I went to lunch with someone I dated well over a decade ago (T). It didn't work out--we're friends, my husband thinks he's great and I just met his new live-in. We were at lunch, and going back and forth, "how's the job", "how are the kids" etc...and I asked T if his SO was ok with us going to lunch (my hubby's cool with it). He looked me dead in the eye and said "she has to be, because *we* (T and I) are who we are, we are friends, and if there is a problem, it's her problem. We, you and I, are not going to stop being friends. We dated, it's a fact, we've moved on and we are comfortable with our (T and my) relationship. It is her problem, if she has one". They have been together almost 1 year...how would you take that being said to you? What if you were his SO?
2007-06-07
10:22:03
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