My crush and I have known each other for 5 months, in fact he asked me to join the gym that he works at. So I did then all of a sudden all of these woman who have been at this gym for years started talking to me and becomeing my friends. I thought wow cool I like this gym meeting new people well my bestfriend joined as well becasue I asked her too. We go to classes 4 to 5 times a week. A few day's ago my friend and I where talking and she was telling me about some of these woman who are my suppose to be my friend where say the only reason we're her friend and hang out with her is becasue of her crush. He never gave us the time of day untill she came along now he talks us all the time. That hurt me and I trust my bestfriend becasue she doesn't like my crush she has a boyfriend.
Well tomorrow we're suppose to be doing something at the gym tomorrow and this woman who just joined the gym 2 months ago started being my friend and seen my crush and I hung out all the time together.
2007-08-17 16:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by browneyedangel210 b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she asked me if she could hang out with me at this thing we're doing tomorrow. Well today while we where working out she goes im excited about tomorrow getting to hang out with you and mr. hottie too then I knew the only reason she wanted to go and help out was becasue of my crush. I told her he's mine! And told her his friend was single. I asked her how did she find out about me and knew who I was and how did she find out my about my crush and I and she told me about the woman who we're suppose to be my friends she said if she befriended me then I could get her closer to my crush and get him to talk to her. Now part of me doesn't even want to bother meeting her tomorrow to help me out. I stopped by to see my crush tonight and a big part of me wanted to tell him about what was going on but I knew he would be mad and say something to all the females but I don't want to get him mad at them but I don't want them to be my friend if there going to use me
2007-08-17 16:58:34 · update #1
sorry I think that you should go with your friend
2007-08-17 16:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your best friend, they are always right, those woman know what they want, and they would probably do anything to get him before you do, if you know why they want to be your friends, then say something like, "I'm considering leaving this gym, i want to get a different membership some where else!" if they start to pay less attention to you, then there is your answer!
2007-08-18 00:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jessi-Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon, don't worry about what other people say. it's not worth it!!!
people have gossiped and talked behind each other's back for thousands of years -- it's not going to stop now.
gather your dignity, act like a lady, smile and enjoy your exercise routines at the gym, and your boyfriend! let the rest of the world do what they will!!!
really what they say doesn't affect YOU as a person, but it makes them look really stupid !!
hugs
2007-08-18 00:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your best friend need to hang togeather at the gym. you wouldnt want to be friends with fake people like that. your crush and you could still be friends, but i wouldnt be chummy with all of the other girls.
2007-08-18 00:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm... Kinda.... A bit... I don't really get your explanation because (no offense or anything) of the wrong spelling, wrong grammar and some words were redundant.
2007-08-18 00:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by isma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should study spelling and grammar and forget about the crush.
2007-08-18 00:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by kattsmeow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes those 'friends' are using you to get to your crush.. Tell them you don't want their friendship..
2007-08-18 00:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by hottie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋