There are two guys that really like me and I don't like them, but they won't leave me alone, even after I've told them. THere is this other guy...He was my best friend in 7th grade and I really love him now, but I'm in a wheelchair as of this year and he doesn't even seem to notice me. ^-^ How can I get rid of those two guys and get that one guy to notice me again? Any advice?
2007-08-17 08:04:49 · 17 answers · asked by science geek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just b ur self if he likes u he will show it if nt thn its best if u face the facts and move on as for the others they will leave u in time wen they realise ur not interested like u should to the other lad
2007-08-17 08:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by hiyaihopeicanhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just out of curiosity, why don't you like one of the two guys that like you.....it seems to me that there may be something genuine about them if they are the ones that like you in spite of your disability and don't even really know the real you, but the one with whom you've been friends with for a while and really knows you, now won't give you the time of day because you are in a wheel chair. Maybe you should re-evaluate your feelings for these other guys and get to know them and give them an honest chance before you decide you don't like them!
2007-08-17 15:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you don't see the real issue. The two guys that really like you may make better for you. But you are letting your head, over rule your heart, and you want the one that doesn't notice you now that your in a condition. You need to think and consider the real issue. Then it should be clear which is best for you.
2007-08-17 15:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh isn't that just Murphy's Law. The only way to get rid of annoying guys is to be super mean and not show them any positive reienforcement. As for the one you like, try to make ways for ya'll to spend more time together, but don't look desparate. The line between love and friendship is super thin. You could totally twerk the situation ;)
2007-08-17 15:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if you want to hear this or not, but it's all about talking to them, and either saying "back off" or asking the guy you like if he has feelings for you to. If he doesn't notice you, you've got to make it a effort to really stand out in front him. start flirting with him :). and about those two other guys, tell them what your feeling, and don't care if that hurts there feelings, they'll get over it.
2007-08-17 15:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by She <3 Laughing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well start hanging around with him more and just become firends again dont seem like your addicted to him just be like friends be yourself around him .just have fun soon you guys would be close and maybe hell start feeling the way youd do about him.o and those other guys try to ignore them tell them to leave you alone if that doesnt work jus tell a adminstrative about them always bothering you or handle em yourself lol jk
2007-08-17 15:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by FeEliNg NerDy =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry there isnt an answer only jokin
this is what u shud do try ur hardest to go out with that guy u like then show the other to guys that ur goin out wiv him then they will leave u alone.
try and give the guy u like suprise to make him luve u ok hope it works out 4 u
2007-08-17 15:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he quit talking to you because you're in a wheelchair, he's a worthless shallow jerk. I think you need to ignore him, tell the other guys you're going to put a restraining order on them if they don't quit stalking you, and find someone worth your time.
2007-08-17 15:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.....u need to wait for the right moment...maybe things will turn out right then..just wait and let him gradually come to know that u love him...not directly but by doing it indirectly...do him some favors which he will never forget....maybe that would do the trick...and u must make sure that his luv for u ain't outta sympathy when he gets closer...should be from the bottom of his heart
Good Luck and hope u get well soon!
2007-08-17 15:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all if the guy doesn't notice you then your wasting your ,as for the other guys well their a prime example of what a guy should do if they like you be nice but don't lead them on,after all you no how it feel s to like someone that doesn't like you back
2007-08-17 15:10:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋