Well in my class all the boys take the piss out of me saying my name in this sarcastic voice then everyone else joins in saying it which makes the place echo like mad! Except the girls, who are my friends [[Most of them]]
I cant handle it no more really, i mean, i have a lisp, im kinda deaf, but can hear, and apparently my voice is sqeaky ='[
I just wish i was popular with the boys. But i cant seem to be.
They just hurt my feelings. When they shout at me, i shout at them back and then they mimic the words i cant say which makes me embarrassed. I try to learn my speech but i cant help it, i just can't. What do i do? I spoke to the teachers but nothing changed =[ It's getting me down.. Thanks if you help me.. x [[ I know not everyone is not popular but it would be good to have some boy mates once in a while ]] x
2007-06-07 11:14:06 · 14 answers · asked by JackTheRipperDude!_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Im sorry to hear that. I have been through school and didnt experience any bullying. My advice to you would be to not let it affect you. If people can see it is affecting you then they will keep doing it. I dont care if you have a squeaky voice, i bet your a lovely and beautiful person. Maybe they are jealous... remember dont let it affect you.... use your friends to help you ignore them.... laugh a lot more about other things and dont let people think your weak. I bet your a strong character. Work hard and complete your studies, one day when you are something you will look back at this, laugh and think of those poor souls who laughed at you working in McDonalds (no offence to those working there).
I agree with the user below - when you are older a bit more and start to become a woman, those people will come running to ask you out... then you have control.
Good luck
2007-06-07 11:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
They are such d***heads. Sorry that you had to experience that. ust imagine what they will be like if everyone picked on them for the same thing. Some people are so nasty that it's no surprise that they are the ones who fail in life. You might think that you're a 'duckling' now but believe me when I say that you will get more confidence as you grow older and turn into a 'swan'. I know that this sounds stupid but I used to get bullied while at school but I recently found out that most of them actually liked me but didn't want to admit that in front of their 'popular' friends. Even now I have started to develop a small stutter and some people laugh and take the p**s out of me but I don't care anymore, I'm 'growing into my own skin'. I'm sorry if none of this makes sense.
2007-06-08 09:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by miss_laura_jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I'm so sorry you're going through a really tough time right now. I know you might think this might not work but hear me out. As much as their comments and hurtful attempts to mimic you, can get to you, you need to try ignore it. I know, I know, easier said than done, right? I believe you're strong enough to overcome this, ok, and you need to tell yourself the same. By ignoring their behaviour, they won't be getting their kicks from it, and soon, they will lose interest in trying to make things difficult. By you retaliating back at them, its giving them more reason to start pestering you. I know this might not sound helpful at all but please give it some thought. If there's no reaction to what they say, they'll find it boring after a while. Good luck hunni
2007-06-07 18:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by giggly nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yargh! what an awful time you're having at school. you've heaps of advice already, so my two cents worth is try to remember that the boys are immature (and will remain so well into adulthood), and the only person you can control is you, so try your best to ignore them and get on with your own stuff. after all part of their game is to get you angry so you'll embarrass yourself, which is rather pathetic. remember you have your friends and if good mates, they'll stand by you and help you through this too.
i've no doubt you'll blossom soon enough and then they'll see you in a different light, but by then you'll be beyond their level and well into your own life as a young woman. i say this because a girlfriend of mine went through something similar to you and when she blossomed over one summer she came back to school and all the boys fell over themselves to be with her. she loved the attention, but also realised they were the same wankas who teased her before, so instead she dated guys who didn't treat her badly before and made the others jealous.
all the best and sooner or later you'll meet some nice boys who are genuine and not silly morons who tease you.
2007-06-07 20:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Part of the reason they keep doing this is because you are ALWAYS bothered by it. They know what works 100% of the time, so they don't even have to think in order to do it.
Boys like that will grow up one of these days - but I don't think you want to wait several years for this to happen...
The easiest way to shut them up (eventually) is to simply ignore it. Even if it is bothering you, don't let them know that - the game is no fun for them if you don't play along.
Sure, it will get worse for a while as they continue to test you - but there will come a point at which they FINALLY realize that it doesn't bother you at all, and they will move on to tormenting someone else.
Or better still... if there is one particular boy who is the "leader" of this group - find a way to publically humiliate him, and hopefully he'll get a good taste of his own medicine. Don't try this unless you are completely out of options - as it could backfire very easily!
2007-06-07 18:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Boys mature much more slowly then girls. It sounds like these boys are very immature, and they have picked you as the target for their laughs. It is rude, unkind, and cruel.
If your teachers don't do anything about it, go to the school superiors. If the superiors don't do anything to help you, go to THEIR superiors. Most of all, tell your parents and ask them to help you in this. Your parents can threaten legal action if nothing is done after they alert the school staff of this problem.
Here in America, we have anti-bullying rules at our schools. Bullys can be prosecuted and so can the schools, for not taking action to stop the abuse.
What those boys do and say does not reflect who you are, it only shows how stupid and immature they are.
Please take action for yourself, to make this stop.
2007-06-07 20:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ignore them. They just might want more attention. People say, if you just ignore them, they will stop bothering you. If it still doesn't work, try talking to an adult to see if they can help you. People like you shouldn't be laughed at, even if they are kind of deaf. Or if someone's voice is squeaky.
2007-06-07 18:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where i use to work most people tried to take the mickey out of me and even began talking to me in a loud, rude way. I didn't mind too much because they never got violent because i would then 'lose it' and probably end up killing one of them. Every day someone would try and arguement so i said 'get eveyone who hates me and meet me outside', probably the whole building. You have to HIT one of these A.R.S.E.H.O.L.E.S. to let the rest of 'em know you aint joking. IMPEDIMENT OR NOT!
2007-06-08 16:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate people like that. And I have the same problem with the speech part. Tell your teacher or a counselor.
2007-06-07 18:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by cat_heros@sbcglobal.net 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them...and if u cant just b like....um does making fun of me make u feel special...or sumthing???? whats the point...and if that doesnt work..they r serously idiots and just talk to ur mom about it...maybe shell let u transfer...good luck..:D
2007-06-07 18:31:08 · answer #10 · answered by jane fonda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋