I know it seems shallow to ask and pretty stupid because the answer is probably going to be a big fat yes. But still, my friend's been kind of ignoring and when I talk to her, she seems annoyed. Yet when she's talking to one of our other friends, she suddenly changes from annoyed to happy. Is it just me? Or is something going on that I don't know?
2007-06-07 19:16:26 · 4 answers · asked by -XOXO- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only way to know is to openly explain your feelings to her and see what she says. She doesn't sound like a very good friend, though.
2007-06-07 19:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by barbara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to tell without knowing all the circumstances, but if it continues and it's hurting your feelings you should talk to her about it. Just ask her if everything's alright first, and then if she doesn't respond, tell her how you feel. Just say it casually - "Hey, I've noticed we've kind of been drifting apart. What's up?"
You could do that, or you could re-evaluate about yourself for a minute. Are you sure you're not being sensitive (don't worry, I've felt this way many times)? Are you sure you're not pestering her too much or suffocating her? Only you can weigh the options and decide what's best for your situation.
2007-06-08 02:26:17 · answer #2 · answered by i love love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be annoyed. but i wouldn't let it bother me too much. just leave her alone for a few days and see how every thing works out. if she has a problem with you she'll tell it to your face. if not she's not worth having as a friend.
2007-06-08 02:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring up the matter to her, dont ever let it shrinks. perhaps she is not happy with wht u have done or sth. try to talk to her. guess it would be fine.
2007-06-08 02:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by Mike P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋