Now I have a friend who is a guy he broke up with me because he couldn't stand me. Now I didn't do anything but he just yelled at me and left with saying goodbye. I don't know if its really necessary or not. But all i try for him is to be happy until he dies. Since he has a brain tumor and he's going to die around the end of the month and i was getting a little worried but then, we became friends. But a few days ago he told me that he hates me and he never wants to speak to me again which really made me cry since I'm sensitive. I couldn't let him go, but since he hated me, should i hate him for what he did?
2007-08-15 10:39:56 · 10 answers · asked by Kitty cat girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love thy neighbor. Hate is such a strong word. I Think that your friend is really scared for you to get to close to him because he is going to die soon. but one thing that i have learned is that no one knows when they are going to die only god has that answer. so i think that you should be there for him until that time comes and let him know that regardless of how he feels you still want too be there as a friend. And also prayer works not only for him but for you too.
2007-08-23 05:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by tottietoot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shouldn't hate him.If u are a true friend you'll go see him and act like nothing happen.You have to understand something.He is scared and probably very anger. So he took it out on u. Don't take it personally. I mean put yourself in his shoes and think about how u would feel. You really can't but u can get an idea of what he is feeling. Give him a call at least and let him know that u know he didn't mean it...Good luck
2007-08-15 17:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people love someone so much that even faced with a life treating illness.they would rather push the ones they love away than have the ones they love see the suffering they are going through. Its a time to be strong and to know that he loves you.
2007-08-23 01:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by gazza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that the key to your friends anger is his pending death. You should not allow his flair up keep you away from him.
2007-08-23 16:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate is too strong of a word! there is no reason to hate
2007-08-22 12:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by oldxsneakerz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never hate anyone!
God says "He who hates his brethren, also hates me"
You should forgive and forget
goodluck & godbless
2007-08-22 21:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by debra g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate's a strong word...you can hate places and things, but you shouldn't hate people
2007-08-15 17:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by runner4life26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is afraid to loose you too...and to loose his life also try to just be their for him..
2007-08-15 17:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by lagurl714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You will understand after he is gone.
2007-08-23 16:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fo rzl?
2007-08-23 12:59:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋