It's been almost a year since I have made a new G/friend, and we've talked about many things, so I know her beliefs and oppinions a little bit more or less. However,we spent a weekend get way at my in-laws last week and when some topics of conversation came up, she shared beliefs and oppinions which she's opposed many times B4. She even tried to agree to every single thing my in-laws said! Things which we have discussed before, when my in-laws gave me a hard time and she reasoned with me! But then she switched the entire stay, and I was furious when she even sided with my in-laws against me!It was nothing serious, but her whole behaviour was driving me nuts.. Not that I was expecting her to misbehave , but you just don't do that to me, bcoz she should be grateful I gave her the opportunity of a short vacation and she was there on my behalf. Why is she like that, bcoz i'm going crazy thinking about it and I don't feel like talking to her. I'm already wondering if she should be trusted?
2007-08-15 15:37:36 · 5 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
all she wants to do is be liked by ur in-laws nd by siding with them all the time it helps her gain their respect trust me my girlfriends does it to me dnt take it to heart she dnt mean any bad she just wants 2 fit in
2007-08-22 20:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist off call her on her behavior, not hard to do, espacially in the bonds of any relationship. Then also requinize that this is classical behavior, nothing personal, just she really can't be trusted as far as social situations go, doesn't mean you cut her out completely. But how she reacts to your confrontation over this should let you know in your heart were you should put her in your life. But understand the need to satisfy the social ego and to allow it to survive in a new situation can have people acting all sorts of way, is it mature, no, is it right, nope, but if it can be adressed and helped you can still have a great friendship there.... just no that maybe in your relationships you are the, or can be the... wiser? party....
2007-08-21 16:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people know that as the only way to fit in. Afraid to express their true opinions
2007-08-23 22:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Chooka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change because they want to be liked. and that is not a good reason. once you live like that you never really know who you are. and then ... you end up loosing yourself some where alon the way. call her on it! and see what she says. maybe she'll snap out of it. if not.. then.. leave her alone. its not worth it. who knows when she will change her mind about you?
2007-08-22 16:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Helton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want to expand their perimeters, and be accepted.
2007-08-23 22:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by t m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋