doc crap (we have a dog). Both of our dogs are potty trained. Well the landlord said he didn't smell anything (he told us this himself). We are supposed to be quiet after 10:00 at night time all they do is slam doors and sometimes fight so loud that we can hear them clear into the bedroom they have a child and we don't mind hearing her cry b/c of course kids will be kids. They are young like I mean 18 and 21 young. We are young too but a big older 22 and 27. Now my question is should we tell the landlord about all the banging?

2007-08-15 12:29:49 · 21 answers · asked by Wendie 6

I'm 5'9" 34 yrs old

2007-08-15 12:15:20 · 35 answers · asked by Daniel R 2

Now I have a friend who is a guy he broke up with me because he couldn't stand me. Now I didn't do anything but he just yelled at me and left with saying goodbye. I don't know if its really necessary or not. But all i try for him is to be happy until he dies. Since he has a brain tumor and he's going to die around the end of the month and i was getting a little worried but then, we became friends. But a few days ago he told me that he hates me and he never wants to speak to me again which really made me cry since I'm sensitive. I couldn't let him go, but since he hated me, should i hate him for what he did?

2007-08-15 10:39:56 · 10 answers · asked by Kitty cat girl 1

His dad is supposed to move him into a college dorm this weekend. I went out and bought a clothes basket and filled it with some items I thought me may need. Is this a stupid idea? If you were a college kid, would you appreciate it?

2007-08-15 09:00:20 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I honestly dont think I'm a racist. I'm white and just dont come across many black people where I live day to day. What do you think?

2007-08-15 08:42:06 · 14 answers · asked by sspence966 1

I am leaving my job of the past 2.5 years in less then 2 weeks , I've been rather tight lipped about it, telling only my 2 closest friends here, it has slowly disseminated.

I am getting a sense that the "others" want to throw me a going away luncheon. I'm not really for this, it's not that i have any social anxiety, I've had going away luncheon's before at other companies where I welcomed the opportunity.

The fact of the matter is that I just don't like the attention where it's unwarranted. I came to this job not putting my heart into it, because i only came here to be closer to my gf at the time. I didn't put my all into my work, and i didn't really give a damn. I don't have any anomosity towards my colleagues, i'm just not that close to them and don't feel like a going away lunch would be all that... peachy?

How do i get out of this without looking like i'm say "screw you" to them? or should i just man-up and go through with it?

2007-08-15 08:25:38 · 23 answers · asked by wigberto.serpa 2

I just turned 16 like two months ago but is it ok if I don't have a girlfriend?

2007-08-15 08:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-08-15 08:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by Mike R 2

I mean not sending emails, but a true Pen Pal, actually writing letters to someone?
I think that this would be great for my kids.
Everything is emails. Yeah, it's great, but I think actually writing is more personable. Don't you think? I love to get letters.
Let me know how to go about doing this.

2007-08-15 07:11:46 · 1 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7

Im 15 and i cant talk to anyone! Honestly! I feel so alone, i cant talk to my friends, my family no one! Even my cuzin that i tell everything i can talk to anymore! I asked my parents about getting a counselor but they refuse, they say i can talk to them if i need to talk, but i just cant! Is there anyone who i can talk to?

2007-08-15 06:59:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is the second time I am asking this, because I forgot to add info.

Do you know of any cases where someone ruined their life and then realized the fortune teller was a joke/fraud & totally wrong?
How do I convince my friend that this fortune teller is wrong?

Any Help is appreciated.
. . Thanks:Sahara

Note:He paid -$500.00 if this helps.

2007-08-15 06:21:19 · 22 answers · asked by ™ ♥♥♥ 3

As a teenager, I always put knowledge before friendships, thus intellectually, I was ahead of my peers. Although I've never acted snobby or condescending towards others, I still have a difficult time relating to others my age. In several instances, people have bolstered my social ineptness just to undermine my intelligence ("you have brains but you don't have friends").

On some minor occasions, I have played the "average jane" role in order to fit in at school. But I always ended up hating myself for that. Education is what makes me happy--it is my passion and my purpose--and I refuse to sacrifice that for anybody. However, friendships are very important to me as well, and I don't want to lose out on them anymore.

(P.S. I am 19 years old and I'm about to start college soon).

2007-08-15 04:59:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous